Should I tell my husband's mother that he is unemployed?

From a man's point of view, if he loses his job, his wife tells his mother that he doesn't want his wife to do so, at least not just after he loses his job. Because for me, unemployment is a kind of pressure on myself, and I haven't adjusted myself yet. My wife immediately told her mother that she felt sued, and that she lost her job to prove her incompetence. ...

I'm thinking: why not face it with a problem-solving attitude? We already have our own family. Why do elders always have to participate in things between husband and wife? Isn't it worse to dwell on the problem itself? I hope that both husband and wife can analyze the causes of unemployment and better face the status quo. Besides, in today's society, people with feet and hands are worried about not finding a job as long as they are not lazy and diligent. Maybe only by giving up your present job can you have a job that is more suitable for you. Life itself is gain and loss, why bother with the problem itself? ...

Of course, as a husband, I also object. Because my wife told her mother, not her mother-in-law. Besides, it's no big deal. Maybe parents can give them better advice. Besides, if my wife does this, it will show that her wife and her mother are closely related. If I am too happy, it is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to get along with, and my wife can still be close to her mother and still be alive. Go if you can, and never come back!

Life itself is gain and loss, so we should adjust our mentality. With a problem-solving attitude, face everything bravely! Sad is sad! Sad is sad! If you want to miss it, miss it! Cry if you want! ..... but don't overdo it! Be yourself in reality and cherish the ups and downs in life! Don't wait until you are numb, sad and miserable, which is really unfortunate! ! !