How to ignore other people’s gossip

Boldly walk into the crowd and see if you care about other people’s every move and smile? Do you care about what others wear or say every day? The answer is absolutely no. In fact, the less confident a person is, the more they feel that others are paying attention to their every word and deed, so they will become timid and cautious, just like when we look in the mirror at home, the more we feel that there are flaws, such as feeling that we The eyes are small, the mouth is big... When we first look at the mirror, we always focus on these parts, hoping that the eyes will be bigger and the mouth will be smaller... but our advantages will be ignored. For example, we may have skin problems. It's whiter than others, the nose is straighter than others, etc. In fact, there is a truth in getting along with others. The more you feel that you are afraid of speaking, doing something wrong, or being laughed at by others for not being able to wear clothes, the worse you feel about yourself in these aspects. In fact, everyone is very busy and has many things to pay attention to. No one will focus on you all day long, especially when there are many people. There are many people who are sharper than you who will attract attention. You just In an inconspicuous and small unit, you can keep your mind calm and show your best side calmly. When time goes by and you become eye-catching enough, then you should really be cautious. Avoid making any mistakes! Now you just need to get out of the house and blend in with the crowd. Don't close yourself off for a long time and let people ignore your existence. Even if you say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing, it is normal for your friends to laugh at you from time to time. You can think about "gods make mistakes too" and learn to laugh at your predicament to free yourself. You are a 23-year-old girl. If you stay at home, you will miss the opportunity to choose a good boyfriend! Boldly tell yourself, "I'm not the best, but I'm definitely not the worst! There are many people who are not as good as me..." With appropriate psychological hints, you will naturally have more confidence when doing things! I believe you will come out as soon as possible and live a happy life! I wish you happiness!