What about the unemployed college student who came home after graduation?

What happened to the unemployed college student who went home after graduation?

Xiaohai's score after one year's repetition is a few points worse than that of the other two schools. Later, a certain two colleges in the province dropped a few minutes, and he barely went to college after receiving a professional adjustment, which was regarded as every cloud has a silver lining.

When I was in college, like most people, I was ordinary if I didn't talk about mediocrity. University for four years, graduated as scheduled.

Due to the poor school, there are few job fairs in the school during graduation season. Many students either choose to take the postgraduate entrance examination, or they can only submit their resumes online to find jobs. It is difficult to find an ideal job.

Low-end jobs are detrimental to the dignity of college students, and high-end jobs are not suitable. Faced with the cruel reality, they can only passively accept it. After all, you must survive before you seek something better.

You can say that he is not sensible and does not make progress, or that he is high or low. In a word, Xiao Hai found a job after graduation and left school, so he had to go home.

His parents were very angry and sent him to school, hoping that he would go out of the countryside. He went home and broke his parents' hearts.

02

I have nothing to do when I get home. If you don't sleep every night, you can't get up in the morning. My parents are very anxious every day, urging him to find a job. Even if it is not good, I will do it first, which is better than staying at home.

Xiaohai always makes money on the pretext that he can't find a good job. To this end, he often quarrels with his parents. Once, his father slapped him in anger. Neighbors in the village saw Xiaohai at home all the time, and occasionally someone asked, didn't the child graduate? Why doesn't he go to work? At first, Xiaohai's parents could only lie that the company reported late, and the children would come back for a few days first.

But after a long time, such a lie can't live. Gradually, all kinds of bad comments began to spread to Xiaohai's parents in the village. People around you have different eyes, and Xiaohai's parents have begun to dodge, and they can't get out if they can't get out.

Parents and relatives have asked Xiaohai several times. Have you been staying in the countryside when you are not at work? Your parents have provided you with such a long education, and now you have broken their hearts.

Xiaohai kept silent and never said what he really thought. Maybe he is too homesick and afraid of the outside world. Maybe he's just a broken pot, and he can't find a good job anyway. That's it. Give up on yourself

03

In this way, day after day until the Spring Festival, he stayed at home. During the Chinese New Year, parents and relatives took turns telling Xiaohai all kinds of truths, hoping that he would even beg him to go out and find a job after the Chinese New Year.

Xiaohai finally let go. He said that he would go to the county to find a job after the New Year. His parents' hearts were torn apart by him again. What are you doing as an undergraduate, a security guard and a coolie in the county? What did you study in college?

Xiaohai didn't say anything either. After the Spring Festival, he went to the county supermarket to find a job as a goods counter.

He couldn't listen to anything his parents said, and this result gradually became the default fact. Xiaohai hangs out with the boys in the village after work every day. He has long forgotten that he is a college student.

A few years later, he married a rural daughter-in-law, lived in the countryside, and was completely a rural person. This is the end of Xiaohai, and it is extremely sad to return to the countryside as a farmer after finishing college.

04

I want to tell my college friends, especially those from rural areas, that no matter how difficult it is to find a job after graduation, no matter how bad the job is, don't go home to find a job easily.

1. Your parents have worked hard to send you to college. I hope you can go out of the countryside, out of a small county and live a better life in a bigger city. This is also the most basic meaning of going to college.

2, people are lazy, staying at home for a long time in a comfortable and familiar environment will kill your will and fighting spirit, and it will be difficult to get out after you go back.

Only when we reach a broader stage will there be more possibilities. No matter what level of university you study, no matter how your university is, first of all, you can't go back to the countryside and small counties, otherwise you have lost all possibilities.

I really like a sentence by Liang Jian and Li Yunlong: Even if you die, you have to take the lead.

To paraphrase this sentence, I want to tell you: after graduation, I would rather be difficult than go back to the countryside and small counties, and be difficult on the big stage.

This is a kind of determination, a kind of courage, and a spirit of Jedi counterattack.