Tian Xiuying in Tian Xiuying: a good mother who laughs at life.

Tian Xiuying, 42, is an ordinary rural woman in Fenghang Village, Anzhan Town, Feicheng City, Shandong Province. It is this ordinary rural woman who raised her severely burned disabled son with weak shoulders and grew up to be an outstanding college student of Shandong University of Light Industry, writing a touching story. Tian Xiuying herself won the first "Top Ten Excellent Mothers" in Shandong Province, the "Top Ten Civilized Citizen Model" in Tai 'an City in 2004 and the "inherit the wind" in Shandong TV Station. Nomination award for Shandong news figures, touching the top ten figures in Feicheng, etc.

"Be sure to let the child stand up."

1989 May 17, 3-year-old son Cai Zhenguo was accidentally ignited by fire in the kitchen, and his lively son suddenly became a "fire" ... Tian Xiuying picked up his son running all the way and ran to the hospital. Looking at the children in front of them, the doctors were shocked, their hair was burned out, their whole faces were raw and blurred, their limbs were curled up, their whole body was stiff, and their two small hands seemed to be two "big charcoal", and the burnt clothes clung to their bodies, emitting a suffocating smell. He was transferred to Jinan Provincial Hospital that day. The operation went well. Cai Zhenguo came alive. However, the candlelight of life is still very weak, and the disease keeps recurring. One day, I stopped breathing 2 1 time. Everyone in the same ward advised Tian Xiuying, "If the child can't stay, let's break up. You are still young and have many opportunities. " She always shook her head and said, "This is a life. Can a mother throw it away? " As long as the child still has a little hope, he will never give up! "

Perhaps her true feelings touched heaven, and the child's condition began to improve obviously. After 82 days of treatment, Xiao Zhenguo spent more than 30,000 yuan from scratch, but he was discharged from the hospital, leaving a serious sequelae: his face was extremely deformed, and the originally bouncing child could only curl up in bed due to skin muscle contraction. "Don't let your child spend the rest of his life in bed?" Tian Xiuying can't accept this reality. "No, absolutely not, we must make the children stand up," she swore to herself. When the doctor inadvertently said, "The limbs are wrapped with strong elastic bands, and long-term exercise may make the child stand up", Tian Xiuying saw a glimmer of hope.

It was dog days, and the heat wave was pressing. Xiao Zhenguo is very sensitive because he has difficulty sweating because his body has been stretched by skin grafts in many places. He felt pain when he touched it. When Tian Xiuying wrapped an elastic band around Xiao Zhenguo, blood and pus flowed out, and Xiao Zhenguo struggled painfully, and his heart-rending cry was like cutting pieces of meat from Tian Xiuying. Tian Xiuying gritted his teeth and wrapped the child's limbs piece by piece. But when he was hung by a scarf and put on the ground, the child was not only in unbearable pain, but also useless in limbs, just lying motionless and crying. Tian Xiuying held back his tears, grabbed his foot and took a step, two steps and three steps forward. At the end of the day, Tian Xiuying was so tired that he couldn't help it. Look at the baby again. The elastic band on his leg has been soaked with blood, sweat and pus. Looking at the child's painful expression, she could only shout in her heart: "Son! Don't be jealous, in order to make you stand up, mom can only do this. " Once, the neighbor saw the child's pitiful appearance and secretly let go of the elastic band to make the child comfortable for a while. Tian Xiuying was in a hurry. She had never been red-faced with her neighbor, so she found her neighbor and scolded her. When she got home, she said loudly to the child, "Do you want to run out and play like other children? The elastic band has to haunt you every day! " "Tian Xiuying unexpectedly, this young Zhen Guo seemed to understand her words, even with tears in his eyes, and nodded hard. At that moment, Tian Xiuying felt that her son was sensible, but she turned away hard and tears could no longer be contained. ...

After five years of hard work, Cai Zhenguo finally stood up at the age of eight! Looking at this stumbling child, Tian Xiuying felt that he was the happiest person in the world.

"Never let children become a burden to society."

Watching the children grow up day by day, Tian Xiuying began to worry again. Don't let the children stay at home like this every day? Now that I have the care of my parents, what should I do in the future? "No, I want him to go to school and learn technology. He can't be a burden to his family, let alone to society. " However, due to the abnormal development of the child's two small hands after burns, the flat palm has grown into two bulging fists, and ten fingers no more than 5 cm are curled up on it. It's not easy to write with such hands! What's more, Zhenguo's face was severely deformed. How does he face teachers and students like this?

