Written for introverted girls

When I was a child, I was a very introverted person. I didn’t like hanging out with other children. Whenever someone talked to me, I would hesitate for a long time and couldn’t utter a word.

In fact, I also want to talk to others, but I feel like there is something in my heart that is blocking my behavior and preventing me from speaking.

Later, when I entered junior high school, I got to know more people. I wanted to find a new environment and see if I could be a new myself, so I slowly allowed myself to try to be with others. touch.

That’s when I discovered that it wasn’t that difficult to get along with others. It seemed that no one would really laugh at me even if I spoke loudly.

Later, due to my own changes, I became a cheerful girl among my classmates.

Below I have written 5 suggestions for change, for introverted girls. I hope you can let more sunshine into your world.

It is indeed easier for us to calm down and think about some issues when we are alone. But while we set aside time for ourselves, we can also set aside some time to spend with others.

But some people will do things that are excessively withdrawn under the guise of introversion. For example, in the dormitory, everyone calls you at every dormitory party, but you refuse every time.

Finally, when others get used to doing things without calling you, they will think that they are too introverted and cannot fit into this dormitory.

In fact, introverts will not affect social interaction with others, unless they do not want to socialize, not because they are introverted and not social.

Therefore, it is okay to not participate occasionally and want to give yourself time alone, but don’t refuse the invitation of friends or roommates every time.

Some people feel that there are too many circles and don’t want to join them, and just want to be alone. Especially for those who are more introverted, this kind of thinking will be more common, or sometimes they will find it too troublesome.

In fact, there are indeed many circles in life, but we do not necessarily have to let ourselves enter all circles. We can stay away from uncomfortable circles, but we can also choose to let ourselves enter some circles that are beneficial to us. .

So don’t close yourself off too much, and try to let yourself go out and get in touch with different circles. You may not necessarily get different results.

For people who have low self-esteem, are sensitive and introverted, it is easy to give themselves a low score in their own minds, especially when they meet someone who is slightly better than themselves, they will feel bad about themselves.

In fact, whether it is for introverts or cheerful people, these people will have shortcomings and advantages, and they are not compared in the same nature, so how can we know which one is better and which one is worse? ?

So don’t add drama to yourself in your mind. Don’t think of yourself as so miserable or so bad. You also have your own advantages.

In the adult world, you will meet many people, but not everyone is worthy of deep friendship.

Especially for people who are more introverted and have been hurt when making friends, it is easier for them to close themselves off and avoid contact with others.

But in fact, not everyone will be like the people before, and you can not hold on to the kind of heart-wrenching friends with someone from the beginning, but contact them in a normal way. That way it's not that difficult.

I personally don’t think introverts are bad, but being introverted doesn’t mean that you can do some impolite behavior or be isolated from the world.

I have a deskmate in junior high school. She is really introverted. She doesn’t say a few words all day long and does everything by herself. But as long as we talk to her, she will answer instead of being silent.

Moreover, she is also willing for us to be friends with her and is willing to talk to us. When we chat with her, she will not make us feel like she is thousands of miles away.

Therefore, there is nothing wrong with being introverted, but you can also try to get in touch with the world and the people around you.

The above is what I want to share today. If you are also an introvert or someone who is afraid of social interaction, I hope the above 5 suggestions can make you brave enough to contact others and become a lively and cheerful person. girl.

Author introduction:

Mo Yijian, the only one, the first time I met, a girl who is trying hard to run towards her dream