How do college students get rid of poverty?

In real life, a large number of poor students and rural students are on the verge of psychological imbalance.

The murder of four students by Ma Jiajue of Yunnan University is a typical example. Ma Jiajue's extremes are rare among college students, but his self-abasement, isolation, solitude, depression, jealousy and interpersonal barriers are typical among college students.

Due to their own economic conditions, some college students often have different degrees of inferiority complex. When others receive remittances from their parents, they sigh for their heavy student loans; Others wear fashionable clothes and always worry about being laughed at by others for being "rustic"; Others treat people generously on their birthdays, often in order to save money for a meal; When others talk about Kan Kan all over the world, they feel sorry for themselves, because they can't get in a word: they are also students of the same school in the same society. Why is fate so unfair? In the comparison again and again, some people dare not look up in front of their classmates and feel extremely inferior; Some people close themselves off and stay away from others; Some people are very sensitive and always afraid of being looked down upon; Some people compete with each other in secret. Since I can't compare with you in other aspects, I will learn from you. So I plunged into the study and left nothing else. Learning has become the only pillar to support yourself. Once they fail in their studies, they will think that they are worthless and lose hope in life.

Undeniably, in real life, poor students do face some pressures brought by the economy. However, these pressures are not everything. Although some students are from poor families, they are constantly striving for self-improvement and all-round development, becoming excellent college students and making outstanding achievements in their later jobs. Therefore, the key lies in how we deal with stress.

Students from poor families should first realize that poverty is an objective existence of society, which is caused by social reasons and not determined by individuals. If those students who live in big cities live in remote rural areas like you, those students with good families will also encounter all kinds of difficulties and misfortunes in your home, and they will also be embarrassed. On the contrary, if you have their living conditions, you will stay away from poverty. Therefore, poverty is not sad, what is terrible is that you choose inferiority in psychology.

Secondly, we should learn to accept ourselves, our families and our living environment. Poor conditions will bring some restrictions to personal development. For example, poor educational conditions restrict the improvement of our foreign language ability, restrict the development of our cultural and sports activities and various interests, and affect our knowledge. However, we should also see that while being restricted, we also have various advantages brought by difficulties: we have no arrogance of rich children, little dependence and can stand on our own feet. We are simple, hardworking and have the perseverance to overcome difficulties. These excellent qualities are great spiritual wealth, which not only enables us to overcome the immediate difficulties and make up for the temporary gap with others, but also gives us the courage to achieve everything. Everything has advantages and disadvantages. On the other hand, you are the winner.

Third, get out of loneliness and learn to communicate. I believe that the vast majority of students around you are sincere and kind. No matter what pressure and pain you have, don't bear it alone. Everyone's psychological care and practical help can not only help you get out of the predicament as soon as possible, but also make you realize the friendship and true feelings between people. Accepting help from others is not accepting pity and sympathy, and asking for help is not weakness. Selfless help from others will inspire you to make continuous progress, repay the society with your knowledge and talents in the future, and change the face of poor society. Only by integrating yourself into others can we learn from others' strengths and improve ourselves. If you close yourself off and stay away from others, you will not only feel depressed and lonely, but also never make up the gap.

Fourth, overcome vanity and don't blindly compare with others. Affected by the current impetuous social psychology, some college students only pursue material enjoyment and ignore personal spiritual improvement. In order to pursue fashion and popularity, some poor college students blindly compare themselves in life, engage in improper activities, and some even embark on the road of crime.

"Poverty is not only a teacher of thought, but also a teacher of style. It lets both the mind and the body know what indifference is. " Is this Roman? Roland said it. In an environment full of material desires, it is not easy to remain indifferent. But only by being indifferent can we firmly grasp this precious time of the university and develop ourselves in an all-round way. If you blindly compare with others in life and pursue temporary vanity, you will definitely delay your future. At any time, being a man of real talent and learning is far better than being a vain person.