At the wedding, the groom left because of the change of 20 thousand yuan. Can the bride save him?

Getting married is what people dream of. It can be said that every couple will attach great importance to their wedding. In China, the wedding ceremony will involve a series of gifts, such as bride price, change of speech fee, money lamp and so on. That detail is a game between the two sides. I accidentally bought a hidden danger for my future life. At the wedding, the groom left because of the change fee of 20 thousand yuan, and I think it is difficult to recover the New Year.

Why does the woman pay so much attention to the change of oral expenses and is influenced by customs and habits?

At present, many places have the custom of changing fees. It is said that the fee change is also a blessing to the couple and should not be an obstacle to marriage. But now the customs in many places have evolved into the bad habit of keeping up with the joneses. If your family gives 5000, his family will dare to give 10000. In short, they all want to overwhelm others, just as they want to overwhelm others, how great they will be.

Many women's families charge too much for the so-called face. I think it is precisely because of this bad habit that the woman's family attaches great importance to the change fee and thinks that giving less is to look down on herself.

Blind comparison

Nowadays, people like to compare with others most, and everyone wants to compare with others. In fact, most families are ordinary families, and marriage has always paid attention to the right match. However, in the social environment of blind comparison, most women are very sensitive to the change of fees, and if they give less, they will turn their faces on the spot.

Not only do the woman's parents think so, but many women themselves have such a misconception that marriage cannot be carried out without changing their fees.

I find it difficult for the bride to save this marriage. It is very difficult to walk all the way to the wedding in the process of getting married. The husband and wife also played a few games. This couple is no exception. They had a conflict because of the engagement party, because the man who held the wedding got mixed up with his parents and wife, and finally broke up at the wedding because of the change fee of 20 thousand yuan. I think it is mainly related to the following factors:

The bride's words

Now that the two sides have decided to get married, they have already started the wedding. At the last minute, there is no need to swear because of the change of fee. Do as Romans do in Rome. Different regions have different customs and habits. Don't make a fuss if the local exchange fee is 100 1. Even if it is 20000, it must be agreed in advance, and there will be a temporary disturbance. Besides, what he said made the man very angry. Why can't he change his mind without paying 20 thousand yuan? I think this is simply a death sentence.

If I were a man, I would also break off my marriage on the spot.

Sina has been completely sad.

In this world, once the heart is hurt, it is estimated that it will never be forgotten. I think this man has experienced the misfortune brought by the wrong marriage. The two have different views and are neither humble nor supercilious. I don't think they will have a good life even if they get married. Because you can't meet the woman's strange demands at all.

In short, marriage is a major issue, and everything should be explained in advance so that there will be no contradiction. I also sincerely advise others to learn from experience and not to give up their happiness just because they are young.