In "Nezha: The Devil Boy Comes to the World", why did Nezha become good friends with Xiao Bailong?

In fact, it is inevitable that Nezha and Xiao Bailong will become good friends when the devil boy Nezha comes to the world. Nezha seems to be very vicious towards his friends at home, as if he is a bad boy in the eyes of others. He can do some pranks and does not know the seriousness of the matter, so other children and their parents are particularly disgusted by him. Nezha, even parents asked their children not to play with Nezha anymore. Even later, when Nezha appeared in public, people would run away one after another, then go home and lock the doors, determined not to let Nezha enter their homes. .

Nezha

It seems that Nezha is really a bad person, but in fact he is just a child. The reason why Nezha becomes like this is actually because The reason why he is very special is that he is relatively powerful and is somewhat different from ordinary children. However, others treat him differently and think he is a monster. In addition, other children do not accept him from the bottom of his heart at all. Instead, he regarded him as a joke, as an object of ridicule and teasing. Everyone has self-esteem, including children. The moment he was alive, he had already obtained some of these things. Ability, he also has a certain degree of perception. He feels that the adults or children around him do not accept him, and people have a self-protection mechanism. When they feel that others are malicious towards them, or This protection mechanism will be automatically activated when one does not like oneself. What Nezha activates is an attack mode. He adopts this hard-on-hard approach. He wants other people to compromise. This is considered compromise in Nezha's concept. It is also a kind of recognition and affirmation, so this is the way Nezha has always dealt with problems. In fact, his method did not achieve the expected results.

Nezha

Later he met Xiao Bailong and became good friends with him. Here we notice that Xiao Bailong has a characteristic, Xiao Bailong’s His receptivity is particularly strong. When he first met Nezha, he did not regard him as a monster. Xiao Bailong recognized him, affirmed him, and admired him a little, because Xiao Bailong envied Nezha. A state of spontaneity. It was also because Nezha felt Xiao Bailong's unconditional acceptance and trust of him, and Nezha also showed his care for Xiao Bailong. Only in this way can the two of them become good friends.

Bai Long

So it was not Nezha’s fault before, but the surrounding environment itself did not accept Nezha, so that Nezha activated the attack mode, and Xiaobai Long accepted Nezha immediately, so Nezha will also accept Xiaobailong.