Don't do these three things between in-laws, or you will easily make enemies.

There are three kinds of relationships between people in this world, one is blood relationship, the other is non-blood relationship, and the other is "blood relationship", which has changed from a completely unfamiliar non-blood relationship to an enemy in the depths of the ocean.

This fate is the in-laws relationship;

In-laws, because of children and marriage, became a family;

Before, the two families did not have the same life experience and did not understand each other's family culture.

If you can communicate smoothly and get along well, it will be of great help to the cultivation of children's feelings. If you are picky everywhere and don't accommodate each other, it will bring deep harm to each other and lead to the child's marriage being restless.

Even if you kiss again, you should pay attention to some problems when you get along. One thing you don't intend to do may destroy the original harmonious relationship between you.

Everyone is born with a need to be recognized and accepted, and no one likes to be criticized, especially those who deliberately criticize and cause disputes with personal feelings and prejudice.

In-laws regard their children as the best in the world, which is the meat falling from themselves, their genes and all the advantages. Therefore, criticizing a child is hitting yourself in the face.

People who know how to get along with their in-laws will talk about their children with emotion and reason, first talk about their children's problems and troubles, and then put forward their expectations and requirements for each other's children;

In this way, both sides can be calm, the problem is easier to solve, and even really reflect on the child's shortcomings and privately ask for corrections;

On the other hand, when the in-laws meet, they don't hesitate to say anything, but also blame each other's children. Then the other party is very aware of this provocative gesture, either arguing with you directly, or letting everyone's hearts have started a war of abuse, and contradictions are on the verge;

So, if you think you are ugly, don't tell others easily. First, reflect on yourself. Is there any suspicion of favoring children? If there is, you will be encouraged to change it, and then consider how to communicate with your in-laws.

Don't be picky, it will only make adults competitive and embarrass children.

Even if you fall in love with your in-laws, no matter how good your feelings are and how frequent your contacts are, it is easy to have bad feelings;

Every family has its own set of ideas and living habits, and it is not bad to get together once in a while during the New Year.

Frequent contact, or lack of sense of boundary, is actually an interruption.

For example, some in-laws feel that they have a big face or are very familiar with their in-laws. Without greeting or preparation, they took some people to their in-laws' home for dinner.

Easy-going in-laws generally don't refuse, but also warmly entertain and prepare a large table of dishes. If they are too tired to speak, the other person may not help at all, talking and laughing, and directing you to do this and that, as if he were the master.

No matter how close you are, remember not to be too familiar;

Remember, your in-laws are not your own family, so you should walk with proper manners and discretion. Otherwise, you will take yourself too seriously, make people look at jokes for nothing, and get bored with you behind your back.

Between parents-in-law, many contradictions and bad feelings will accumulate in many daily activities, from children's meeting before marriage and bride price, to dinner in marriage, caring for the elderly and accompanying gifts.

People with high emotional intelligence know how to adjust their negative emotions, learn to let go, or actively solve them, instead of spreading them to outsiders everywhere;

Some people say: a person who doesn't sleep in two places under a pillow.

What kind of person you are, you will probably find what kind of partner. Similarly, your in-laws are generally in the same class as you, even matching your three views and having the same moral level.

If you tell outsiders all kinds of dissatisfaction with your in-laws, they will not sympathize with your difficulties. At most, they do some appeasement and understanding on the surface. If they speak ill of you behind your back, they will tell you that you are not a family and don't enter a house, making you a laughing stock of others.

If it happens to be known by in-laws, it will only make the misunderstanding deeper and even irreconcilable;

Of course, it is impossible for in-laws with different views to go on for a long time, and the middle will certainly fall apart;

Aware of the lack of virtue and serious disharmony of relatives, you can stop your children in time, don't make a fuss, and live in the gossip of people around you.

As parents, we should be the spiritual comfort of children and the guardian of happy marriage;

If you can't add icing on the cake, please learn to live in harmony with your in-laws, and don't let contradictions and problems ruin the happiness of your family.

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