How to seduce a boy skillfully and elegantly?

High-energy attack ahead, this is a mature methodology-the three-axe dating method through three dating routines may be a bit arrogant, but the actual measurement is very useful, please share it with the girls around you who need it (manual funny).

Starting with three-axis induced invitation

Boys ask girls out, emphasizing not to take the initiative.

It is inappropriate for a girl to ask a boy out on her own initiative, so it is necessary to induce the boy to go through the process and make him feel that all this is "what he wants to do".

Therefore, when chatting and interacting with boys, we should show great interest in boys' sharing topics and guide boys to chat with us more.

For example:

"I always wanted to try playing basketball. Nobody taught me at school before, and I don't know how to start learning. I didn't expect you to play basketball so well. I really envy you. "

"Ha ha ha, you may not believe it. I've been watching you boys play LOL, and I'm getting interested. I want to find a chance to try. "

"Mm-hmm, I also think it is necessary to take the postgraduate exam, but the foundation is not very good, and mathematics has always been weak, so I admire you as a master who can play advanced mathematics."

At this time, boys with higher emotional intelligence will push the boat and say, "Then I'll teach you." At this time, you will have the opportunity to contact.

But we really can't have much hope for the emotional intelligence of straight men, so if he throws you a bunch of tutorials directly at this time, Amway can also throw you a bunch of books or teaching videos.

Come on, have a drink, curb soaring blood pressure and start selling cute: "A lot of things ... I'm afraid no one can tell me. Can you be my teacher now? " Please eat delicious food. "

By the same token, when we ask boys out, it's better not to say, "There's a new movie recently, shall we go and see it?"

You have to say:

"What are your plans recently ... it's depressing. Recently, a new film was released. I should go with my best friend. As a result, she abandoned me to find a boyfriend and left me alone. I really want to see it, but I feel embarrassed to go to the movies alone. "

Some girls can't sit still: isn't this the temptation of the legendary green tea? Isn't this the girl who sells cute weaknesses to seduce boys?

You want to hook up with boys, study, sit down and listen.

The first axe cultivates a sense of connection and releases usability.

Keywords: * * * Same theme+similarity+usability

Before the first date, set aside a long time and do nothing. You are only responsible for one thing: be kind to yourself!

Don't dress too seductively on the first date. Take a lovely and fresh route. This style of dressing conforms to the aesthetics of most straight men. Wearing nude makeup will make him think that you are "beautiful without makeup."

Although it looks ordinary and not difficult, you should pay special attention to every dress, just like vava sang in My New Clothes:

"Look at me, from top to bottom, even the smallest detail will explode."

The appointment may be 5- 10 minutes late. When you come here, you must take the initiative to apologize: "Sorry, there is a traffic jam. You didn't wait too hard. " Give him a little anxious feeling, and then brush his favor with a polite apology.

Ask him to arrange a date or something, remember to praise his heart and pick out all the places you like to make him a little complacent.

If he doesn't have a plan at all, he'll just ask you where you want to go ... well, spit out what's in his heart first, and then blink: "I think anything is fine, but I prefer xx (coffee shop, western food, Chinese food, Japanese food, etc.)."

Attention, you didn't go to have dinner with him at all! You need to find the same topic quickly between coffee and dinner, so it is good for him to take the initiative to chat and cater to him. If he is too nervous to speak, you can take the initiative to pick a topic:

"I see your circle of friends xxxx, often xxxx?"

When you speak, flash the eyes of big Kazilan, and the effect is full.

Remember to find * * * with questions and make up "So you also like xxxx! I am very interested in this. " Give him enough motivation to show off and let him get involved in your relationship.

Close distance is not enough. At this time, it is necessary to release some availability and tell boys: I am single, don't take the initiative!

The suggestion said, "Alas, there are very few people who share my interests. I must find a like-minded person who can talk to me in the future so that I won't be bored. "

This is called pulling, which gives him a hint: Oh, my God, that's me.

Don't worry, there is the second half of the sentence: "Alas, there are so few such people now, no wonder I am single."

This is called pushing, which makes him feel at a loss: what is the situation? Isn't this the one sitting opposite you?

Leave him alone and let him struggle. We talk about pushing and pulling girls, pushing them out and coaxing them back, making girls think we are bad but cute. We talk about pulling and pushing boys, pulling and pushing them away, making boys wonder if we are interested in him.

Believe me, when a person starts to struggle because you like him or not, he will soon like you.

The second axe cultivates intimacy and stimulates the desire for protection.

Keywords: temptation+collection distressed

No matter flirting with girls, you should show the other side a positive and sunny side.

But sometimes, exposing the vulnerable side properly will stimulate a boy's instinctive desire for protection and make him want to take care of you by your side.

But don't develop some pictures of hospital beds and some lonely and cold States in your circle of friends, so that you can attract a group of boys to take care of you. The male god may not care about you, but will attract a bunch of flies.

