If you want to receive blessings, what words should you avoid saying in life if you want to have blessings?

In the "Tao Te Ching", there is such a sentence, which expresses the true meaning of interpersonal communication:

It is better to keep the center than to talk too much.

A person's boastful talk can easily expose personal weaknesses; it is better to be a silent and steady person, which can avoid the embarrassment of making mistakes when talking too much and leave a good impression on everyone.

Language is a tool for communication, and it has magical power in interpersonal relationships.

Some people are good at words, and they will make people feel like spring breeze as soon as they speak.

However, for these friends, most of them have enough social experience and the emotional intelligence to put themselves in others' shoes; they have even been deliberately trained to improve their speaking skills.

In "Eternal Words for Awakening the World", it is mentioned that "the tongue is the root of benefit and harm, and the mouth is the door of blessing and disaster".

In life, it is the dream of many friends to improve their blessings and live a comfortable life. Some friends can give people the feeling of spring breeze blowing in their words, and they can win good popularity and improve their own luck without realizing it.

And some people are clumsy with their words. Once they speak, they may cause trouble for themselves.

If we lack the charm of language, how can we win recognition through interpersonal relationships? Traditionally, there is such a word that can give us certain enlightenment, that is, "accumulate virtue with words".

It is easy to open and difficult to shut up. At critical moments, if you can keep your mouth shut and say a few words less, you may be able to maintain the bottom line in interpersonal relationships and become someone that everyone is willing to associate with.

Buddha said, don’t let blessing slip away from your mouth. If you want to be blessed, just say "three sentences", don't underestimate it.

Look down on other people’s words.

Ups and downs are common in a person's life.

Smart friends, when interacting with others, will not look down on the other person just because they are in a trough, nor will they say words that look down upon others in their words.

You must know that a person's situation is never static.

Perhaps, due to the influence of some factors, he is temporarily in a depressed situation. Maybe at a certain turning point, this person will be able to break through the clouds and see the sun. From then on, he will ride the wind and waves and prosper.

If the other person learns that when he needs help, you are pouring cold water on him behind his back, it is obvious that the relationship between you will be frozen from then on, and you will never have the chance to be a true friend.

There is an old saying that goes, "Thirty years to the east of the river and thirty years to the west of the river."

The inspiration given to us is that we should not underestimate anyone around us. If we want to be a blessed person, we should avoid saying things that look down upon others. Only in this way can we attract noble people and avoid villains.

Only in a subtle way can your character be recognized by everyone, and blessings will follow.

Words of discouragement.

A person with a positive heart not only has positive energy himself, but can also use his words to inspire people around him.

Even if faced with challenges, this person will not choose to retreat, but will have an optimistic attitude to win the desired results; everyone will also become brave and responsible under his encouragement.

While facing challenges head-on, we gradually move closer to success.

Friends like this will inspire people wherever they go, and will become friends that everyone is willing to accept; after all, you will benefit a lot from associating with such people.

On the contrary, there is a kind of person who is anxious when something happens, and they also use words to disturb the people around them.

You must know that no one’s life is spent in calmness, impermanence is the normal state of life; if you lack enough wisdom, you will blame others and others when encountering difficulties, and even say some nonsense. , will only make yourself more depressed.

Not only that, those lost words may have a negative impact on others.

There is also a possibility that when you keep saying those depressing words, it will make everyone laugh and put you in an insignificant position and never take you seriously again.

Tell people good and bad things.

For a long time, if you want to achieve the goal of self-cultivation, you need to be "cautious and independent".

So, how to understand the two words "Shendu"? From a literal meaning, it means that when you are alone, you must be careful and not violate the principles and bottom lines, so as to achieve the purpose of restraining yourself.

Good conduct is the key to being widely accepted by everyone.

In interpersonal relationships, if you want to gain recognition and support from your friends, expand your network, and receive luck, you need to be a person of good conduct, so that you can welcome noble people as time goes by. Opportunities to help and improve blessings.

A kind word can warm you in three winters, but a bad word can hurt you in six months. ?"Zengguang Xianwen"

Some words can bring people closer to each other.

However, words that expose people's shortcomings will give people a sense of duplicity, which will only make a person gradually lose good popularity, and then damage his personal blessings.

This means that everyone should be a cautious person in their interpersonal relationships; do not talk about their shortcomings in front of others, and more importantly, be a person who does not talk about their shortcomings when they are alone. A person who is good or bad to others.

Interpersonal communication is a knowledge full of wisdom.

If you successfully gain everyone's recognition in the process of communicating with others, you will easily encounter the support of noble people and the guidance of talented people in your future life and work, thus making the situation more comfortable. .

If you are ignored because of your words, it is easy for a person to fall into an embarrassing situation.

Being a truly smart person and not saying hurtful words in interpersonal relationships will help a person maintain his image and have fewer doubts. It can also subtly improve his own blessings. I hope you I understand.