65-year-old mother-in-law insists on 24-year breakup fee

I received a letter from reader M, in which thousands of words circulated. M's mother-in-law is short, less than 1.5 meters, but she is not ugly. Even now she is over sixty, she is still a handsome little old lady. M said that her mother-in-law had many choices when she was young, but somehow she married her father-in-law. Mother-in-law is a fertility tool, a working tool and a doormat. When mother-in-law M gave birth to her son, her father-in-law cheated on her. 65 years old, an old man, but a demon. One weekend, after her mother-in-law came back from the university for the aged, she called her children home for a family meeting, and her father-in-law was also present. As a result, my mother-in-law came up with a divorce agreement. M also thinks that her mother-in-law went to college for a while, and divorce is a bit of a fuss and ridiculous. And the divorce agreement clearly States that the property is to be divided.

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I received a letter from reader M, in which thousands of words circulated.

In order not to affect everyone's reading time, I reduced it, which means something like this:

M's mother-in-law is short, less than 1.5 meters, but she is not ugly. Even now she is over sixty, she is still a handsome little old lady.

But a little timid.

How can you be timid?

M said that her mother-in-law had many choices when she was young, but somehow she married her father-in-law.

Her father-in-law is not a good thing.

The family is so poor, incompetent, idle and grumpy.

My mother-in-law graduated from junior high school (when she graduated from junior high school, she was highly educated). She can embroider, knit sweaters and grow crops in the fields. She also learned the technique of grasping medicine and seeing a doctor from an old Chinese doctor for several years, and she is also a good hand at housework.

It stands to reason that her mother-in-law is beautiful, has a strong ability to make money, has a high position in the family and has a great voice.

But mother-in-law and father-in-law are the other way around. My father-in-law is the head of the family.

Mother-in-law is a fertility tool, a working tool and a doormat. After giving birth to her daughter, she didn't rest for a year and gave birth to a second child.

As long as the father-in-law is unhappy, he will take it out on his mother-in-law and scold her for hitting her.

In this regard, my mother-in-law never knows how to answer back and will not fight back. I went back to my mother's house several times when I was uncomfortable, and I was sulking for a few days. My mother-in-law went home without waiting for her grandfather's invitation.

Sometimes my mother-in-law condescends to say that she is not good in order to make peace.

When mother-in-law M gave birth to her son, her father-in-law cheated on her.

My mother-in-law saw it with her own eyes when she was pregnant.

The scene was chaotic and embarrassing.

My mother-in-law could have rushed over and slapped each of them, but she was timid. She didn't eat except to go home and cry with her daughter. Later, there was no way to punish my father-in-law

On the contrary, in the face of my father-in-law's riddled sophistry and Po Hou, I chose to trust and forgive him.

Later, my father-in-law betrayed my mother-in-law once, and her mother-in-law put up with it as if nothing had happened.

My father-in-law's scandal made everyone in the village know and became the talk of others after dinner. Everyone wants to see how the mother-in-law will clean up her father-in-law.

If you don't get divorced, at least you should make a scene and scare him.

The mother-in-law's family also spoke and asked her father-in-law to explain. If the father-in-law doesn't give it, he asks her mother-in-law if she wants to go home. Mother-in-law thinks about it or chooses to live with him.

Many people say that her mother-in-law is hopeless, timid and too timid. ...

When M first got married, she accidentally learned that her mother-in-law was really timid.

A woman's shame.

So when she saw her parents-in-law, she felt used to it, probably because there must be something hateful about the poor.

M felt that if this happened, he would have slapped love rat in the face. Where will she give him a chance to argue and forgive?

And you have to divorce your child in minutes.

Anyone who wants to live with a derailed man and a domestic violence man has had it!

Anyway, she just ... ...

That's how she warned her husband.

She just doesn't understand how her mother-in-law put up with it.

This kind of thing is just like a fantasy. What's so good about my father-in-law? Is it worthwhile to bear the burden of humiliation for his life?

Men in the world are not dead!

Later, she and her mother-in-law got used to living, and gradually stopped looking down on her mother-in-law, thinking that it was her life, but still felt sorry for her mother-in-law.

M thought that her mother-in-law would be like this in her life, carrying a timid shell all her life.

But something happened a few days ago, and everyone thought her mother-in-law was very strange and almost unknown.

She became crazy and incomprehensible.

65 years old, an old man, but a demon.

One weekend, after her mother-in-law came back from the university for the aged, she called her children home for a family meeting, and her father-in-law was also present.

They think their mother-in-law will explain what will happen in a hundred years. She said it before.

As a result, my mother-in-law came up with a divorce agreement.

She made it clear that she wanted to divorce her father-in-law, and hoped that this matter would be implemented as soon as possible.

Now the whole family is blown up.

Husband m didn't understand at first and thought her mother-in-law was crazy. Her sister also said that her mother-in-law was confused. Father-in-law was silent, and obviously knew something earlier.

But his face is as ugly as the bottom of a pot. A mother-in-law is crazy and unreasonable.

M also thinks that her mother-in-law went to college for a while, and divorce is a bit of a fuss and ridiculous.

She didn't listen to what happened to them recently. When it comes to father-in-law, is it as bad as those embarrassing things you did when you were young?

At that time, my mother-in-law could endure not to divorce. Now she is old, her life is smooth, her children are married, and her grandchildren are here. How does she live? Why do you have to divorce?

Isn't it enough for the old lady to joke?