After the first date, send him this message:

"It was nice chatting with you tonight, and the coffee/food/movie was also very pleasant. I haven't been so happy for a long time. I'll invite you next time, haha. "

Boys say no problem is best. If the boy says no, he will reply naughtily:

"Why don't you give me a polite chance?"

Moral kidnapping is moral kidnapping. This is a man, where does he get so much attention?

As for the second time, don't induce the invitation again. If he doesn't move, ask him out

At this time, you are not afraid to take the initiative, because you are natural: this is a courtesy invitation, don't think too much.

This date, the requirements of dressing up can not be low, or it should be amazing as soon as it comes out. As for how to do this, you need to consult more beauty bloggers. Forgive me for not giving too much advice as a straight man.

The first half of the chat topic of this date is still normal nonsense, and the focus is on the second half. You must be starting to feel bad.

Show that you usually complain to your little sister, and tell the boys that you are really stressed, fragile and eager for warmth.

But it's not over. Note the following two points: 1. You can't turn your troubles into complaints. 2. Ensure uniqueness.

Let's give an example:

"Hongsang, you always said that I am very sunny and positive, but in fact, to tell the truth, who is really happy now? I came to Beijing alone to work hard. Although everyone can see that I work hard and make great progress during the day, I am sometimes criticized by my leaders. In fact, I will be sad when my work is not smooth. "

"But what's wrong? Back to the residence, everyone went to rest. It's not just a person who goes to the microwave to heat up a meal, take a bath to cheer himself up, and then sleep alone. "

"Even if you can't stand it sometimes and cry badly, you should close your head and make no noise. You are afraid of disturbing your roommate and being known that you are not an all-around player. "

"These words are just for what we are talking about here today. I would never say that much to others at ordinary times. Everyone is very busy and has no time to listen to too many things about me. "

"I'm sorry, I just lost my temper and scared you" (wiping my tears, whether or not)

At this time, your image in the eyes of boys is: a self-reliant girl with a gentle and fragile side, but she doesn't know who to talk to and wants someone to rely on.

You said he was distressed, did you want to protect you, and did you inspire the heroic plot in his heart?

Enough fanning the flames, let's light another fire:

Separation carefully looked at him and said to him:

"xxx, thank you for listening to me today. That's very thoughtful of you. I hope to meet someone like you in the future. "

Did you get a look at him? "Thank you for listening to me." "How thoughtful of you" means pulling, "meet someone like you (but maybe not you)" and then push away.

Let him continue to struggle.

The third axe interacts intimately and guides confession.

Keywords: high-intensity temptation+guided confession

Well, it's finally the third date. Actually, it's really not difficult to ask someone out this time. After all, the first two times we went out to eat, drink and have fun together.

This meeting, tell your little sisters how to seduce men, whether it's makeup or clothes, they should dress up according to temptation max.

It doesn't matter what this dating project does, but the temptation must be in place.

For example, pretending to be convulsed by jokes while chatting, and taking the opportunity to pat him; For example, he stared at him with a little girl's eyes when he spoke; For example, when eating, he quietly touched his leg with his leg; For example, when he plays jokes on you, he pretends to hit him. ...

Temptation+physical contact, unless you are ugly, really few boys can withstand the double temptation.

At this time, he only needs to do one thing to be attracted to you: stare at him, smile gently and laugh silly, which is enough.

The boy's version of the three-axe dating requires a third date to establish a relationship, but it is difficult for girls to take the initiative to confess to boys. We might as well do it another way.

A female fan asked me before that the boy sent her downstairs and touched her head. She wanted to go further, only to find that the boy's stupid head didn't understand. What should I do?

It's simple. You just need to say goodbye generously when you leave, take a step or two, suddenly stop, turn around, with a helpless smile that hates iron and does not produce, and with a bitter tone, gently say:

"Do you really let me go?"

Enough, really enough!

This sentence, combined with your expression, has conveyed such a meaning: can you take the initiative! Can we cooperate? I can't believe you let me go back without hugging me! You are stupid enough to die!

In this way, boys either immediately begin to understand and are eager to confess to you, or they are shy and hold back, but they can't sleep all night, or they don't feel at all.

Last one, forget it. It's almost out, and he hasn't responded yet, which shows that people are really insensitive.

However, the first two methods are feasible. Before that, you released enough usability and stimulated his desire for protection. The last sigh is the last person to push him to you.

If he doesn't, his heart will scold him for not being a man!

If he doesn't talk, wait for him to come back. Immediately began to be cold to him.

You should tell him by action that the opportunity is not for you, and you have not grasped it well. As for why this girl is cold to you, you should figure it out for yourself.

Even if he can't figure it out, his friends will pat him on the shoulder and tell his buddies that you are a fool. This girl likes you.

Believe me, he won't sit still, he will come to you on his own initiative, and even take the initiative to confess.

When he can't hold back, all we have to do is touch his head, hug him and say "idiot."

"Actually, I like you, too."

Look, the best of both worlds is achieved through three dates.

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I hope my answer can help you,

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