What do the liar and the deceived have in common?

"When Zhou Yu hits Huang Gai, one is willing to hit and the other is willing to suffer"! Liars are "people with evil intentions". Their consciences have been eaten by dogs. They have no humanity at all. They are... scum in society! There is only one result: those who do evil will be killed! As for the person who was deceived: he lost his eyesight, encountered a thief, and failed to catch any water with a bamboo basket, not even a shrimp was caught. The result: he thought he was unlucky! Liar... How many people recognize this "xiang" character but don't interpret it, and they fall for it, only then do they realize: This character was created to deceive people. People say: There is a way to cheat, and there is a way to deceive. If you ride a horse to find a horse, you miss it... Stir with a pole. Others say: You are asking for it if you are deceived. Who told you... not to be so thoughtful? In fact, in real life, there is no way to do anything good but to cheat!

Liars and deceived people have one thing in common, that is, they are greedy for gain.

There are reports in the news every day. People who are deceived and people who are deceived are common and emerge in endlessly.

There are also examples that happened around me. The events seemed so simple that they were incomprehensible, but the consequences were still very disastrous.

A neighbor of my father-in-law is an old man who retired from the banking system. When he works, he is the office director. Throughout his life, he has been upright in character, serious in work, and frugal in life. I have lived most of my life cautiously and cautiously.

His children were very confident in him and never cared about his savings. They never thought that one day his honest and responsible old father would also be deceived by a liar.

After retirement, he had no worries about food and clothing, so he went out for a walk when he had nothing to do. After walking for a few years, he suddenly fell ill and couldn't afford to be ill. When he went to the hospital for examination, he couldn't find any substantial problems.

After some time, he told his daughter that he had been cheated and all his life savings were gone.

The reason is that when I was walking out, I met an enthusiastic person who greeted him all day long and showed great concern. This person gave him a good opportunity to make a fortune, took out his money and invested it to make a profit. , he can get 10,000 yuan in interest for every 100,000 yuan. Where can he find such a good thing? The first time he took out 10,000 yuan, and within a few days, he got back 11,000 yuan. , but he was so happy that he quickly took out all his capital and invested it all. After waiting for a few more days, not only did he not get the money back, but the person who took his money could not be contacted.

He became anxious and fell ill. Two years have passed and the liar has not been found.

Scammers undoubtedly want to take advantage, and some people who are deceived also want to take advantage. This is what they have in common.

If there is one thing that scammers and deceived have the most in common, they both want to get something for nothing, they both want to get pie in the sky, and they both want to get rich immediately. Greed, not seeking advancement.

The difference between them is that the deceived person is only responsible for imagining, or others will enter the imagination with a little guidance. While the films are imagining themselves, they will actively guide others to imagine, thereby making others fall into their own traps.

In fact, human nature has many similarities. The difference lies in our understanding, awareness and control of ourselves. Many people have seen a lot of the world, but have not seen their true selves. If you want to better grasp things, grasp development opportunities, and grasp your own risks, you must start with knowing yourself. Only by knowing yourself can you improve yourself and change yourself.

Both the scammer and the deceived take advantage of a person who is greedy for petty gains and lustful vanity.

In the past, people were taking advantage of small bargains on the road, and it was because the chain molds were trying to pry them off. Grandpas and aunties thought they were getting cheap goods and were deceived.

The other party needed to make additional payments in various names, so she foolishly asked her ex-husband for help. His ex-husband was so conscientious that he gave out hundreds of thousands, and then borrowed another hundreds of thousands from relatives and friends. The women's total *** collected half a million.

Now, my ex-husband is ill, probably so angry that he collapsed, and he has incurred hundreds of thousands of debts because of his heartlessness.

The woman called the police and is under investigation.

This kind of person who harms himself and his ex-husband and family is willing to be deceived by strangers and strangers, and invisibly deceives his ex-husband and family. Relatives and friends, are they hateful and pitiful?

Don’t be greedy for cheap, and would rather suffer than hurt your family and others. Don't be vain. You would rather listen to false love words than be friends with a kind and honest person.

Be a rational person and have a sense of the rule of law. Don’t make yourself stupid and messed up just for the sake of so-called love!

