How to treat chickens and their family education?

China's parents put all their expectations on their children, to some extent, they extend their expectations on some specific things to their children. For example, my mother has always had a musical dream. When she has children, she will guide them to the direction of music.

This is just one of the expectations, and there will be different expectations, and these expectations are based on the helplessness of being surpassed under the trend of comparison, so she pinned her expectations on her children to make up for her own shortcomings. Nowadays, the general situation in society is chicken baby, which is essentially a comparison. It shows that there are too many comparisons in our educational concept, that is: get out! It's too curly

A joke goes like this: If you can't do something by yourself, lay an egg and let it do it. Lay eggs in the nest, hatch a chicken, and stimulate the chicken with words every day, hoping that the chicken will learn to look like a phoenix and become nirvana.

This is probably the easiest way. There is a saying that children are the carrier of all desires, and what they have never been able to do has become their own desires.

If a person's wish cannot be realized, I always hope that future generations can realize it for themselves. In fact, you need to be the child you want. If you expect your child to be a thinking person, you should be patient and willing to think. No longer only care about money-related topics, only care about the small things in front of you. Have a plan, have goals, and learn to think. If you expect your child to be a learner, then you should be a learner. When you have time, study, not play. If you want your child to be an athlete, then you should be an athlete.

If you lie on the sofa every day, will the children go out to exercise alone? what do you think? Don't do unto others what you don't want done unto you.

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Children are the continuation of parents' lives and the inheritance of blood. Therefore, parents always want their children to be better than themselves and better than themselves. Once a child's grades are not satisfactory, parents will be anxious. Parents are even as anxious as unhappy, and they are on tenterhooks all day. This is the trouble of many contemporary mothers.

Generation after generation of expectations, generation after generation of failures. So, what is the problem? I think the overall quality of parents can't reach the height required by expectations. It is basically useless to rely on that kind of empty and universally applicable truth. Children will accept it when they are young, but when they are old, they have their own thinking logic, and that set is useless. Parents lie flat on their own, but ask their children to make progress. Similar to parents lying, but asking children not to lie, over time, children have no sense of identity. As parents, we must set an example while asking our children!