People who are not bullied often have the following four characteristics.

People who are not bullied by others often have the following four characteristics.

In interpersonal communication, there is a rule of bullying the weak and fearing the hard: bullying the weak and fearing the hard. We all like to pinch soft persimmons and don't go against others. However, the "soft persimmon" is not as smart as you think, or you will be embarrassed if you don't turn your face.

These days, no one is stupid, just don't care. Don't overestimate your own strength and don't underestimate the strength of others. Be a man, forgive others, and forgive others. It's hard to be taught.

People with the following four characteristics are often difficult to be bullied, and it is best not to be smart.

One: "Poor people are not poor": always quiet, work hard in the dark, and always surpass others.

If a person is often bullied, he dares not say anything, and in turn tries to please those who bully him. It shows that he is weak and can be bullied by others.

Some people always want to curry favor with others and bow their heads when they meet the strong. The more he does this, the more he is led by the nose and becomes a "slave" of others.

A man with backbone is unknown even if others bully him. He won't fight with others or hold grudges, but works hard when others are not looking.

People with backbone don't speak loudly and hold their ideals to the sky. Instead, he knows "weakness", disguises himself as a weak person, avoids the sharpness of others, and strives for more time and energy to do his own thing.

For example, in a company, if a person wants to jump ship, he often doesn't announce his "jump ship" with great fanfare. It's that he had arranged to change jobs before he suddenly left his job. When he left, he was mostly quiet and would not cause a "sensation".

Let others be in the light and yourself in the dark. On the surface, you are suffering, but in fact it reflects your own "backbone". When he was not strong enough, anyone could provoke him, but later he became more and more irritating and stronger, and no one could bully him.

Two: people who "turn their faces when they should": usually smile, don't care about others, and turn their faces at critical times. As the saying goes: "reach out and don't hit the smiling face."

Seeing others laugh, it is estimated that they are not good at arguing with others and are angry.

A man who loves to laugh wins others from the momentum. Just like this. "

The momentum is "unremarkable, and it also reflects a person's wisdom."

Many people think that people who love to laugh are easy to deal with, even if they are bullied, they will not get angry. This understanding is not comprehensive enough, because people who love to laugh will turn their faces at a critical time, and they will definitely give others a "good face" after turning their faces.

A person who loves to laugh is also a person with a temper, but he is good at controlling his temper and will not be easily exposed.

To be a man, you must have a bottom line. If you touch the bottom line of others, don't blame others for being cruel to you.

For example, if you work in a certain unit and the clerk smiles at you, you think he is easy to bully, just smoking and having fun, and others remind you that you don't take it seriously, but laugh at others. In this way, the clerk will turn against you, and most of your things will not be done, and you will even be severely punished.

The man who loves to laugh is also a man of rules. You can get along well with him and discuss things more, but you can't make him angry and bully him at will.

Three: people who "don't make trouble and are not afraid of things": once provoked, they will pester others to the end and never give up.

A man who loves to laugh wins others from the momentum. Just like this. "

The momentum is "unremarkable, and it also reflects a person's wisdom."

Many people think that people who love to laugh are easy to deal with, even if they are bullied, they will not get angry. This understanding is not comprehensive enough, because people who love to laugh will turn their faces at a critical time, and they will definitely give others a "good face" after turning their faces.

A person who loves to laugh is also a person with a temper, but he is good at controlling his temper and will not be easily exposed.

Be a man, you must have a bottom line. If you touch the bottom line of others, don't blame others for being cruel to you.

For example, if you work in a certain unit, the clerk smiles at you. If you think he is easy to bully, just play around. If someone reminds you, you don't take it seriously, but laugh at others. In this way, the clerk will turn against you, and most of your things will not be done, and you will even be severely punished.

The man who loves to laugh is also a man of rules. You can get along well with him and discuss things more, but you can't make him angry and bully him at will.

Three: people who "don't make trouble and are not afraid of things": once provoked, they will pester others to the end and never give up.

Generally speaking, when you meet a villain, you should avoid it and not recruit wisdom. Because villains like to calculate others, they will be entangled with others, and the means used are very hateful, and even they will do things that violate the law and discipline.

There is a kind of person who is not a villain, but he is not easy to mess with. Once you recruit him, he will haunt you to the end. If you don't give up, he won't let it go.

For example, if you say something innuendo in a circle of friends, it magnifies the dark side of an acquaintance. Once or twice, an acquaintance doesn't care about you, but if you deal with him again and again, he will hurt you in turn, or fight with you and get back at you in extreme ways.

Some people, who don't make trouble and are not afraid of things, adhere to the principle of "I won't be a prisoner unless someone attacks me", but some people "attack me" again and again, so don't blame him for being rude.

Four: A "smart man": He looks ordinary at ordinary times, but his ability is much stronger than yours.

People who are shrewd look quiet and ordinary on the surface and don't argue with others. Do you think such a person has no ability at all? It doesn't matter if you bully him casually.

But if you watch secretly, you will find that a man with a deep talent is very powerful, but he won't show it.

Once, my colleagues and I went to a chamber of commerce activity. Many rich people give speeches on the stage, introduce themselves and actively seek partners.

A middle-aged man sitting next to me did not say a word. I thought he was here to "join in the fun" with some boss. I talked to him quietly for a while and found that he is the owner of two factories, worth tens of millions. I suddenly understood that not all rich people like to show off their achievements, but there are always some people hiding in the dark and hiding their strength. No good will come of provoking such people. As the saying goes, "strong hands and strong feet." Maybe the master is by your side, but you didn't find it.

Smart people don't provoke anyone, but treat everyone around them as friends. As for whether others are willing to be friends, that is their attitude. Someone said, "When you walk in the streets of Guangzhou, you often see some people wearing slippers and big shorts. They look timid, but they are rich at home. "

Yes, people who are really not bullied don't deliberately show it, but hide their sharpness. Only when they are offended will they show their sharpness.

To be a man, no one should look down on anyone, even those who look poor. "Thirty years east of the river, thirty years west of the river", one day, you will look down on more people than you.

To be a man, you should learn to look at others, don't make trouble, and don't feel great.