Is it really wrong to be too kind?

? Suddenly I remembered a saying: "A good person will be bullied by others, and a good horse will be ridiculed by others. Is it wrong to be kind in today's society?"

Kind people have soft hearts because they are reluctant to bring harm to others and want to help when they see others suffering. However, sometimes they do bad things with good intentions because they don’t understand Selfishness, choosing to bear everything on your own, becomes a matter of course in the eyes of others over time. This also reminds me of a fable, "The Farmer and the Snake". Everyone knows this story well. The farmer looked at the snake. It was so cold that he kindly held it in his arms to help keep it warm, but was poisoned by a snake unexpectedly. There is also a story "Mr. Dongguo and the Wolf". Mr. Dongguo helped the wolf because of his temporary softness, and was eventually killed by the wolf. It killed people, so people have a certain measure of kindness. Sometimes being too kind can easily encourage other people's evil. That's why there is a saying that good people will be bullied by others, and good people will be ridden by others. In fact, I still can't accept it. Such reality.

I tend to be soft-hearted, and sometimes I really can’t bear to see others suffer, so I tend to compromise more when getting along with others. I can always put myself in their shoes, but no matter in life or At work, my behavior and thoughts make people feel that I should be like this, as if I should be like this, and I am hurt a little from time to time. On the contrary, those who are sarcastic and mean have a smooth life and work. Is it true, as people say, that good people can be bullied by others, and good horses can be ridden by others? But why do people emphasize that you must be kind every day? They talk about the things that kindness can accomplish, but it is completely different from kindness. What is the meaning of kindness here?

? In today’s society, people’s hearts are complicated and human relationships are indifferent. Apart from reputation and interests, I really don’t know how much true love is left. Looking at the scenes of vain human relationships and sophistication in front of me, I feel that this world is special. Liangbo, when I see someone telling other people's pain as a joke, I feel that this person is so indifferent. Maybe they have been surrendered by these similar social weird phenomena, so some people put away their kindness and show their sharpness. , so it has become a hard truth to show your sharpness. If you want to live a better life, sometimes you have to be a little sharper and hide your kindness.

However, I am reluctant to hide my kindness. I always feel that human beings are inherently kind in the beginning. Everyone is kind and has a soft side in their mind. I think I can use my softness to lead others. I am soft and always think that I can definitely gain a lot through kindness, but the reality is undoubtedly a slap in the face. In the end, I can only achieve the word "stupid". However, I am still so stubborn and unwilling to lose my true nature. I am not willing to let go of my soft side, and live my life affectionately, seriously, softly and every day in this ruthless world.