How to be a humorous woman

If a woman knows humor, she is not necessarily beautiful, but she must be considerate and full of wisdom, and she is a popular and elegant woman.

1. Interesting women love life, know how to deal with all kinds of difficulties in their own good ways, know how to relax themselves with a smile, and know how to make themselves more attractive with wisdom.

Some people say that a woman who doesn't know humor is like a flower without fragrance, without god, only with shape. Maybe her appearance is glamorous, but it always makes people feel unattractive.

Women who are good at understanding humor are more likely to be liked.

Women who are good at expressing humor are more easily appreciated.

When women use humor as a means of communication, they must make their expressions look natural and relaxed. Only in this way can everyone around you be infected by the smell of humor.

You know, it is impossible for a woman who looks sad or depressed to bring out the true charm of humor.

Humor can bring people endless fun, so learning and skillfully using humor can make women's social life richer and happier.

Here, we should pay special attention to the fact that humor is not an idle talk. Humor should conform to human feelings, make people laugh and enlighten people at the same time. To do this, women need to have certain qualities and accomplishments.

2. As far as its function and effect are concerned, humor has many forms, including philosophical humor, pleasant humor, satirical humor and satirical humor.

In order to realize the function of humor in etiquette:

When interacting with friends and colleagues, we should use cheerful humor and philosophical humor more;

When you treat yourself, you can use humorous humor appropriately according to the specific situation.

When dealing with the wicked, we can use irony and humor more to make people around us happy, while mocking and flogging each other with humor.

A tactful word will immediately shorten the spiritual distance between you and the other person and gain the other person's good opinion. A few witty answers to difficult questions will help you get out of trouble, show a good self-image and win praise from the other side.

Sometimes, if you speak sarcastically, you will be more humorous. In daily communication, we can play the expressive skills of humorous language according to the scene. Joke is a non-aggressive language expression skill. Playing a witty and philosophical joke is to increase each other's intimacy.

3. Humorous conversation can be regarded as the crystallization of a woman's ideological realm and spiritual perception in the process of language use. Investigate its role, mainly reflected in the following aspects:

0 1 Create a relaxed atmosphere

In public places or at home, if there is an embarrassing scene, then you can use humor beyond freedom to make this situation disappear in everyone's laughter.

Let people turn defeat into victory

Humor is the comprehensive application of one's wisdom and knowledge. Humor can help a woman turn defeat into victory when she is in a very embarrassing situation in social life or when she is teased by others.

Noble sentiment and philosophical attitude towards life

Someone commented on humor: "Humor belongs to the optimist and the strong in life." Indeed, humorous talk is based on the speaker's healthy thoughts and noble taste. A person who is extremely narrow-minded and decadent can't be a humorous person. Similarly, such people will not have a sense of humor. Only optimistic, confident and noble-minded people will treat things calmly and humorously when they encounter something unsatisfactory.

Good cultural accomplishment and expressive ability.

A person's humorous speech is closely related to his own intelligence, so if he wants to be a humorous person, he must have good literacy and rich cultural knowledge. If a person knows all kinds of historical allusions, customs and customs at home and abroad, and has strong expressive ability, then he will certainly become a humorous person.

Throughout the ages, most famous humor masters are language masters.

Humor is not affectation, but a very natural expression.

As the saying goes, "I didn't mean to tell jokes, but the jokes forced me." "

However, as a woman, in order to cultivate a sense of humor, we must first cultivate and improve our own psychological ability of humor, so we must pay attention to the following points:

0 1 Observe life carefully.

If you want to have a sense of humor, you should first observe life, and when observing life and looking for comedy materials, you must be careful and learn to explore and express the materials you want from different angles.

Seriously study humor skills.

Humor is not born to a person, but acquired through acquired learning. Many books about humor and predecessors' experience can provide us with good examples, which are worthy of our serious study and use for ourselves.

Dare to express humor.

A person's humorous ability can only be tested and improved when expressing humor. If you want to be a humorous person, you must actively practice it. Therefore, after you have studied for a period of time, you can choose a suitable occasion to express your humorous skills for a suitable object.

A woman may not be beautiful or fashionable, but she needs to know humor.

Only in this way can we express ourselves better, enter more people's horizons and be understood and appreciated by more people.

Humorous language is the invisible attraction of women. You will never get tired of talking with such a woman no matter how long, because you will feel happy physically and mentally during the conversation.