What should children do if they are timid, introverted and not confident?

I love: We all want our children to be more sunny and have the courage to face challenging and difficult things, so I understand your feelings very well.

Second, concretization: Can you talk about how children's timidity and self-confidence are manifested?

Third, discuss the causes of the problem, and make a concrete analysis:

A congenital personality reasons: some children have strong ability to capture emotions, are naturally sensitive, care more about other people's evaluations, and are easy to enter the heart; But some children are naturally optimistic, and it is normal for outside voices to influence them.

Solution: For children who care about external evaluation, they should pay attention to the language of comments, especially criticism, encouragement and praise, to help build self-confidence.

B no sense of self-identity: children are often criticized when they grow up. Growing up in various negative language environments, they are naturally more sensitive to the evaluation of people around them.

Solution: Use the method of appreciation education to encourage and identify with what any child has done well, encourage to be sincere and specific, avoid saying "empty words" and gradually help children build up their self-confidence.