Common politeness problems in children's social etiquette

Introduction: Some behaviors of children are often considered impolite by elders, such as not greeting people, interrupting when others are talking, always looking away when talking to people, and often making noises when eating. The following content sorts out five common behaviors that make parents feel impolite and how to correct them.

First, people don't say hello when they meet 1. To find out the cause of behavior, it is necessary to understand the object and situation of children's "no greeting". It may be because the child didn't notice it, it may be a common habit, or it may be that the child's situation is aimed at a specific occasion or a specific person.

Intellectuals: Parents can observe their children's characteristics, ages and occasions respectively.

2. Self-protection reaction Children's first reaction to strangers is usually withdrawal or vigilance. This is a child's response to self-protection. Adults can introduce each other to let children know each other first, and then let children learn to say hello in a guiding way.

Some behaviors of children are often considered impolite by their elders. 3. Avoid asking questions and avoid asking children "Why not call people?" Or blame the child for being "rude". It will make children retreat even more and even create a shadow in their hearts.

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Second, always don't look directly at each other when speaking 1. The child is timid and pretends. Most children cringe when facing adults taller than themselves, especially when the other person is a stranger. Some children are secretive, timid and afraid to look directly at others.

2, strengthen the child's movements If the child is naturally shy and sensitive, it is necessary to strengthen the child's movements, let the child know that looking at each other, others will know that you are talking to him, when the child tries to look at each other, let the child know that he is doing very well.

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It is impolite to make and answer the phone 1. It is very novel for children to respond to the phone properly, so when the phone rings, they always rush to answer it. When a child grabs a mobile phone, it is usually difficult for the child to respond appropriately because he can't see the other person.

2. Telephone etiquette The response to telephone calls and etiquette need to be taught and studied. Children can usually be taught basic telephone etiquette and language through small games. Children will inevitably do badly in the early stage of learning, so don't rush to correct it.

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Fourth, children's bad dining etiquette behavior is 1. The children are curious and active. Because they are active and curious, they can't sit in the dining chair and have a good meal. When children are bored, they always entertain themselves with knives, forks and plates, and even cry loudly to attract her attention.

2. Shift the focus When eating out, many children are always impatient. Parents can shift the focus appropriately, for example, let the children count the number of people present, or let the children talk about the color of the guests' clothes.

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Verb (abbreviation for verb) Children always interrupt 1. Curious dialogue content Most of the reasons why children interrupt are because they are curious about what the other person is talking about, or because they feel neglected, or even feel that they can't help but want to share something.

2. Facts encourage children to praise when interrupting, and let them know that everyone should take turns when speaking and the rules of dialogue. When children are around, we should praise and encourage them in time to avoid ignoring them.

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