Should we boldly say "no" or choose to "accept" silently in the face of professional sexual harassment by leaders?

In the workplace, the sexual harassment of subordinates by bosses is not only happening to women, but now more and more female bosses harass male subordinates. When encountering sexual harassment, please say "no" boldly and take preventive measures.

Don't swallow your pride: You can choose to tell your superior leader that he may not necessarily support and protect you, but if you don't make a sound, this matter may become more and more serious, and your direct leader will push your luck. If you have the first time, there will be a second time, so don't indulge your boss's behavior, but dare to say "no" to him. Think about it, if a boss sexually harassed you, would he be a good boss? Don't expect to achieve anything under his command, there is a chance of promotion and salary increase. It is wise to change your boss and your job.

Verbal refusal: When the leader uses you or verbally shows his kindness, you must make your position clear, reject him clearly in a formal and serious tone, ask him to stop these words and deeds, and never agree. Sometimes the leader deliberately tells some dirty jokes or makes some vulgar jokes to test you. If you don't respond to him, he will naturally stop his vulgar words and deeds and don't ask for trouble.

Take protective measures: you can take a recording pen with you, and you can record videos if possible. If you need to talk to your boss alone, try to choose a crowded place or a place with a camera. During the chat, if the leader deliberately talks about some sexual topics and tells pornographic jokes and stories, please remember to record them for future evidence. If you must come into his office, as soon as you find anything wrong, shout at once.

Don't think that you have been sexually harassed by your boss. I can continue to work with peace of mind after choosing silence, thinking that I may be promoted as long as I don't infringe on my body. You think too much! Your first tolerance is to give him courage, and there will be more sexual harassment later. Don't wait until the situation is serious to regret it. Improve your ability, you can find a job that suits you wherever you go, and you are afraid to leave your current job?