One is to take advantage of people's greed, and the other is to take advantage of people's sympathy. In the first case, the biggest thing the liar and the deceived have in common is greed. The liar is greedy for you. Money, you are greedy for the benefits promised by liars.

1. When defrauding money, both the liar and the deceived want to get the property they want from each other: nowadays, no matter what kind of telecommunications fraud, investment and financing fraud, elderly health product fraud, insurance fraud, illegal In fund-raising scams, lottery scams, gambling scams, 2-yuan investment returns 500-yuan a day scams, game-playing scams, and other scams involving money, the scammer wants to defraud the victim of his capital, and the victim wants to get interest from the scammer and get the so-called high returns. The two phases colluded to become this scam. Scammers want to get high profits for no effort, and the deceived also want to get more returns from the scammers with the only money in their hands. They all think that the pie made of money from the sky will fall on their heads.

Liars are hateful, and those who are deceived are actually pitiful people who must be hateful. They all want to get rich overnight, and they all want to gain more with less effort, low cost and high returns.

There are things in this world where you can get something without giving, and there are so many legends of getting rich overnight.

2. Cheating love, the liar and the deceived want to get love from each other, and get more things through love:

How many people in the world use love as an excuse, Doing all sorts of despicable things. Whether it is a mistress, a mistress, a mistress, or a mistress, whether it is cheating, unspoken rules, or erotic transactions, or defrauding the elderly of their companionship, greetings, and affection, on the surface it is for the so-called love, but deeper investigation is still for money.

Even if it is just to deceive love, but after a certain period of time together, both parties find that they are not suitable or feel deceived, then the love gained will eventually break up.

Not much to say here.

3. Trust in the case of a fool and a blind man:

There are still true friends in the world, and there will also be some small scams between true friends, but this method is just a fool The trust between them and a blind man, each of these harmless scams is just a joke, a limited joke, but through this scam, the relationship between them is maintained and developed, and there is a bond between them that cannot be given up. trust.

4. Well-intentioned deception, unlimited love:

This kind of deception occurs more often between people who truly love each other, and between family members. But all the deception is out of consideration for the other party and the family, and there is no malicious deception. More infinite love.

Let’s answer this question (cheating). The liar and the deceived have two different perspectives. Scammers use constant means to deceive people, and the people who are deceived lose their money. Now I will talk about the tricks of liars to deceive people.

Once my brother drove to collect scraps, and there were two men on the way. Saw my brother driving a scrap truck. Just stop it. Did you say that the master is a waste collector? My brother said yes, what do you have to sell? The liar just said you should come down and take a look. He was carrying two heavy plastic bags. My brother opened it and saw so much copper. My brother asked him how much it cost per pound? The price has been negotiated. Then he took two large pieces of copper and weighed them. After the weighing, my brother paid the money and took the two bags of copper to the car. Just ready to go back. I thought I had made money from the two bags of copper today, so I went back and opened them. Everyone was confused. It was all two bags of mud. Only then did my brother remember. During the payment process, you did not notice that one person collected the money and another transferred the payment. This is a trick used by scammers to deceive people.

Have the people who were deceived gotten their goods? The money is gone again, and the surprise money is gone. In today's society, no matter what you do, you must be careful to prevent being cheated. Dear friend, if you are halfway on the road or at a certain street corner. Generally speaking, people who are unfamiliar with them will be ignored. Be especially careful about being scammed.

I am happy to answer your questions.

No matter what kind of scammer and the deceived, they want to take advantage of each other.

1. When defrauding money, both the liar and the deceived want to get the property they want from each other: nowadays, no matter what kind of telecommunications fraud, investment and financing fraud, elderly health product fraud, insurance fraud, illegal In fund-raising scams, lottery scams, gambling scams, scams involving a 2-yuan investment that returns 500 yuan a day, game-playing scams, and other scams involving money, the scammer wants to defraud the victim of his capital, and the victim wants to get interest from the scammer and get the so-called high returns. The two phases colluded to become this scam. Scammers want to get high profits for no effort, and the deceived also want to get more returns from the scammers with the only money in their hands. They all think that the pie made of money from the sky will fall on their heads.

