Do smart people talk early in infancy?

Hello, Ma Jing, a four-legged creature in the field of parenting, to answer this interesting question.

Do smart people talk early when they are young? It doesn't have to be like this. Many scientists, because they are introverted and good at thinking, may speak later. For example, Einstein, a talented scientist, didn't start talking until he was 4 years old. Therefore, there is also a saying among the people that nobles speak late.

Speaking sooner or later is not the same as being smart.

Children's Language Education We found that some children 10 months can talk, and even a baby in Jilin some time ago will open his mouth and call his mother in 23 days. And this mother said that she often talked to her baby during the fetal period. So speaking sooner or later has a lot to do with our education.

1, prenatal education

The baby's hearing has developed during pregnancy, and prenatal education is also beneficial for the baby to speak early. For example, mom and dad tell stories and mom talks to the baby every day.

Step 2 talk in infancy

When the child can't talk, parents should give the child enough language stimulation. For example, tell the baby that we need to change diapers as soon as we change diapers, and tell the baby when we drink milk. Babies should understand adults before they learn to speak.

3. The simpler the language environment at home, the better.

Some words at home are like Eight-Nation Alliance. Grandpa speaks Shandong dialect, grandma speaks Hakka dialect, dad speaks Mandarin, and mom speaks Mandarin. Alternating several languages will make children a little uncomfortable, and such children speak late.

4. Parents are too sensitive

Children's language is used to express and achieve their goals, such as wanting what they need. If you can get what you want without expressing yourself, then children will feel that speaking is not important and naturally don't want to speak so early.

When children learn to talk, parents try their best to make them talk, such as children asking for milk and pointing at it. We asked him, what do you want? Is it milk? Is it milk? Mom won't know until you say it. Instead of waiting for the baby to say it, take the initiative to give it to the child.

When will children learn to speak? We may see that some children can talk at the age of one, but they are not very anxious at the age of one. In fact, most children don't start talking much until they are two years old. Before I was two years old, I often said words or didn't express them clearly. Many children suddenly learn to speak a lot after they are two years old, so parents need not worry too much.

What does a child's cleverness have to do with? Intelligence refers to IQ, which is related to our inheritance. Besides heredity, we are more about education. Children's IQ is not only reflected in the number of IQ, but also in the comprehensive ability of social adaptability, independence, social responsibility, daily life, interpersonal communication and so on. , mainly the influence of the acquired environment. No matter whether the child speaks sooner or later, or whether the child is smart or not, parents need education the day after tomorrow.

Topic: How old does the baby start?

My children can definitely call their mother when they are six months old, and they can definitely call their father in July. He never misses anyone. Calling him uncle and dad is someone else's joke. The child speaks early, but walks much later. It takes a year and two months to walk. Other people's children hope that they will not run away from home after ten months. My family is rubbing on the sofa, afraid of death, and lazy! Children remember things very early, starting from the age of two. Their memory is better than that of ordinary people. In terms of language, it only takes others half the time to achieve the effect! I also play the piano. Speaking early means listening well, and language talent and musical talent are more obvious.

Excluding exceptions, on the whole, it is true.

From the psychological point of view, children's development can be divided into three parts: physical, cognitive, emotional and social. Good language development will in turn lead to better development in other aspects.

Having said that, the development of language is different for each child:

1, gender

In most cases, girls' language develops a little earlier than boys'. The current explanation is that girls' bodies mature faster, which promotes the development of the left hemisphere of the brain, while language is located in the left hemisphere.

2. Temperament

Introverted and cautious toddlers usually wait until they understand a lot before they speak. The period when they only listen and don't talk is called "silent period". Once they speak, their vocabulary will increase rapidly.

I think this is the case with my boss. She is naturally cautious, not only in language but also in other things. She is used to observing first.

3. Style

There are two kinds. Most children are "indicative", that is, they say the names of things first, such as tables, chairs, plates, etc.

A few of them are "expressive" and use social expressions and pronouns, such as "thank you" and "I want it".

Relatively speaking, indicative children are more interested in exploring and naming things, which also promotes the rapid growth of vocabulary. Children who are good at expressing tend to be highly socialized and their vocabulary grows slowly.

So, how to promote early language development?

1, response

When the baby began to make "oh, oh, oh" sounds and babbled, it began to respond. Generally, when a baby is 2 months old, it will make a "oh, oh, oh" cooing sound, and when it is 4 months old, it will begin to babble.

2. Common concern

Babies pay attention to where adults look from 4 months, and this skill is more accurate from 9- 15 months.

When adults and children pay attention to something together, they can express it in words. This process is called "common attention". Joint attention can not only promote children's language development, but also keep children's attention for a long time.

3. Dialogue and conversation

Including daily dialogue, common concern and parent-child reading.