Tian Xiuying is determined to let the children study with a normal attitude. In order to let children learn to write first, she practices with Zhenguo at home every day. If one hand doesn't work, she writes with both hands. At first, Zhen-Guo Xiao couldn't hold the pen, so Tian Xiuying tied the pen between two fingers with a rope, and then held it with the other hand before he started to write. I can't remember how many times these hands are swollen and how many blisters have been worn. Over the past year, their mother and son have been persevering every day, and finally Xiao Zhenguo can write freely with two "hands"!

Children face many unimaginable difficulties in going to school. Wherever Zhen Guo goes, his special appearance will become the focus of attention. Tian Xiuying said to Zhen Guo, "Son, when we grow up like this, we are not afraid of jokes. The key is that we have to get good grades in the exam and make everyone who knows you think you can do it. You are no worse than others. "

When Zhenguo went to primary school, the school would send several students with excellent math scores to the town to participate in math competitions. Zhenguo's grades are among the best in the class. The teacher asked Tian Xiuying's opinion and whether Zhenguo could attend. Tian Xiuying said cheerfully, "Don't go to town, let my children go to Beijing to participate in the competition." When Tian Xiuying came to the competition school with his children, many children suddenly gathered around him, twittering around him like watching aliens. At that time, Tian Xiuying hated himself for not being able to pull the child out of the crowd and fly away, but in order to let the child gradually adapt to such an occasion, Tian Xiuying smiled and watched his child walk into the classroom of the competition under the gaze of everyone. ...

After the child entered junior high school, in order to exercise the ability of independent living, Tian Xiuying decided to let the child live with her husband regardless of the opposition of teachers and family members, and also "made three chapters": clothes should be washed by himself; Usually nothing can't go home; Solve the problem yourself. Others don't understand, but Zhenguo understands her mother's good intentions. It was a Saturday afternoon, and Zhen Guo, who came home from school, tried to wash a shirt. He didn't know that his mother was quietly hiding out of the window, watching the child "scrub" clothes with deformed fingers. It only takes ten minutes for ordinary people to wash a white shirt, and it takes Zhen Guo two hours. At that time, Tian Xiuying didn't want to wash his clothes again and again, but when did Zhenguo stand on its own feet? After the shirt was washed, Tian Xiuying rushed forward and said loudly to her husband with dirty clothes: "Come and see, how clean the clothes washed by Zhenguo are!"

With her mother's constant encouragement, fourteen-year-old Zhenguo has become completely independent and can eat, dress, write and read like a normal person.

"Son, you can do it."

Although Tian Xiuying has only a junior high school education and has never studied psychology, she knows children's thoughts and how to encourage them to keep making progress.

One day there will be a movie in the village. Tian Xiuying urged Zhenguo to have breakfast, only to find that he was fiddling with the broken tape recorder at home. A teenager, not to mention a disabled hand, even a normal person may not be able to repair it. Tian Xiuying deliberately said, "Stop it, your father didn't fix it." The speaker has a heart and the listener is more interested. He said that after several times of urging him to eat, Xingguo was not hungry. On weekdays, if he doesn't go to see the movies he likes very much, he will plunge into his own cabin and not come out. Until 1 pm, Tian Xiuying was awakened by intermittent music in his sleep. She saw her son wolfing down his meal while listening to music, and Zhenguo proudly said, "Mom, didn't you say I couldn't fix it?" At this moment, tears of excitement fell in Tian Xiuying's hazy eyes. She grabbed Zhenguo's head and said, "Son, you are amazing, you can, you are."

Zhenguo studied very hard, and his grades from primary school to junior high school have always been the first in the whole grade. However, because his body has too many defects compared with a healthy person, Zhenguo sometimes falls into the shadow of inferiority. In the summer of 2002, when he took part in the senior high school entrance examination, there was a skill operation test, which required students to have flexible hands-on ability, and it was difficult for normal students to complete it well, let alone him. At this time, Zhen Guo flinched. He asked the teacher to call his mother and say that he wanted to give up. Tian Xiuying, who received the call, said to the teacher, "Please tell Zhenguo that you can do it. If not, it is not my child. " In the afternoon, Zhenguo came back, walked beside Tian Xiuying and told her in shame: "Mom, I got full marks." Although Tian Xiuying was happy that her child got full marks, she was also angry because she wanted to give up. She said to Zhen Guo: "Under any circumstances, you can't give up when you encounter any difficulties. You have to believe in yourself. If you give up today, you will get nothing but regret! "

