No matter how good the relationship between men and women is, what "jokes" can't be said and are easy to spark?

When many people get along with friends, sometimes they can't control their mouths and say a lot of things they shouldn't say, which not only makes the other person feel embarrassed, but even changes your relationship invisibly. The incomplete relationship between AUO and lover is actually unhealthy. In the long run, it will not only waste the feelings of both sides, but also make the relationship between them develop in a "strange" direction.

Some people are not good at expressing themselves, so they will tell their thoughts in a joking way, but some people are "teasing", obviously not sincere to a person, but secretly teasing each other and deceiving others' feelings. No matter how good the relationship between men and women is, you can't say these "jokes". It's easy to spark, and finally it gets out of hand.

I can come to see you at night if you like.

Sometimes a man may be out of sympathy or feel that he is a man and should give some comfort to other girls. Maybe he started out of kindness and wanted to go out for a chat at night or something. But in fact, it is easy for a woman to join your feelings for her. Lonely men and women at night are not suitable to stay together. If they are just ordinary friends, they will not care too much.

There are other men who want to take advantage of other girls, and they don't like this person very much. They just think that since others need it, they have nothing to lose. A woman may really regard this man as a friend, but you can't guarantee that this man has not "cheated" himself. Therefore, women must remember that it is best not to meet the opposite sex alone at night, which is likely to spark unnecessary sparks.

If you are not married at the age of thirty, please marry me.

Some women may think that they are too old to fall in love, and they are afraid that they will not get married, so they will vomit with friends of the opposite sex, but some men may make such a joke with women, saying that if a woman is not married at the age of 30, it just happens that two people are together.

I think many women should have encountered this situation. No matter whether this man really likes you or not, women must have feelings after hearing this, and even misunderstand that this man really likes himself. If two people already like each other, it's good to be together in one sentence. But if the man is only joking, but the woman takes it seriously, then the man's words really break the woman's heart.

Don't be sad, I won't leave you.

In this case, it sounds no different from confession. When people are sad, they want someone around them to comfort them, but this kind of comfort must have a boundary and a bottom line.

Whether men or women, we should give them advice from a bystander's point of view when talking and speaking with friends of the opposite sex, instead of mixing a lot of personal feelings. Some men may see a woman crying very sadly, so they can't help hugging her and even making some intimate moves, which will really make your relationship subtle.

Especially women, it is easy to fall into men's care and care for themselves and mistake this goodwill for love.

What "jokes" do you think friends of the opposite sex can't tell?