Fate is a joke.

The origin is scattered, and the fate is destroyed. There is nothing more helpless in the world. Many times we want more, but it's gone. We even lost the qualification to stay.

A lot of fate seems to be? Bait? As soon as your interest is aroused, it disappears, leaving you full of grief and unwillingness, messy in the wind.

People regard origin as a gift and extinction as a disaster. But actually, you don't have to. The reason why you are so sad and unwilling when fate dies is nothing more than that you expect too much from fate.

If fate comes, you don't treat it as a gift from the sky, but with a normal heart, then when it dies, it will not be so hard to accept.

There is no such thing as a banquet that must come to an end. No matter how long the fate is, it is difficult to accompany you all your life. The only person who can really accompany you through your life is yourself.

So, no matter what your fate is, don't embarrass yourself. It is even more important to believe that fate is the best arrangement in heaven.

Jewel Lee, a former good friend, cried her eyes out when she broke up with her boyfriend, and even wanted to commit suicide for a time, because she felt that her life would be bleak without her boyfriend, just like the world after the end of the world, which was devastated and could never be reborn.

At that time, I told her that the real rebirth was the world after the end. If you survive, all life will become more and more tenacious, and the vitality will be stronger than before.

But at that time, she wouldn't listen. In that state, people inevitably only live in their own world. During that time, she seemed to be robbing. If she can survive, then she is a new student, otherwise she will gradually disappear here? Disaster? I'll never find myself again.

Now, she has a good life. She got married two years ago and now has children. She lives happily, every day.

When we got married, she said to me: I really appreciate my ex-boyfriend leaving. ?

I was puzzled and asked her why she said that.

As a result, Jewel Lee said that if her ex-boyfriend hadn't left, she wouldn't have met such a good husband now, and the next one would be better.

Some people leave, in fact, to make room for the right person for you. If he has been in the nest, how can you wait for the right person to be happy?

Whatever the reason, you should be grateful to him. He left, which made you, and made you have more possibilities in the future.

Jewel Lee said that once upon a time, she thought she couldn't live without her ex-boyfriend. Even if she can survive, she will only spend the rest of her life unwilling and disheartened.

But in fact, she later realized that there really is no one in this world who can't live without it. When he leaves, others will sit on the bench. There's really no need to be afraid. You just need to love yourself and wait for the right person silently.

No one in this world is truly irreplaceable, except yourself.

Since God has arranged for a fate to disappear, it will naturally arrange for a fate to appear. So when the people around you leave, don't be sad, because a new person is running towards you. He may be late, but he will never be absent.

Whether he appears early or late, it is actually doomed. Some people have waited for a year, others have waited for ten years, but those who should bring you happiness, those who will always bring you happiness, no matter whether it is right or wrong.

Therefore, early marriage and late marriage have nothing to do with happiness. What really determines your happiness is whether you meet the right person. If we don't meet, everything is empty talk.

You have to believe that, regardless of the origin and fate, it is the best arrangement in heaven. There is no road to life in vain, and fate will not experience it in vain.

Everyone who appears will definitely teach you a truth and bring great help to your life. So don't blame fate, it's just arranging more people for you and teaching you more truth.

Things often have many sides. As long as you understand the essence, everything is easy to see through.

Since you can't control the origin, extinction and fate, try to be yourself. Cherish every minute of fate arrival and understand everything it wants to teach you; Don't be sad when the fate is gone, wave goodbye well, and then adjust your mentality to meet the next fate.

If you follow a fixed thinking, you may be sad for someone to leave; But if you think about the problem from another angle, then you will expect the arrival of a new person and what kind of surprise he will bring you.

For example, an old gourmet shop is closed and a new one is about to open. It's a pity that you can't eat that old taste anymore; Why not expect the new store to surprise you?

Life is about moving forward and looking forward. We can't always look back, otherwise we will be full of sadness and disappointment.

Some scenery is in the past, so you can't jump out of the car and walk back.

Even so, when you see the scenery again, it is not what you once saw.

Everything, everyone and every feeling will only give you a real throb, and the rest is that you want to recreate the original feeling, but no matter how you create it, it will not be the same.

Fate has come and gone, don't care, look to the future and believe that everything is the best arrangement.