Got a terminal illness, treatment? Or give up?

They also dare not tell their elderly parents, for fear that their parents can't bear it. Their brothers and sisters are under great pressure.

My friend looked at my brother's pain every day, very painful and confused. She discussed with me: honey, you said that people are terminally ill, and the treatment is so painful that there is little hope of cure. Should I treat or give up? Without this quality of life, if I were you, I would rather give up treatment.

This is really a profound ethical issue. For relatives who are terminally ill, knowing that there is little hope of cure, should they do their best to go bankrupt or even borrow money for treatment? Should we stick to treatment? According to your own actual situation, it is better to give up.

I can only say that how to choose is the decision of the parties and their families after consultation, and others can't make decisions for him. Of course, for a very young child or a person without civil capacity, it is his immediate guardian who makes the decision. We have no right to tell others what he should do.

Qiong Yao, a famous female writer in Taiwan Province, published a letter to her son some time ago, in which she told her son that the terminal illness should never be treated, or it is best to send her to Switzerland for euthanasia. The reason why she published her letter to her son was to let the public supervise her son, to prevent him from doing useless treatment for her because he didn't want her to die, and to prolong her physical pain.

Illness and death are unavoidable things for everyone. What is the truth of the disease?

In nature, there is no concept of disease. All animals and plants in nature also have the process of growth, development, aging and death objectively, but all this is just an objective occurrence, existence and experience for them, and there is no so-called disease.

But in the eyes of human beings, disease is a terrible thing, especially a major disease or a so-called terminal disease. People regard it as a scourge, like a threshold and a deep ditch. People are afraid to meet this ditch, just want to avoid it, fill it, destroy it and skip it.

A person's life will go through growth, development, aging and death, just like animals and plants. The so-called diseases are just different changes and states of the body. It also happens and exists objectively. If it is not regarded as abnormal, the disease is just an experience.

Compared with other animals and plants in nature, it is not difficult to find that the so-called disease is just a concept and an idea in human mind.

Everyone's health and illness are different. The essence of life is to experience, not to set up concepts to scare yourself. Being sick itself is only a development and change of the body, and the feeling of being sick is also an experience. Treatment and non-treatment, how to treat is also experience.

Furthermore, if the whole life is a dream, isn't illness also a dream? Do we still need to be so afraid of such a magical thing?

Therefore, it is no big deal whether you have a serious illness or a terminal illness, whether you need treatment, how to treat it, or whether you want to tell your parents and relatives. This is exactly what the soul wants to experience. Don't think that someone can't stand it, every soul can.

You know, disease is just an illusory concept. There is no such thing as disease in nature.

Why are people so afraid of diseases? I think there are four main reasons.

One is the fear of physical pain.

Physical pain is the characteristic of the body. But if you can feel pain as sweet and happy, pain is just a complete experience. Will not be the cause of our special fear.

In addition, the current medical technology can solve the pain caused by most diseases and treatments. Therefore, physical pain can be handled and reduced.

The second is the fear of death.

People are so afraid of terminal illness, because the deep ditch opposite the terminal illness is the death of Heichu. Death seems to mean the disappearance and end of individual life, so there is infinite fear. Fear of death makes people afraid of terminal illness, so they try their best to treat it in order to survive.

Death is a lesson that everyone will face sooner or later. Death is not the end of life, but the advanced stage of life development. Death is the completion of life and the progress of life. If you can realize this, you will transcend disease and death; If you can't, you will be caught by fear.

The third is the fear of huge treatment costs.

The treatment of major diseases or terminal diseases is very expensive, and not every family or individual can afford it. For most families, the economic pressure of treating diseases is enormous. In the past, they faced the possibility of treatment failure and talent shortage. This also makes people feel great pressure, so they are afraid of getting sick.

There may be several reasons why people insist on treatment, even though they know there is no hope and they are suffering, even though they are bankrupt and heavily in debt.

Faced with major diseases and terminal diseases, it is a great test and challenge for both parties and their families. It is also a homework that must be faced and an opportunity for growth.

Born to be human, it is inevitable to be born and die. Everyone in this world will die, and most people will die of disease. The sooner you understand the meaning of birth, illness and death, the sooner you will have a healthy, relaxed, optimistic, positive, open-minded and free attitude to face birth, illness and death.

Again, no matter how you treat it, you can treat it. No standard, no right answer. Everyone chooses the right answer. I think the choice is brave. Choosing treatment is brave, so is giving up treatment.

People will listen to their own hearts, and make the best choice according to the instinct of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages. Perhaps outsiders can't understand their choices, but they also have no right to judge their own choices.

I only hope that the sick people will not suffer physically, but also mentally.

If you ask my attitude: Suppose I have a terminal illness, what would I choose?

My choice is: do a little conservative treatment as far as I can to make my body feel less painful. I will never borrow money for treatment, never do destructive treatment, and never choose surgery or radiotherapy and chemotherapy. Experience the process of getting sick and wait for death quietly.

If my relatives are terminally ill, I will only help them treat them within my ability and desire; As for what treatment they want to choose, it's up to them.

Of course, my attitude can only be said to be hypothetical now. Life can't be like Spring Festival Evening, but a rehearsal. Life is all live broadcast, writing answers and handing in papers on the spot. Maybe you feel open-minded in advance, and you may not be really open-minded at the scene; If you feel weak and can't let go ahead of time, maybe you can let go.

Life is full of changes and uncertainties. Perhaps this is the great charm and attraction of life!

So, no one should laugh at anyone. Make your own choices according to your own heart. It is important to be responsible for your choices. Because, no matter how you choose, you have the corresponding gain and loss experience, you need to be brave, you need to bear.

But in essence, everything is an illusion, including disease and death. Therefore, if you want to hand in a good paper calmly on the spot, you have to prepare your homework as soon as possible in your daily practice and growth, and strive to understand the truth of life and death as soon as possible. Practice more, and make sure your choice and performance when you broadcast live.

At the same time, it is more important to adjust and maintain your body and mind in peacetime, so that you can be as healthy as possible, not angry, not depressed, not anxious, optimistic and open-minded about life, and minimize the occurrence of major diseases or terminal diseases.

Besides, everyone has a part of heredity or destiny, and within this range, we will learn to practice and grow. Again, life is full of variables, so you can cultivate a strong and soft heart, change constantly, swim through the years and feel the beauty of life.

Everything in life is a beneficial and intentional experience. May everyone in the world experience their life deeply, easily and happily. May everyone in the world have relaxed and perfect health!