Praise and encouragement again and again made Xiao Zhenguo's ideal wings fly higher and higher. From elementary school to junior high school, he is a "three good" student every year, and his exams are the first in his class. In September 2002, Cai Zhenguo was admitted to Taixi Middle School with the first place in the town. After entering high school, he made several times more efforts than ordinary people and became the best in the whole grade. Although Zhen Xuan is unfortunate, he is still a lucky man. In Feicheng City, it was rated as "Star of Civilization" in the "Flower of Civilization" activity. His life came to a turning point here, and Feicheng People's Hospital performed the first cosmetic surgery for him. In July, 2005, Professor Gao Jianhua, Director of Plastic Surgery Department of Guangzhou Southern Hospital, performed free lip, jaw, armpit, elbow and face plastic surgery for patients. The day after Zhenguo returned to his hometown from Guangzhou, a precious notice from Shandong University of Light Industry, where his mother and son had worked for many years, was sent to Tian Xiuying, and Cai Zhenguo became a college student.

At present, Cai Zhenguo is studying in the Department of Bioengineering of Shandong Institute of Light Industry. This student has become a role model for his classmates with his cheerful and lively personality, impressive achievements and helpful qualities. Recently, Tian Xiuying rescued a Hunan girl who was burned like her son, giving her confidence and confidence, which helped her to rebuild her confidence and courage to live.

Feicheng women's Federation

May 2006

A good mother who laughs at life

The story of rural woman Tian Xiuying and her disabled son

Tian Xiuying, 42, is an ordinary rural woman in Fenghang Village, Anzhan Town, Feicheng City, Shandong Province. Raise a severely burned disabled son with weak shoulders and grow into an outstanding college student of Shandong University of Light Industry. Tian Xiuying herself won the first "Top Ten Excellent Mothers" in Shandong Province and "Top Ten Civilized Citizen Model" in Tai 'an City in 2004. Nomination award for Shandong news figures, touching the top ten figures in Feicheng, etc.

1989 May 17, 3-year-old son Cai Zhenguo was accidentally ignited by fire in the kitchen, and his son suddenly became a "fire" ... On the same day, he was transferred to Jinan Provincial Hospital. After 82 days of treatment, Cai Zhenguo came back to life. But it left a serious sequela: the face was extremely deformed and the limbs curled up on the bed.

It was dog days, and the heat wave was pressing. Xiao Zhenguo has difficulty sweating because his body is stretched by skin grafts in many places. It hurts when he touches it. When Tian Xiuying wrapped an elastic band around Xiao Zhenguo, blood and pus flowed out, and Xiao Zhenguo struggled painfully, and his heart-rending cry was like cutting pieces of meat from Tian Xiuying. Tian Xiuying held back his tears, grabbed his foot and took a step, two steps and three steps forward. After five years of hard work, Cai Zhenguo finally stood up at the age of eight!

Watching children grow up day by day. Tian Xiuying is determined not to let children become a burden to society. In order to let the children learn to write first, she practices with Zhenguo at home every day. Tian Xiuying tied the pen between Cai Zhenguo's two fingers with a rope and wrote with the pen in the other hand. I can't remember how many times I was swollen by strangulation and how many blood bubbles I grinded. So I keep exercising every day. In a year, Xiao Zhenguo finally wrote freely with two "hands"! After the children entered junior high school, Tian Xiuying resolutely decided to let the children live on campus, "three chapters of the contract": clothes should be washed by themselves; Usually nothing can't go home; Solve the problem yourself. At the age of fourteen, Zhenguo was completely independent and could eat, wash clothes, write and read books like normal people.

Tian Xiuying encouraged Xiao Zhenguo again and again with the method of appreciation education. "Son, you can do it." From elementary school to junior high school, Xiao Zhenguo is a three-good student every year. Although Zhen Guo is unfortunate, society has not forgotten him. Feicheng People's Hospital performed its first cosmetic surgery for free. In July 2005, Guangzhou Southern Hospital performed a second cosmetic surgery for him free of charge. In September, 2005, a precious notice from Shandong Institute of Light Industry, for which mother and son have been struggling for many years, was sent to Tian Xiuying, and Cai Zhenguo became a college student.

Recently, Tian Xiuying, an ordinary rural woman, saved a girl with burns and disabilities with her stalwart mother's mind, and helped her raise the sail of life with her selfless love!