How to get girls to take the initiative to chat with you?

In reality, it is normal for girls not to take the initiative to contact boys.

Unless you are so charming that girls become obsessed with you. In a relationship between the sexes, men generally act as the aggressive party, while women act as the passive party. Every time you talk to a girl, you worry about what topics to talk about, and what topics to talk about without being too low-key? What should I talk about to make a girl interested in me? Girls also have such troubles.

You hope that she will take the initiative to chat with you, but what will she talk to you about?

In the relationship between the sexes, a woman’s instinct is to be reserved and tactful. This kind of thing that is not necessary and nerve-wracking is naturally not done. But you said that every time you chat with her, she replies quickly and can even make an appointment.

It means that she reacts well to you and there is no big problem between you. Of course, if you want her to take the initiative to find you, there is a way.

For example, you both like to play games. You are both old players from Honor of Kings to PlayerUnknown’s Battlegrounds. You usually exchange experiences and some scenes in the game with your teammates. When you share something with her, she will also When you are looking for someone to communicate with, if you go back and forth like this, she will not feel that she does not know what to talk to you

I am just giving an example. There are many opportunities like this. It is easiest for her to take the initiative to find you in places where there are intersections in her life and things she is involved in together. For example, if you want her to take the initiative to find you if she has the same hobbies, travel, music, reading, or sports, you need to give her a reason to take the initiative to find you, that is, there are steps to take the initiative. Otherwise, why would she come to you? The same is true in interpersonal relationships. Nothing connects you, and you gradually become distant.

At present, there are no big problems between you. If you really want her to come to you more often, add more intersections in your life so that she has a reason to take the initiative to come to you