Why don't parents like having triplets now?

Three children are open, and not many people are willing to have three or even two children. It is important to have a full house of children and grandchildren, but young parents born in the 1980s and 1990s are under great pressure. There are three reasons.

1. The most important thing is: without money, there are fewer sources of income. It takes money to start a pregnancy check-up, to have a baby, and to spend money on education and daily life. There is no place to leave money, and the price is much higher than the salary. There is no way to ensure the daily life of a family. Many families in rural areas are not satisfied with the place where they live together. A family of three is squeezed into a room of less than 30 square meters. There are many such families in rural areas. And the proportion in rural areas is relatively high.

Having more children will affect the relationship between husband and wife. Three children, then it must be that the mother resigned to take care of the children, and then only the father worked alone. Every day, two adults can't understand each other just like fighting a war. Mom wants dad to look after the children, and dad says he is tired after a day's work. It leads to quarrels every day, so children are doomed not to grow up healthily in such an environment, and it is easy to divorce. Compared with the current divorce rate, few people want to get married.

There is no freedom at all. Three children, just around the children every day, go out, no, the children look for their mothers; Have a meal. I haven't had a good meal since I had a child. Take a bath, the child cries, and the family says you have taken a bath for so long.

These three reasons are enough to break the hearts of triplets, and a lot of postpartum depression comes from this little bit! Unless the baby is born, you don't have to worry about the cost of having a baby, and you don't have to bring it yourself. In short, if you want money, then everything is not a problem.

A friend of mine, A Min, has a good family. Her husband is a small boss in a construction unit, so after they get married, they basically don't worry about the expenses of their children.

A Min has always liked boys, but since they are both girls after five years of marriage, she is going to give up.

However, the husband's family feels that the economic conditions are still allowed, and her parents-in-law also agree that she will have three more children, so she is now trying to prepare for pregnancy.

Another friend, Hui Hui, doesn't think so.

She was born in a "son preference" family since she was a child, and she was very insecure. Fortunately, she met her current husband, and they gave birth to a lovely daughter after marriage.

Her husband's family always advises him to have a second child, but Hui Hui is worried that if her second child is a girl, will she have three children?

If the second child is a boy, will the daughter grow up in the atmosphere of "son preference" as when she was a child?

Hui Hui can't imagine.

She believes that if you have children, you should grow up happily, so even if you already have two daughters, you won't consider having another boy.

On this question, some of my friends' answers are affirmative and some are negative.

However, it is undeniable that it takes too much energy and time to raise a child now. Few families will choose to have another boy on the basis of having two daughters unless the family conditions are sufficient.