And the divorce agreement clearly States that the property is to be divided. She wanted this house and told her father-in-law to find another place to live.

Mother-in-law also said that she took a lot of money from her family and had to make compensation for housework for decades according to the requirements of the marriage law.

M thinks that the divorce of in-laws at this time is to increase the burden on children. The mother-in-law has a house, the father-in-law has a house, and the property should be divided. What is it like?

Say it out, relatives have no face, and they can't face themselves when they go back to their parents' house. And how to tell children about the divorce of grandparents.

And m also knows that my father-in-law can't get any marriage compensation at all, and he doesn't want to take it.

Mother-in-law means that she will get money and a house, and maybe she will find a wife for herself in the future.

Everyone advised her mother-in-law not to toss about, but her mother-in-law kept clamoring for a divorce. She can't say the specific reason, but she doesn't want to live with her father-in-law.

My father-in-law also made a determined effort to say that my mother-in-law could do whatever she wanted.

Now M and her husband, elder sister-in-law and brother-in-law are still doing the ideological work of her mother-in-law in turn.

I think my mother-in-law has been timid for most of her life. If she has endured it for most of her life, then don't be a demon in her later years.

Mother-in-law should think of her children and not be too selfish.

But what her mother-in-law means is that she wants to live for herself.

M asked me, is her mother-in-law old and sentimental?

She also asked me what I could do to keep her mother-in-law from getting divorced.

Faced with this problem, I refused.

There's nothing I can do. Even if there is, I am an outsider after all.

But from my heart.

I don't think mother-in-law M has a big problem, but M is a little anxious.

M's mother-in-law, who never divorced after something like that before, doesn't mean she must be timid. Now that she is 65 years old, if she wants a divorce, she doesn't have to understand that she is a sophisticated and melodramatic old lady.

I think she finally found herself.

It's just that I'm old and transparent, and at some point I suddenly want to know what I want in my life.

Just because people didn't understand before doesn't mean they don't understand all their lives.

Just because a person has to endure before doesn't mean she has to endure all her life.

She wants to jump out of this misunderstanding and live for herself once. What do you mean too much?

It doesn't matter how many years a person wants to live for himself.

Only the mother-in-law's children still don't understand her inner thoughts.

When I understand, I don't think my mother-in-law is selfish and melodramatic.

When this mother-in-law was young, she could have many choices.

But she may feel nothing in many choices, only interested in M's father-in-law, or have any indissoluble bond with him.

Marriage is out of the question.

Just like the person you like very much, it is not necessarily your other half. People you didn't love in the past, people who have no feelings, may accompany you for a lifetime.

As for those who have money but no money, the young people at that time were more of a concept, but in fact they were more concerned about whether they were pleasing to the eye, suitable or willing.

At present, in fact, many people have the same criteria for choosing a spouse.

If she has the ability to perceive the future and knows that the person in front of her will betray her one day, then she may think twice before you act, or get married slowly.

After all, no one knows such a thing. Sometimes, I have to wait until something happens before I know whether the person I am marrying is a person or a ghost.

Later, my mother-in-law had a daughter and son in her belly. In case of betrayal, she may also want to divorce and leave this man.

When she was scolded by this man, she also thought about calling back.

But she endured it and didn't get divorced. It's not that she doesn't know injustice or nausea, nor does she know to turn around.

Sometimes people sometimes have many obstacles.

Her mind is so heavy that she can't let go of something.

For a married woman, if she has a child, then the child is the meat in her heart and the person she cares about most.

Her concern in marriage may have already surpassed whether you love me or not, and whether I love you or not may have automatically surpassed my own happiness or not.

Maybe countless nights, when she wanted to say goodbye, she thought of a pair of children, and she couldn't leave.

Or she's worried that she's gone. Where are her children? Can you live with such a father?

A child with a mother is like a treasure, and a child without a mother is like grass.

Some people may say, can I take it away?

But sometimes, memorizing will become a choice, won't it?

what do you think?

With two children? Or one? Who should take it and who should stay?

Will the left-behind children resent her as a mother and just let her live?

Therefore, it is sometimes difficult for people to live for themselves, to have feelings and to give up.

Whichever you choose will bring pain.

Choose to give up the child's pain? Or endure the pain of unfair marriage? I can understand that everyone insists differently. Want to be different.

She has her reasons for doing so.

Even if she has no reason, no idea and pure cowardice, then she is an unavoidable robbery on the road of life.

Who hasn't been puzzled for a while?

At that time, she just lost herself.

Now 65 years old, she wants a divorce. In my opinion, this is not surprising or melodramatic.

She let go of her troubles and reluctance. After the children grew up and got married, she began to think about the first half of her life. She also wants to live for herself when she is still healthy and has time.

This is the same as a 50-year-old sister driving around on the Internet a while ago. She worked hard for her husband, children and family for half her life, and then she just wanted to go out and live for herself once.

Divorce is one thing, but what's wrong with wanting to live for yourself and heal for yourself in the first half of my life?

People who say she is melodramatic just haven't experienced her mental journey.

M's mother-in-law is not an alien.

No matter how late it is, she can choose to start over.

It's just that my mother-in-law may not want to see her parents divorced, separated and separated. It's unbearable.

Based on this, it is also understandable.

However, if you think your mother-in-law is divorced, you are just angry and puzzled. You think you've disgraced your children and made them look down in front of others. I hope to convince my family to kidnap my mother-in-law and continue to endure it.

Then I think they are selfish and melodramatic people.

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