Why is Fan Deng a joke?

At the recent wonderful congress, I personally visited the scene and had an interesting exchange with Gao, a fellow scholar.

I found it interesting when I watched it, but I was also a little puzzled, because the eyes of all parties on the scene made me feel that this kind of mutual communication did not seem to be entirely for the effect of the program, but did appear some emotions of all parties on the scene. They are not professional actors and are not good at hiding their emotions.

Of course, educated scholars naturally won't let their emotions control, so although they really got angry and quarreled, they quickly tried to make a change or cover up, and finally ended their love in a roar of laughter, giving each other membership cards to draw a full stop for this war without smoke.

The next day, I happened to see Mr. Fan Deng's Weibo. "I speak a little too straight and I don't have enough self-restraint." This sentence confirmed my observation when I watched the program, and then I searched for Ma Dong, Gao and Weibo, and no one commented on this exchange.

Think about it, this is just one of several wonderful press conferences, and it is not so worth expressing opinions and hype. A wonderful press conference doesn't need to promote yourself like this, or even talk too much, but people will have a negative impact on it.

After all, Fan Deng was their guest. In the final analysis, the purpose of the so-called wonderful conference is to appreciate the possibility of various life States in the world with a more open mind.

Teacher Fan said: "Reading is a deadly thing, which is related to settling down."

Teacher Xiao Song said: "If reading can solve problems with such a simple syllogism, then the world is a little too simple."

Teacher Fan said, "Didn't Han Han say that? I've heard all the truth in the world, but I still can't live a good life. Then why do some people live well after listening to it? " Is it strange that I haven't lived a good life? "

Teacher Fan cited three major forces: Ma Yun and Alibaba. Teacher Xiao Song quickly responded, "Ma Yun didn't study." Teacher Fan immediately replied, "He can write books or teach others."

Teacher Fan said, "We won't teach you the answer. What we advocate is that if you study hard, you will always get something. Learning is to provide an opportunity, a possibility to change life and direction. You have to judge for yourself and find the direction that suits you, and reading is the best introduction to medicine. "

There are many wonderful debates, and the experts' clever tricks always make the onlookers relaxed and happy. If you are interested, you can go and see for yourself.

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What I want to share is my little understanding and feelings in the process of watching this drama.

There is a saying that actors are crazy and theaters are fools.

Drama is someone else's life, and as an audience, if we are moved, we must have seen some parts that we want to see or don't want to see.

That makes sense!

So, what do I see in this mutual communication?

Persistence in what you love,

When your love is despised by others,

When a person's love is judged impersonally because of others' ignorance, that kind of anger, grievance,

When the person who criticizes himself is still the person he thinks is good, that kind of worry, fear and a little helplessness,

When I realized my persistence and the importance I attached to my reputation, I felt depressed and blamed myself.

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When I saw Mr Fan Deng openly admit his lack of self-restraint in his Weibo, I really admired him and got more recognition from him.

Strictly speaking, he is really not a man of perfect practice. No matter in his Weibo, in his reading, or in his speeches abroad, we can feel his attention to others' evaluation and his vacillation between self-esteem and inferiority, but this does not affect him to do what he loves and share the inspiration he has learned from others.

At the same time, what I appreciate more is his growth in this process, his persistent love, his initial intention to promote more people to join the reading ranks, and his willingness to explore in various commercial ways with growing anxiety.

These are the places that moved me.

Thank you, Mr. Fan Deng, and thank you, Mr. Song. I saw myself in your mutual communication.

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Finally, share a piece of teacher Fan Deng's parenting experience in the program:

"I learned a lot of good ways to educate children correctly at school. After I really used it, I found that educating children is a very, very beautiful thing. If you feel pain when educating your children, it must be because the method is wrong. "

If you are confused or feel pain in parenting, intimate relationship, workplace and so on, you must need more different ways to help yourself, join us, study together, and be calm and strong together.

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