Liars are hateful, and those who are deceived are actually pitiful people who must be hateful. They all want to get rich overnight, and they all want to gain more with less effort, low cost and high returns.

There are things in this world where you can get something without giving, and there are so many legends of getting rich overnight.

2. Cheating, the liar and the deceived want to get love from each other, and get more things through the love:

How many people in the world use love as an excuse, Doing all sorts of despicable things. Whether it is a mistress, a mistress, a mistress, or a mistress, whether it is cheating, unspoken rules, or erotic transactions, or defrauding the elderly of their companionship, greetings, and affection, on the surface it is for the so-called love, but deeper investigation is still for money.

Even if it is just to deceive love, but after a certain period of time together, both parties find that they are not suitable or feel deceived, then the love gained will eventually break up.

Not much to say here.

3. Trust in the case of a fool and a blind man:

There are still true friends in the world, and there will also be some small scams between true friends, but this method is just a fool The trust between them and a blind man, each of these harmless scams is just a joke, a limited joke, but through this scam, the relationship between them is maintained and developed, and there is a bond between them that cannot be given up. trust.

4. Well-intentioned deception, unlimited love:

This kind of deception occurs more often between people who truly love each other and between family members. But all the deception is out of consideration for the other party and the family, and there is no malicious deception. More infinite love.

But it is recommended that even if such deception occurs, since it is a family member, there is still a time when everyone should choose the right opportunity to speak openly and honestly, so as not to hurt the emotions due to well-intentioned deception, which would be more than worth the gain.

No matter what the situation is, the liar and the deceived want to take advantage of each other. This advantage may be money, it may be the so-called situation, it may be trust, it may be love. But since there is a scam, there must be a bad side. Therefore, even if it is out of good intentions and love, you must explain it clearly in time to avoid a sad ending.

The above is only the personal opinion of a bearded old man who is studying. If you have different ideas or objections, please feel free to correct me and communicate with me. Thank you.

Since ancient times, there are only two types of deception. One is to take advantage of people's greed, and the other is to take advantage of people's sympathy. In the first case, the biggest disadvantage between the liar and the deceived is *The same point is greed, the liar is greedy for your money, and you are greedy for the benefits promised by the liar.

There are thousands of deceptions, but strictly speaking they all exploit the weaknesses of human nature. I once saw a joke saying this.

But not long after, the two rich men made a bet again, saying that these people would still be fooled, so they posted a missing object notice again, and the reward was still 5 million. The situation was exactly the same as last time. People It seemed that he had forgotten about being tricked and was still looking for ways to get rich overnight. Naturally, the result was exactly the same as the first time.

What does this mean? As long as people are greedy, no matter how clichéd lies or deceptions are, they will never go out of style. After all, human beings like to have an attitude of preferring to believe what they have. What if this is true? This happens to be the human weakness that scammers exploit. There are also people who like to pretend to be smart, but end up falling into the trap of scammers step by step.

If you don’t want to be deceived, you need to always remind yourself that pie will not fall in the sky, and you must be calm and think more when encountering problems.

There is a certain argument online and in society.

Those who were deceived were all greedy for petty gains, so they calmly taught the victims: There is no free lunch in the sky; or in other words, the victims who were deceived were ignorant and did not understand science, so they arrogantly gave advice. : Believe in science and get rid of ignorance, and so on.

I think these statements are all wrong. Blaming victims who have been deceived is like blaming women who have been raped. You are too revealing, you walk at night, and you have committed a crime. Molecules can take advantage of this opportunity, and there is even a saying that "it's hard for gods to live in peace", as if the victims are also responsible. These two understandings are equally evil and equally stupid.

People who say these things may not have experienced the power of liars, but you have not been deceived, not because you are not greedy, not because you understand science, not because you are not paranoid or ignorant. It's just because the liar did not regard you as his prey purely by chance, that's all.

Someone once said a very reasonable saying, don't use your own hobbies to choose other people's majors to feed you. It makes sense to apply it here. Scammers are professionals who rely on this to make a living. No one has nothing to do when they are full. They specialize in practicing fraud prevention skills. The two are not on the same level at all.

