Why does everyone say sister-in-law is not easy to get along with?

Some people say that "a brother is a brother and a sister-in-law is a sister-in-law", which shows that the most tense and difficult thing to deal with in family relations is the contradiction between sisters-in-law. The contradiction between sisters-in-law is bound to reflect brotherhood and affect family and happiness. Then why is the relationship between sister-in-law so difficult to get along with?

1. We don't know each other, but we have doubts.

Because sisters-in-law don't live together since childhood like brothers and sisters, their emotional foundation is not as deep as brothers and sisters, and their temper, hobbies and specialties don't know each other like brothers and sisters, so they are prone to be wary and suspicious. Coupled with more housework and more contact with each other, it is easy to expose private thoughts and produce contradictions and frictions.

2. Selfish, caring about things.

When a person becomes a daughter-in-law, the first thing that comes to mind is not how to maintain and develop the harmony of this family, but how to separate each other as soon as possible. Therefore, brothers and sisters haggle over every ounce. They don't buy many daily necessities or food. They just pick what they can get, take what they can get, and just want to take advantage of "everyone" Some sisters-in-law are afraid that they will suffer. They tried to get the upper hand everywhere and refused to give in at all. So it often appears that you think she has done less, and she thinks you have not paid enough. You say her mother-in-law is eccentric, and she says her father-in-law is eccentric; You said her child was ill-bred, and she said your child was mentally retarded. A trivial matter will nag endlessly, even referring to swearing or simply talking back. The contradiction between them deepened again and again, and finally became a knot in one's heart. In the end, I really couldn't live together, so I had to break up.

Hey? What does it matter? Can't say it's a stranger relationship. It's a bit arbitrary and rude to say so, which doesn't conform to the traditional family concept in China. But the reality is that sisters-in-law have different backgrounds, different education levels, different social status (or income), and the most important thing is that they are not related by blood, so it is difficult to get along well. Those who get along well are family members, while those who don't get along well are not as close as good friends, so help each other if there is anything.