No matter how good a friend is, you must never tell others what your weaknesses are.

Everyone has their own weaknesses. These weaknesses are also human weaknesses, and they are generally not easy to tell others, even their best friends. So what weaknesses can't you tell others in life?

I. Privacy

A friend said that when he was young, he was too easy to trust others, and he told others anything, even privacy. Once, when his friend was drinking, he told the story about his difficulties, so that all the neighbors knew his privacy. In the end, can't friends do it?

second, you have a dirty laundry. This can't be said.

You can't publicize your dirty laundry. It definitely makes sense. The words handed down from our ancestors are all tempered!

it's an ugly and evil thing that happened in your own home. For example, the family is not harmonious, one of the couple is having an affair, or the daughter sleeps with someone else, and the son fights with someone, and so on.

this kind of thing must be strictly guarded against, and you can't confide anything to outsiders. Take the above examples. If the family is not harmonious, it will make outsiders laugh, and if they have an affair, they will be poked in the back. What is more serious is the matter of their children, especially in rural areas. If the daughter sleeps with others and the neighbors know it, it will be more difficult to marry someone in the village. I can only go far away. The same is true for sons!

Third, what you have done is a bad thing

No one will tell others everything easily, only what you should say, and don't talk nonsense when you should say it. People who have a steady mouth will not suffer in the society, while those who have a weak mouth will often get into trouble because of "speaking". Illness comes from the mouth and disaster comes from the mouth. I have done something wrong. If I say it carelessly, it will be caught by people and it will be difficult to gain a foothold in society in the future.

so, you should think twice before you do anything.