The best way to maintain friendship is not to keep in touch, but to trust each other.

How many friends do you have? How many years has your best friend known you?

Some people have known each other since kindergarten, and they are still very good. Some people have only known each other since high school and have never been involved in your life before 16 years old. This "girlfriend" has replaced the position of girlfriends in primary and junior high schools.

It is said that everything will end. Yes, some junior high schools have a good relationship, but they don't contact each other in high school. Some people are excellent in college, but few people can meet them outside the society; Some people still have a good time at work, and they get married because they pay more attention to their families and haven't seen their good friends for a long time. .....

In this way, everyone has no time to meet and send messages, and tacitly no longer contact. The best friend changed one after another, changed one after another. ......

First, (the best relationship)

Jessica Hester Hsuan is my best friend. She is my high school classmate, and she has been in contact with me until now. But apart from her, I haven't found many people who can keep in touch for a long time and their relationship hasn't deteriorated.

Some people often talk about you and tell others that this is my best friend, but when they really need it, they always say that they are busy. I know. Friends don't count. Where can I be called a best friend?

And Xuan is the kind of person who is responsive, accompanying you shopping, eating, dating, and spending those sad times with you. She encouraged me when I was unhappy at work, comforted me when I was lovelorn, and accompanied me on the journey when I left. It can be said that she has participated in a large part of my life. Besides my parents, the best thing for me should be her.

Get a bosom friend, what else can you expect?

On my 24th birthday, I think it's good to cook a meal silently in the rented room without telling anyone. When I am old, I can't move. Not the same Amanome, the mentality is good enough. Aren't you just as happy one day?

Halfway through the meal, Xuan called: "Are you at home? Come down! " That sound can be heard in the whole building. Mary is the kind of person who doesn't care. She can laugh with you in the street and doesn't care about the image of a lady at all.

I cooked with one hand, poured oil and soy sauce with the other, and my hands were covered with oil juice. My mobile phone was sandwiched between my ears and shoulders, and I was sweating profusely.

"I'm cooking. Are you downstairs?"

Xuan began to barra me again: "I don't invite you home for dinner on my birthday." Are you still friends? " Come down and open the door! My hands are sore. "

I immediately turned off the fire and hurriedly changed my slippers and ran downstairs. I don't care about food. I'll get the door for you. Who is your friend?

To tell the truth, I said I would cook a meal for myself to celebrate my birthday, but Xuan actually remembered my birthday and came uninvited. I can't hide my happiness.

Jessica Hester Hsuan brought the cake and my favorite scarlet letter number and had dinner together.

This is a true friend, right? The real heart-to-heart relationship is to really care about your emotions.

Second, (doubt friendship)

However, in the past two years, I have rarely met Xuan. Xuan was transferred to another city for work reasons. I am more than 300 kilometers away from her. Although the train will arrive in an hour or two, we are too lazy to spend these two hours.

She only comes back occasionally during holidays or annual leave. She didn't contact me when she came back. I contacted her, and she said she just got back and had something to deal with.

But I clearly saw her taking photos with others in a circle of friends. If you don't have time for me, you have time for others.

Although I know everyone has an independent social circle, the friendship between girls is so narrow that there is no room for a third person better than your relationship with Mary. Yes, I am jealous.

I recall the two years when we were apart. She seldom sent me messages, and almost all the communication was my initiative.

We are obviously best friends. Why do we suddenly feel different? The biggest tacit understanding of adults is that I don't contact you and you don't contact me.

Say yes, say no. I have been struggling for a long time and don't want to contact again.

Third, (feelings are as good as ever)

Later, my relationship failed. The other party borrowed almost all my savings under various excuses. I wanted to borrow it, but I didn't return it. I was too soft-hearted to care about him, but I was very sad.

Xuan said before that I have a bad eye, but what can I do if I like it? The saddest thing about loving someone is that you love them even though you know they are not good.

When Xuan saw my circle of friends, he came back without saying anything and went directly to my place to get wine.

Jessica Hester Hsuan is good at making sad people happy. She told me jokes all night, and I cried while laughing loudly.

I said, "Jessica Hester Hsuan, I'm sad that I'm lovelorn, but I'm even sadder that you have a better friend, and I'm no longer your best friend."

Jessica Hester Hsuan was puzzled: "It is foolish to be lovelorn. You are not my best friend. Who is my best friend? "

I bowed my head and finally had the courage to say, "Then why have you seldom contacted me in the past two years, and you haven't come back to me?" I always feel that we are not familiar. "

Xuan is going to be cheated by me. She threw the empty beer bottle directly on the ground: "Are you stupid to fall in love? I don't get along with you. Is it worthwhile for me to come all the way back to comfort you? I am sick, I am redundant? "

My tears will overflow again: "No, I thought you found a better friend, so you don't have much time to contact me."

Jessica Hester Hsuan said, "Can you stop being silly? I was transferred there, and I was as busy as a bee every day. How come I have a lot of time to contact you? Isn't less contact a friend? " Isn't it said that the best friend relationship is that you don't feel embarrassed when you meet, and you won't be unfamiliar when you don't contact for a long time? "

I forgot, because I was too free. Everyone has his own business. All adults are busy making a living, so they don't contact each other whenever they have time, and they think of you as soon as they have time.

I began to understand that the best way to maintain feelings with friends is not to keep in touch with each other often, but to trust each other, to trust each other to have you in their hearts, and to trust each other to treat you as a friend all the time, without suspicion or doubt.

Friend, trust is the best way to contact.

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