Should husband and wife be absolutely honest?

As long as it doesn't involve matters of principle, I don't think it's necessary to be honest in everything. There is no such thing as empathy in this world, and no one can fully understand you. If you treat everything sincerely, the other party may not be able to grasp your truth. Everyone likes to listen to good words, not the truth. This is human nature, and couples are no exception.

I remember watching a variety show called "Mother-in-law 2" before. In the show, Chen Songling said that the only rule between her and her husband, Zhang Duo, was that both sides were absolutely honest and they would enjoy a better position. I am very surprised at this. If there is such a rule, I should be the first to jump out and object, and I can't be the first myself. I have my own thoughts and secrets. Not everything is worth telling, and not everything can be explained. I think couples also need some space for themselves. Even if they are married, they are two independent individuals. We can warm each other, do things independently and not interfere with each other. As the saying goes, distance produces beauty, and absolute honesty loses its charm.

The couple I admire most are the literary master Ba Jin and his wife Xiao Shan. Ba Jin went to work far away after marriage. In correspondence with his wife, he will tell her the dangers of his work and his thoughts on his wife. However, while being frank, he also respects Xiao Shan's private space very much. When two people were lovers, Ba Jin was hesitant because of his age. On one occasion, Xiao Shan said that his father gave himself a man, and Ba Jin obviously felt uncomfortable. Xiao Shan still showed respect for Xiao Shan's choice. Experience is ba Jin's respect let shan feel cherish. No matter how close the relationship is, it is impossible to have no boundaries. A good relationship between husband and wife, the boundary between two people, is to be honest with each other and respect each other's private space.

Generally speaking, I think it is the way of husband and wife to respect privacy in small matters and be honest with each other in big matters. Be honest with each other about major issues, such as children, health status and economic problems. Husband and wife should be honest with each other. On these issues, even well-intentioned concealment may lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Honesty in principle is the basis of trust in the relationship between husband and wife. Even if the little things are forgotten, a good partner will respect each other even if he is curious.