The main reason why liars are successful is that they have successfully grasped the weaknesses of human nature. Humans are not machines, not computer AI, humans all have weaknesses. Furthermore, rather than saying that the key to a liar’s success is to grasp the weaknesses of human nature, it is better to say that what the liar grasps is human nature itself.

Greed, on the surface, is a weakness of human nature, but in fact, it is the core competitiveness that humans rely on to evolve to the top of the biological chain. This has passed through layers of genetic screening in the history of evolution and is engraved on us. Imprinted in DNA.

In addition to greed and ignorance, liars can take advantage of almost all characteristics of human nature, not just these two.

Those who sell health care products are not only taking advantage of the elderly’s ignorance of science. On the contrary, the cultural knowledge level of many elderly people who are deceived is not low. Some even know that those health care products are unreliable. , spending a lot of money to buy a bunch of health products and not taking them. Some of them take advantage of the elderly's fear of death, some take advantage of the emptiness in the hearts of empty-nesters, and some take advantage of their children's filial piety to sell scams such as "Lingzhi Spore Powder" to terminally ill elderly people. (Don’t panic about the rabies, I haven’t heard of any scammers trying to trick you, because once you get sick, you usually can’t resist it for a week)

There is also a classic scam, which is to call your parents and say that you When the parents of a child in a car accident heard the bad news, they were immediately confused. How could they tell the truth from the lie? No matter how harsh it is to put it, when the parents learn that they have been deceived, they may not be happy enough. How can they care about the property damage?

There are also calls to say that economic crimes are being investigated; calls to say that leaders have been caught engaging in prostitution and need to be released on bail. These are taking advantage of the general public's fear of law enforcement agencies, and they are also using subordinates' loyalty to their superiors to defraud. . They are no better than those who are greedy for petty gains and do not understand science! Only knowing these two items is a sign of ignorance!

Liars are a kind of evil. They are the evil of robbery. Liars do evil for survival and for their own greed. This is a basic evil and a primitive evil. However, standing on the moral high ground, blaming the victim and causing secondary harm to the victim is a kind of hypocritical evil and the evil of using self-righteous moral and intellectual superiority to bully others! This is a higher level of evil! The difference between these two evils is like that of a hunter who hunts for food and a nobleman who hunts for pleasure.

When scammers succeed, the victims cannot be blamed; to eliminate fraud, we cannot just rely on improving the victims' anti-fraud techniques, but also must impose strict penalties, eliminate fraud through social contracts and legal construction. Through the blessing of the state's violence machine, the scammers lose more than they gain.

What is governing the country according to law? Why severe punishment?

False propaganda, refunding one and getting three in return is one of the examples.

Yes. They are both parties involved in the event. Only those who are deceived can be liars; only those who are liars can deceive the deceived.

The only other commonality is that the two parties must be able to be connected together, and there is a kind of connected mediator.

For example, they are all from a certain place, and there is no barrier to language communication; or they all have mobile phones, can access the Internet, and can talk in a group; or they all focus on the same aspect, such as investment, making a fortune, etc.; or They are all interested in a certain thing, such as antiques, calligraphy and painting, or treating a certain disease, or they all need to build a happy family... and so on. There are as many types of scams as there are types of interactions, unless there is no interaction between people. Humans are social animals and it is impossible not to interact, so it is impossible for scams not to happen!

Scammers generally refer to those who defraud money and other physical objects or assets, which is money fraud; there is also a type of fraud, which is not difficult to understand. To take things a step further, there are also people who cheat on their reputation, and those who deceive the world and steal their reputation refer to this category. However, this is no longer what ordinary people can do. Ordinary people can only cheat for small honors such as diplomas and advancement.

Being defrauded of real assets, one often gnashes one’s teeth and hates it; being deceived and losing one’s virginity makes one cry secretly and feel sad, silently savoring the bitterness and sweetness; and being defrauded of the public’s popularity and deceiving the world and stealing one’s reputation is a crime that cannot be punished by the law. , everyone has a share of responsibility for being blinded, so they will relish the funny reflection~~~! I don’t have much time to say, so I’ll stop here.