Why are many urban men unwilling to find rural women?

There will be a lot of follow-up questions about finding rural women, which is annoying. Regarding the marriage partner, I used to pay attention to my parents' life, but now I pay attention to my own wishes. Everyone has their own standards and expectations for marrying anyone. No matter whether love is supreme or not, as long as it is the right person, everything else can be ignored. There are still many realistic factors. We should not only consider this person, but also examine the other person's family conditions and working conditions.

There is a phenomenon now, that is, many urban men are unwilling to find a rural woman, even if she has excellent conditions, she will not accept it. Why is this? An experienced person gave the answer, which was too realistic. Finding a rural daughter-in-law, although excellent, is annoying because there are many relatives dragging their feet at home.

Mr. Liu, who has been married for five years, said that my wife is excellent and independent, which is why I chose to marry her. Although her hometown is rural, I don't care. Before I got married, a friend advised me, but I think my wife is so excellent that everything else can be solved well.

But I didn't expect that soon after getting married, relatives in her hometown came to the door to borrow money for help. It was not easy to refuse at first, but after asking for help two or three times, it got out of hand. Now I am afraid of relatives coming, and life is all kinds of bad feelings. Sometimes there will be such relatives who always drag their feet when they are not making progress.

Originally, the education level is not high, coupled with narrow vision, love takes advantage of small things, always trying to get some benefits for themselves, very greedy. Even if a woman is excellent and independent, it is hard to get rid of her. Few city men will take such a risk to marry her. Besides, today's society is more realistic, there are many things to consider when getting married, and people are unwilling to take on too many unnecessary troubles. Such relatives are hard to accept.

Although the social environment has changed now, there are still many places where boys are preferred to girls. This phenomenon is particularly common in rural areas with low education level. Although some women are excellent and capable now, they feel that their sons are more valuable than their daughters because of the influence of this backward thought since childhood.

Although this idea is understandable, it is biased to some extent. Not all rural women have many relatives who drag their feet, and not all rural women are influenced by the idea of son preference. We can't generalize. Some rural women also grew up in warm families. They are also very independent and excellent. So you still have to think carefully when choosing the object.