How to start a chat on WeChat after adding the woman on a blind date?

1. Introduce yourself. Now that you have added the other person as a friend, you can chat with the other person. First, make a simple self-introduction, mainly conveying some basic personal information to the other person, such as where you are from and your age. , how is the work, these basic information. 2. Start with the details. Boys who pay attention to details will definitely be right in the eyes of girls. You can find details from the girl’s WeChat avatar, WeChat nickname, personalized signature, circle of friends, etc., and then start the topic from the details. For example, if a girl's WeChat nickname is "Flying Fish", then you can start with: "Do you love eating fish so much that you call Flying Fish cute?" For another example, a girl's circle of friends often posts about pets, so you can just say: "Girls who like pets are very caring." Of course, everyone has to be specific based on the specific situation. In short, some details can be used as opening remarks. 3. When asking for help from your blind date, you can say: "I really want to eat hot pot recently. Do you know any good hot pot restaurants?" Or, "I have a friend who is celebrating his birthday recently and I don't know what to give him. You are all boys, what do you think I should give you?" It should be noted that this topic must be open-ended and not closed-ended. Closed-ended topics such as "Will you go to work tomorrow?" are not good. Let’s talk. 4. Compliment with details: Women are relatively vain creatures, and they all want to be praised and recognized by others. Of course, praise is not perfunctory or exaggerated. You must pay attention to the details when praising, and put the words of praise into the hearts of girls. You can look for details from a girl’s hairstyle, makeup, outfit, accessories, hobbies, etc. Only detailed compliments will appear sincere. For example, you can say hello to a girl like this: "Your earrings and your hairstyle make you look special." Such detailed compliments will give girls a different feeling. 5. You need to listen more to what the other party says and respond quickly to the other party’s questions and answers. When chatting on WeChat, you need to pay attention to what the other person is saying. When chatting via voice chat or video chat, you should listen attentively to what others are saying, and do not reply to the other party half-heartedly with simple words such as "um" or "ah". Don't reply to the other party in a lengthy manner either. Just focus on the key points and reply. How to start a WeChat chat with a girl on a blind date 2 1. Hi/Hello/ Before you know more, the more ordinary and ordinary the safer it is. It is the first time for two unfamiliar men and women to say hello. If there is no risk, there is no danger. Girls generally will not refuse this kind of greeting. 2. I am xxx as mentioned by xxx. Regardless of whether you have met the girl on the blind date or not, or whether you know each other, it is more polite to introduce yourself first after adding WeChat to the blind date. Although others introduce you to each other for the purpose of blind date, but in the When introducing yourself, weaken the words such as blind date introduction and just say "mentioned" lightly, which makes it easier for the other party to lower their defenses and start a pleasant chat in a relaxed state. 3. I’m very happy that you accepted my friend request, thank you. Expressing your joy of getting to know the other person appropriately and appropriately can make the other person feel happy too. When you are in a happy mood, you will want to talk more. 4. We shouldn’t have too much pressure, just get to know one more new friend. Some of the blind date partners who can get their contact information are willing, some are half-hearted, and some are even unaware of it. But most young people are not opposed to making new friends. In this way, everyone is willing to try to chat. As long as they are willing to chat, it means there is an opportunity. 5. Start with the other person’s interests and hobbies. “I heard xxx said you like traveling. Is there anything worth recommending?” “I heard xx said you like reading. Is there anything you would recommend?” “I heard xx said you like xx.” Please be objective about this. The facts should prevail. Don't speculate or make random remarks. It would be embarrassing if the other party replies: "I don't like traveling." Generally, girls on a blind date are better at talking about their hobbies. At this time, if you ask for a small request for help, most of them will not refuse, but will sincerely recommend you. Talking about the things you like can also pave the way for future meetings and dates. oh.

Don't ask blindly at this time. 2. Chat based on your personality. If the other person is a bit of a tease, just tell him something funny. If the other person is more boring... then I don’t know what to do. 3. The topic should be malleable and the scope can be expanded appropriately. For example, if he asks you about your zodiac sign, you can tell some interesting facts about your zodiac sign and ask him what kind of personality he likes. 4. Don’t talk too much. For example: I must go to bed at ten o'clock every day. 5. Don’t be too arbitrary. For example, you say you are controlling! I roll my eyes whenever anyone comes up and tells me why I'm a Virgo. 6. Appropriate humor. 7. Mention questions you don’t want to answer, change the topic or answer vaguely to expand the scope of the topic. 8. Let the invitation come naturally. Chatting on WeChat has an important stage purpose, which is to make an appointment to meet. When making an appointment, you should pay attention to letting things take their own course. Don't just say "Let's meet" dryly. At least say "Let's have a meal" or "Watch a movie" so that the meeting does not appear so solemn and deliberate. You can ask her some questions, such as her hobbies and interests, and then if she says she likes reading, then you can try to tell her something about reading. If you like fashion, then do some homework, read some recent fashion magazines, and talk to her about it. If she says she likes badminton, then you can talk to her about playing badminton, or you can ask her out to play badminton. If you like watching movies or TV series, then talk about the plot, or you can ask her to go to the movies. In short, just find some different topics. If there are none, then you can only make up for the relevant homework, and then talk to her about the topics she likes. You can also tell her about some interesting things around you. In short, just make her feel that chatting with you is quite pleasant. Therefore, we must consciously collect some interesting third-party topics that girls can be more interested in, such as recent movies, zodiac signs, recent celebrity scandals, recently popular Korean dramas, pets, and places they want to travel to. , cooking, what you want to eat, etc. On the basis of being able to arouse topics, you must learn to express your feelings and thoughts when interacting with girls on WeChat, and try more. This is the key to not being boring, so that your chat will generate a steady stream of sparks.