Master conversation skills

First, the law of chatting up is also a social etiquette. If you don't pay attention to some strike up a conversation rules, then failure will definitely become inevitable. 1, good image, tidy up your appearance, cleanliness is the most basic requirement, and no one in today's society will be interested in a sloppy person. 2, polite conversation First of all, you should talk politely, don't speak too fast, pronounce the words clearly, and let the other party understand what you mean. Body language should also be relaxed and natural. It is suggested that you can imitate yourself in the mirror, observe your body movements and increase your confidence. Second, strike up a conversation skill: note 1, don't strike up a conversation with a strange woman from behind. 2. Smile naturally when your eyes are opposite. 3. Don't look at each other from top to bottom. 4. Be natural and don't let the other person think that you are interested in talking to her. 5. Don't rush to touch each other anywhere. 6. Don't be discouraged when the other party refuses. You need to make persistent efforts. Invited at least five times. 7. Don't pester each other, let alone stand in each other's way, and follow closely. Even if it fails, it's no big deal. 8. This way of meeting can enjoy a short time with her. If you can arrange the next meeting with her, it will be a complete success. Know how to end this first contact at the right time. 9. If the woman responds enthusiastically, you don't need to stick to the above practice, but should "pursue the victory". If you have a conflict with your partner and it is irreparable, don't lose heart. You might as well add an assistant to your emotional teacher and ask her to help you arrange a counselor who is good at solving emotional problems. First analyze the emotional problems and give you professional advice. /Heart number: strike up a conversation skill Article 2 The palm message method applies: male, generous female. For details, see San Mao's "The rainy season doesn't come". She found a boy who had a crush on him for a long time on the playground. Without saying a word, she took his hand and wrote his name and home phone number on his palm. A kind of romance that silence speaks louder than sound spreads in the hearts of two teenagers. Friendly reminder: when you rush to grab his or her hand, you may have to make a simple explanation, such as: I am not a bad person! Wait, otherwise it may be misunderstood as robbery. After all, silence is better than sound, and not everyone can appreciate it. Application type of vest writing: male. Xiao Si used to take a bus all the way, with the girl he often saw. One day, the girl finally had a chance to talk to him. She sat behind him, and Xiao Si vaguely felt that something was going to happen. Sure enough, the vest suddenly felt itchy. He didn't look back and knew what she was doing. At the station, Xiao Si got off as usual. The white T-shirt vest he is wearing says: I see you every day, can I be friends? My phone number: 139 ... Friendly reminder: not every man has such good manners for you to write on his vest. He will probably jump up and shout, "Oh, my God! My CK! " As for women who love clothes like life, this method is absolutely impossible! Application type of leisure time utilization method: suitable for both men and women. Xiao Wang has gone to Beijing on business. He was tired of being patted on the shoulder because the plane was delayed at the airport. He turned around and saw that the person who took his picture was actually a beautiful woman. She asked, "Do you also take the * * flight? Is it really late? " It turns out that beautiful women also travel alone. Xiao Wang suggested going to the airport cafe for a drink, and the beauty readily agreed. Friendly reminder: while waiting for the plane to go on a date, the environment and mood are good, and there is a little loneliness in "We Meet". We understand. What is the relationship between acquaintances? So the chances of hitting on people are higher. Similarly, this method also applies to trains and ships. The direct hitting method is suitable for both men and women. Zhao Zhao and some friends came out of the cafe, and the man who had been paying attention to her in the cafe just now followed. Zhao Zhao did Sarah laugh, don't know what's the point of such childish tracking. The man stepped up to catch up with her, walked up to her in a few steps, spread out his hands and stopped him. He looked Zhao Zhao in the eye and said seriously, "Hello! My name is junior C. I really hope to know you and make friends with you. " Friends burst into laughter, and Zhao Zhao smiled back and said to him, "Just be an ordinary friend. Hello, my name is Zhao Zhao. " Friendly reminder: sincerity is the greatest secret of success in chatting up people, in terms of being at a loss. Surprisingly, this method is suitable for both men and women. One afternoon on the pedestrian street, Miss Kobayashi wandered alone. Suddenly a man came up and asked politely, "Miss, what time is it?" Kobayashi said apologetically, "Sorry, I don't have my watch and mobile phone, and I don't know the time." At this moment, the man held out his hand, pointed to his watch and said, "I know it's 3: 50 p.m. Beijing time, and there's a movie on at the cinema over there at 4: 00." May I invite you to see it? " Friendly reminder: this method is not generous to both men and women, and only applies to people with a sense of humor. Tip: There are many techniques to strike up a conversation, but the key is to look at each other's feelings. It's important to meet the right person at the right time and place. The opening remarks of hitting on boys 1. Pretend to forget my cell phone. You can pretend that you forgot to take out your mobile phone. If you have something urgent, contact your friends and ask TA for help. Under normal circumstances, boys will not refuse, girls have talked to themselves, and boys will lend you their mobile phones generously. But it's best not to be too far away from him when you make a phone call, otherwise it's not good to be mistaken for a liar who robbed a mobile phone. Life is like a play, it all depends on acting. You can also thank him and praise him generously afterwards, so that the two of them can have a topic to talk about. 2. Asking for directions, girls have a worse sense of direction than boys, so asking for directions is a better excuse. When you find the right person, you should consider the questions you want to ask according to the situation at that time. In principle, the other person will be happy to answer unless he is in a hurry and busy with something. You can ask him "How to get to XX?" "Is it convenient for you to take me? How long will it take? " This will not be too abrupt, but also improve the other person's sense of accomplishment and reduce the other person's wariness towards you. 3. Buy a bottle of mineral water. Generally speaking, the stems of mineral water are tried and tested. Girls have little strength, so it is common that they can't unscrew themselves after buying drinks. This excuse works wonders for girls who are thin or look thin. As for those sister papers that look strong, let's give up this trick. It seems that I feel the harm of the world to fat people. It doesn't matter. You can do the opposite and take the initiative to help boys twist things or carry heavy objects. It's also a dialogue. The routine for girls to pick up boys is 1. Take the initiative to show weakness I know you are a woman at heart, but you always have to save face for boys. Don't do such hard work as screwing a mineral water bottle yourself. You can pretend to be weak and let the boys help you twist. Generally speaking, boys will help with small things that they can. Or the computer at home is broken, you can also ask boys for help. In short, you should take the initiative to show weakness, reflect the value of boys' existence, and then it will be easy. Thank him for his help and invite him to dinner. There is no need to go into details. 2. Praise each other as the saying goes, reach out and don't smile. Whether you praise the other person's taste in clothes or the efficiency of his work, as long as it is a compliment. However, it should be noted that bragging about something or a prominent advantage will greatly enhance boys' goodwill towards you. Otherwise, your praise is too popular, and the other person will know that you are not praising yourself and will think that you are a hypocritical person. Sincere praise will be deeply rooted in people's hearts. 3. Learn to find a topic. Girls want to talk to boys actively, so there is no topic. Before you strike up a conversation, you'd better think of a few topics, whether it's the latest movie or the most popular game at the moment. In short, according to the type of boy you want to chat up, find some topics that he may be interested in. Boys are not as defensive as girls. Some girls take the initiative to talk to them, and they are also very welcome. Even if they don't like you, they won't say no directly.