My son is very naughty. We adults don't listen to anything, and we will make trouble. What should I do?

When my son was a child, my grandparents wouldn't let me say no. A small reprimand is just a powerful intervention. I have no choice but to preach to my children alone. There was no other way, so I took the child to my bedroom, locked the door and left the child crying alone. I just forbade him to move and stared at him sternly. No matter how grandpa slams the door outside, I won't open the door for him until the child is scared and admits his mistake. Then, I communicated with my grandparents alone and told them that it is necessary to educate their children. A common saying of old people is that it would be nice if the tree is big. I patiently explained the importance of childhood education, and told the elderly that the children we gave birth to, we love children more. In this way, when I was educating my children, grandpa beat flies with a racket in winter, and I didn't say much. On the other hand, when I comforted my son, I also said that my father was waiting for you, which played a good buffer role in educating my children. So, first of all, educating children is your attitude. Filial piety is necessary, but it must be strict with self-discipline. You should not let your children have a shield because you are filial to the elderly, but should be your best helper in educating your children. At the same time, we must have a clear understanding of the consequences of doting, and never indulge ourselves, otherwise no one will interfere with you and you will spoil your children yourself; Also, make friends with your children, make them regard you as an idol, be willing to be close to you, especially your playing skills and abilities, make them feel inseparable from you, and then listen to you. Your guidance will be great and powerful. Pay attention to the method of communicating with the elderly, don't break their hearts, and at the same time, it must be effective. Pay attention to your words and deeds and set an example for your children. Pay attention to communication with children, understand their psychology and seize the opportunity. In this way, you can successfully guide your child to the future. Hehe, there is something wrong with your way. Can you educate your children just by playing? Does it seem that you are incompetent? I'm sorry for criticizing you. Children can't use corporal punishment. You also see the helplessness after hitting the child, right? In fact, children can be motivated by encouragement and moderate punishment. The child has a strong desire to express himself, and he really wants to be appreciated by adults. If you can guide your child to do well through stories, cartoons, games, entertainment and his favorite companions, I think your success may be far greater than the effect of hitting your child. Of course, sometimes, children can't be so obedient, but if children are obedient or can do it well at once, do our parents still need it? Pay attention to your patience. Your words and deeds, every move will be perfectly reflected in the child's shadow. I wish you happiness.