In particular, the dialogue about picture books is particularly effective, which can expose children to a wide range of language and reading and writing knowledge, from vocabulary, grammar and communication skills to writing symbols, story structure and other information.

4. Use child-oriented language

When speaking, use short sentences, high-profile and exaggerated intonation, clear pronunciation, slow speech speed and repetition of new words. I feel that most adults will automatically adjust to the "child-to-child language" mode when talking to infants, which seems to be an instinct.

Therefore, under normal circumstances, it is only a matter of time before children speak, excluding the two congenital factors of gender and temperament. The richer the language environment, the better the children's language development, and the children with good language development will also drive their other development and form a virtuous circle.

Observe the situation around you. If adults with children prefer children, they will naturally respond to them and chat with them.

If adults are forced to take care of children, or are depressed, they rarely interact with children.

In addition, parents and children can not only gain knowledge, but also get spiritual nourishment from stories. Parents also benefit a lot, such as close parent-child relationship.

It should be noted that adults need to be child-centered when responding to children, interacting with children and speaking. Don't ignore a child's wishes in order to promote his language development. For example, when children don't want to talk, don't talk when they are listless.

The above answers refer to the psychology textbook "Babies, Children and Teenagers". You can read this book directly if you are interested.

What I wrote is the main characteristics of children's development at different stages, which is quite valuable for reference. The main reason is that I feel more confident after reading it, and it also promotes my understanding of children, so I feel less anxious.

The above is my answer, thank you!

My son couldn't speak until he was three years old. His IQ is 159, and his college entrance examination score is 692. I have been working now, because my work is related to algorithms, and it is a mental work. Although my colleagues are all Daniel, there are still some differences. Some people have weak language skills, but the algorithm is beautiful and the expression ability is great, but the modeling level is average ... actively observe and discover the advantages of children, give play to their own advantages, and don't use their own weaknesses to compete with others' advantages. This is what a qualified parent should do.

Whether a person is smart or not is not necessarily related to speaking in infancy. The simplest example: Einstein didn't start talking until he was 4 years old. No one dares to doubt that Einstein is not clever, right? Therefore, when the child speaks has nothing to do with whether the baby is smart or not.

Children talk sooner or later, mainly related to the following factors:

1, prenatal education is early during pregnancy, and neuronal links are relatively active; After the baby is born, parents often talk to the baby. This kind of baby usually speaks earlier.

2, the baby speaks early, which is also related to the development of sensory organs, especially the development of the auditory system, which means that the baby's hearing is no problem.

3, the baby speaks early, and it is also related to the development of the baby's vocal organs. For example, babies with short tongue, little crawling training and insufficient vestibular function stimulation will speak later.

4, the baby speaks sooner or later, but also related to the child's concentration. In reality, many babies are addicted to games, and their parents shouted twice that their babies disagreed. This kind of baby may talk late, but his learning ability is excellent.

What kind of baby is smarter? Whether a baby is smart or not, 70% depends on pregnancy (this process also includes heredity, gene mutation and nutrition during pregnancy), and the remaining 30% depends on the child's interest and ability to learn after birth, as well as the guidance of parents and scientific education methods.

In addition to the above factors, statistically speaking, smart children mostly have the following characteristics:

1, babies born of mixed or mixed marriages are relatively smarter. Some research data show that "mixed-race" babies born in cross-regional and inter-racial marriages are not only more beautiful, but also very smart. However, this is limited to intermarriage between East Asians. On the contrary, the IQ level of white and black babies will drop by about 10%, which may be related to the limitations of the mutant gene itself.

2. Babies with type O blood are smarter. For example, Baba's blood is O-type, and the mother is also O-type. In this case, there is no need to consider hemolysis, and the baby is also O-type. This kind of baby is born with a strong memory, and its learning ability and innovation ability belong to a very excellent category. You can think of several big names: for example, Mr. Ma Yun, Mr. Ma Hua Teng and Mr. Bill Gates. These bosses are all type O blood!

3, the baby's concentration is very high, observing things with special care, playing quietly, and having strong hands-on ability. When this kind of baby grows up, it's hard to be smart.

In short: whether a person is smart or not is not necessarily related to speaking in infancy. When the baby talks late (even some babies may not start talking until they are 3 4 years old), in addition to taking their children to see a doctor, parents should also keep enough tolerance time and patience.

A few days ago, my husband invited several good friends and held a small family party at home. One of them took a baby over 3 years old, and the mother revealed her worries in the chat. Children of the same age have been able to speak freely for a long time, while their own children can only say some simple words and don't like to express them at ordinary times. They were worried about whether there was something wrong with their intelligence or something, so another friend advised them: "Everyone says that if the nobles come home late, the children will definitely have a future."

