A woman's proper performance in a restaurant.

For women in the new era, dinner and entertainment are both social skills and workplace skills. Socialization is inseparable from eating. In the process of eating, we can get valuable information and get to know people in life. Besides, eating with the top is a pleasure in itself. So how to eat trust in the dinner, how to eat the future connections and contacts?

Four trump cards for women's dinner and entertainment;

First, know the rules: look at people to set tables and distinguish the seating rules, which shows that you have distinguished the priorities of the guests and put yourself in the right position for dinner. If you arrange dinner, you should arrange everyone in the right place. If it is a "quilt" entertainment, you should also find your position at the first time. The ancient seating rules were very complicated, but now they are much simplified. What you need to master is that people who face the gate are respected. If it is a round table dinner, the host and guest face the gate, and the seats on both sides of the host and guest are more respected as they get closer to the host and guest, and the distance is the same. The left side is more obvious than the right side. Watching people order food is also a science. If it's your treat, the guests are usually embarrassed and let you eat a little. At this time, you should pay attention. If your boss happens to be sitting at the dinner table, you must never show him respect and let him order unless he orders himself. It is not solemn enough to ask the boss to order. If it's not your treat, don't take the initiative unless the host warmly invites you to order. At this time, you can order a dish that is not too expensive and has any taboos. You'd better ask for your advice before ordering. After ordering, you can ask if you have any other arrangements and collocation, so that everyone feels that they are taken care of. We must remember three principles when ordering food. The first principle is that one person has one dish, and men should add more. The number of cold dishes = 1/3- 1/2, and the number of hot dishes = 1.2- 1.5 times the number of diners. The second principle is the combination of cold and heat, and the meat is suitable. Dishes should be cooked and fried, supplemented by cooking and frying. Pay attention to dishes with the same cooking method and dishes with the same main ingredients. The third principle is the combination of soft and hard, you know. Even for a top banquet, there is no need to order every dish at a particularly expensive price. Let it be properly matched with vegetarian dishes, dry, wet and salty, and finally with a fruit bowl. Regional, religious and health factors should also be considered when ordering food, so as to take care of the taste of a table. At the same time, it is best to know something about food and wine to improve your taste. When conditions permit, you can also prepare some music for entertainment. Key points of wine ordering: the unit price of a bottle of wine should not exceed 1/3- 1-2 of the meal price. Red wine can go with red meat, white wine with white meat, seafood with dry white, Chinese food and other greasy foods can go with red wine.

The second is to know manners: a likable and well-behaved woman will be very popular at any dinner party. The first step is to dress correctly. Wearing a tight suit will make you look like a zongzi. If your clothes are too revealing, it is easy to cause misunderstanding. The basic rule of eating is simple and generous, not too avant-garde, unless you want to make your elders angry. The only principle for friends to get together easily is comfort. Dating a lover requires clothes to highlight their advantages and not be frivolous; If attending a business banquet, a slightly formal and informal business suit is the best choice. The second part is familiar with table manners. The key point is not to persuade others repeatedly, and not to help others with your own chopsticks. Don't start washing dishes before you turn around, don't grab food in front of your neighbors, don't fill one plate at a time, and chew slowly. Don't make any noise when eating soup, and don't chat with others when eating. Even if there is something urgent, try to wait until the host announces the end before leaving. Chopsticks are lifted, soup is served, dishes and spoons are put away, and people can be taken care of.

The third is to be good at blocking alcohol: the biggest headache for women is not fear of eating, but fear of drinking. Perhaps you need to know more about wine. No toast, impolite, crazy toast, neither polite nor generous, your quantity is definitely not enough. Soldiers will stop the wine? Next, I will introduce several practical ways to stop drinking at dinner: smoke screen. If you don't want to drink, you should emphasize repeatedly from the beginning that the most useful reason is that you are not feeling well. No one will have a headache or a fever. Men in China have the basic qualities of showing passion for jade. As long as your acting skills are in place, no one will force a sick woman to drink. Even if you can drink a lot, you should relax. Keeping a low profile is the only way to stay sober. Be gentle and polite. He forced him to be strong. Stealing the column, you and I drink white wine, I drink red wine, you and I drink red wine, and I use beer to reduce the alcohol concentration, so it is not easy to convert it into actual quantity. This muddled account is unclear. Flattery, if the above strategies don't work, then cheat if you can, coquetry if you can, don't drink a large cup if you can drink a small cup, and don't gulp if you can sip, and skillfully use the advantages and wisdom of women. A coquetry woman is the best. Instead, put two glasses, a glass of white wine and a glass of water in front of the table. When the host and guest are basically drunk at the dinner table, water can be used instead of wine. If you get caught, it doesn't matter, just change the wine. But don't swallow it right away. You can put a tissue on your mouth and spit the wine into the napkin.

The fourth is to speak. The difficulty lies not only in understanding what the other party is saying, but also in knowing what you should express. To understand what the other person is saying, we must first be good at listening. The ability to observe words and emotions can't be developed overnight, but you should convey your understanding eyes in time without interrupting. These are the secrets of listening. In the process of listening, we should not only respond to each other with oral language, but also our expressions and limbs are very important. Together, these can make the other person feel that he is highly valued and that you are listening to him carefully. Exquisite in all directions, good at warming up, is "nothing to say" with nature, and the topics at the dinner should follow the step-by-step approach, from shallow to deep. The greeting stage is usually polite, such as welcome, thank you for coming, ask about the traffic on the road, see if the hotel is easy to find, and if someone is invited, ask him why his companion didn't come by the way. We must let the guests answer the questions at this stage. In other words, it doesn't matter whether the answer is right or wrong. After taking a seat, the topic before eating is a bit like the opening remarks of the meeting. It should be introduced in a semi-formal topic, such as: "Mr. Li, I used to bother you a lot, so let's have dinner together this time and thank you." For another example, I heard that the food in this restaurant is very distinctive, so please come and have a taste. After this prologue, everyone can talk about some relatively relaxed topics, such as stories, jokes, drinks and dishes. The atmosphere of this dinner should be lively and pleasant. During the dinner, everyone drank three rounds and began to talk. You should be very careful what you say at this time. You can follow some guests, but you must never agree with others' self-mockery or whisper to each other secretly. You should distinguish between scene words and polite expressions. Only after the guests and hosts have had enough to eat and drink is the real focus. At this time, according to the purpose of their visit and the weight entrusted to them, give some hints to the guests, such as "I'll visit your office in a couple of days" and "etc." . Please pay more attention in the future "and so on. There are two topics that are especially suitable for chatting at dinner. One is hot news, as we all know, everyone can say a few words, so as not to be cold.