How to judge whether a child speaks late? The American Academy of Pediatrics gives different standards according to different months:

If a child can't pronounce simple "A" and "O" at the age of one, it is necessary to pay attention to whether it is caused by physical diseases, such as hearing impairment and autistic tendency. If you have these symptoms, you should treat them as soon as possible.

What should I do if my baby speaks late? After excluding physical illness, we have to find out what family factors are affecting him.

1, family members don't like to talk, or rarely talk, and the baby has no language stimulation. If there is such a reason, please talk to your baby more.

2. The language environment at home is too messy. Some studies have found that if there are families with multilingual communication, the language delay of children will be higher than that of monolingual families, and the baby's brain is still in the development stage. Multilingualism can confuse the brain that accepts the language, so please try to communicate in one language at home.

Mom is too considerate. When the baby is just a little hungry, feed the food into his mouth and give the toy to the baby with his fingers. Mother is so considerate that the child can get what he wants without expressing it at all. In this case, it is best to let the baby contact with other members of the family and give the baby a chance to express himself.

Do you have to be smart to speak early? At present, there is no research to prove that children who speak early must be smarter than those who speak late, and the speaking time of babies is influenced by many factors.

Children who talk late may not be good at expressing themselves, but that doesn't mean they are not smart. Celebrities like Einstein, Feynman and clara schumann are also late speakers, but they are all very successful scientists, physicists and piano players.

Therefore, parents should not worry about whether their children speak early or late. As a basic interpersonal skill, most children can cross this hurdle by themselves. Speaking late does not mean that they are not smart, and speaking early does not mean that they have a future.

I will call my parents at seven or eight months, and my mother will put me in a walker at five or six months. At that time, my grandmother kept a hen at home. When the hen laid eggs, she cackled. I watched and barked like a hen. I can walk for seventeen months, but my mother said I would keep walking. When I am put on the bed, I will walk, but when I am put on the floor, I will not walk. Other children can fly at my age, and I have been held by my mother. When I was five or six, I was lonely. I can play with myself all day. I am quiet when other children touch me everywhere. My mother hugged me and chatted with others. I sat in her arms and listened to her chat. My grandfather took me away when he went to play mahjong. I play mahjong by myself, and I can play mahjong for three or four hours by myself. We have an old saying here: say early and exquisite, and leave early and suffer. My family always thought I was smart, and now I only study in ordinary colleges and universities, so early doesn't mean smart.

Speaking sooner or later should not determine a child's IQ. Personally, a son will not speak his parents' words until he is two and a half years old, and he will not speak formally until he is three years old. His pronunciation is not clear at all, and his cognitive understanding ability is not good by guessing. Went to the hospital and said that he was suspected of autism spectrum. I trained him for half a year. It has been five weeks now. I know math very well. I know how to multiply and divide simply, and I know how to add and subtract quickly. I especially like drawing mazes and making things. I am curious. I like weather changes and lightning. I'm particularly curious about electricity. Always ask me questions about conductors and insulators. He is interested in talking with him about any topic. Generally speaking, he is better at math than other children of his age. So it depends on development! Every child develops differently!

Thank you for inviting me. I know the opposite. Many powerful people talk very late. As for why they speak late, I guess it's their clever genes. Let me sum up the benefits of speaking late. Let's analyze the reasons first. Doing things without being disturbed, in fact, is simply speaking late. Is to participate in less social activities. People's energy and time are limited after all. In modern society, due to the development of information and transportation, many relatives in every family often move. If children can talk, as long as there are guests at home, they will be called out to greet them. Sometimes in the middle of playing, the child is often disturbed, and what he is doing is often disturbed. Being disturbed by children is precisely the reason why children cannot concentrate when they grow up. Parents will also let their children say hello to all kinds of people when they are away from home. It is also disturbing children's complete work and complete thinking. If children can't talk so early, they can learn about nature and observe society according to human animal nature. And at the same time make your own judgment and think independently. This is a particularly good thing. It's too early to say that although asking questions can get answers, it also reduces independent thinking. Play undisturbed. The above is my analysis of the benefits of speaking late. Help to keep more nature; Help to cultivate concentration; Helps to think independently. Parents are also urged not to disturb their children in their middle childhood. My child didn't start talking until he was two years old. At that time, his grandfather was concerned about whether the child had a problem or was dumb. Miraculously, after he was two years old, the baby began to speak, directly the whole sentence, articulate and well expressed, and became a chatterbox.

Children who grew up together, 1 1 month began to speak. Now both children are primary school bullies in the eyes of others. I have observed them for many years, and I don't think it has much to do with children's cleverness. In fact, today's children are smart because they are knowledgeable and accept knowledge in many ways. But speaking sooner or later seems to be related to the child's personality, and introverted and shy children seem to speak late.