Is the first impression of a blind date important? What should I do if I don’t feel the first impression of a blind date?

Many people like the feeling at first sight when they are in love. If they don’t feel good at first sight, they don’t want to get in touch with them anymore. In fact, everything is uncertain. Some people may not be your cup of tea at first sight. After getting along later, you will find that you are actually a good match.

Is the first impression of a blind date important?

If the first impression makes you feel that it is not suitable for you, or is not what you want, it will be difficult to get along. It is indeed better to be in harmony than to look. It is precisely because of this that I think it is a matter of my own thinking whether I should force myself or not. I don’t know what people value most when they go on a blind date? Some people value appearance. He said that when we first meet, we don’t care about appearance. What he said was correct, but not entirely. It is true that when we meet for the first time, we will all look at each other's appearance, but besides appearance, there should be other things! Since we know that we are here for a blind date, we will definitely still see if we feel it, and we will taste it from between the lines of his words. Depending on how a person is, they will pay attention to some details, etc., so appearance should not be the main thing, but should only be part of your judgment. Nowadays, there are not so many talented men and beautiful women in society, but there are more and more beauties and beasts, and they all live happily.

Many men are not good-looking but they are able to embrace beautiful women, which does not become a fetter on their pursuit of goddesses. On the contrary, such people are more worthy of respect, because they must have certain qualities that make them favored by others. Therefore, appearance is really not that important, especially when two people live together. It has nothing to do with appearance. The important thing is that each other feels comfortable, and they will not change each other for anything, but accept everything in his life calmly. Since it is a blind date, you should pay more attention to understanding both parties, because the other party is the person who wants to accompany you throughout your life. After all, blind date is different from falling in love. What you want most is the pounding feeling of love at first sight. Falling in love is the prelude to marriage. Many people who end up together are often not the one who made your heart beat in the first place. Therefore, the feeling at first sight is not the most important. Many times we always show the most perfect side of ourselves in front of strangers to win favor. What we see is often not the truth, and it is extremely blind, so The important thing is to discover slowly and adapt gradually.

Don’t speculate on the blind date man with the worst possible intentions. Good guesses may not necessarily bring good results, and bad guesses will inevitably lead to bad results. It is best to communicate without putting pressure on the other party. Ask for the reason immediately. When others don't know you, they will usually look at your face first, then your qualities, and then your behavior to judge you. How can you get the other person's appreciation? Of course, the most important thing is that your moral character must be good, and the second is that your appearance must be clean. In this case, the success rate of the blind date will be greatly improved. You can be indifferent at first glance, but you can't feel disgusted or displeased, otherwise you will look at the other person with a bad mood. Boys should know how to be humorous in moderation. It is recommended to prepare a few jokes in advance to ease the awkward atmosphere of the first meeting. Remember to make sure they are funny. If not, it will only make the atmosphere more awkward. Girls should know how to politely refuse when boys make seemingly reasonable and unreasonable demands. Only if you can do the above things well can you have a successful blind date.

What to do if you don’t feel anything at first sight

1. If the conditions are good, you can get along for two months to see it first

There are many kinds of love in the world , does not exclude those who have a long-lasting love. Especially when you feel that the man you are dating is pretty good both externally and internally, family background, character, etc., don’t give up easily. Since you think he is a worthy candidate for marriage, why not give each other a chance to give it a try? You don’t feel very strongly about him at the moment, maybe because your desire for love is relatively low. Open your heart and love bravely. Well, so that others can have a chance to get close to you. If it is later determined that it is really not suitable, it is not too late to separate. You can try to talk about love first to see if each other has the same outlook on life and values, and if they have the same language, and then make a decision. In addition, you can't be idle and look for other places, because finding friends is like going to the market to buy food. You can't just buy the food when you see it at the door. You have to look at each house first. Well, finally choose what you like. Of course, if you see that the person is not suitable for you at first glance, just express your attitude directly and don't hold them back.

2. I really don’t feel like I’m in love, I can’t help it

It’s hard to explain this feeling clearly.

Maybe this is art, and life is full of art. The same sentence, spoken by two different people, feels different; the same tenderness, expressed by different people, has different feelings. This is related to people's eyes, ears and aesthetic concepts. People are all different and their feelings are all different. A person can fall in love with many people, it depends on whether they are destined to meet them. Some people never meet the one they love in their entire lives. Of course, relationships still need fate. Before fate comes, you can try to talk about love, or you can focus on your career. When fate comes, just catch him. Many times, when we make decisions, we consider more external factors, but we still have to respect our own hearts when dealing with emotions. If we really don't feel anything, even if we live together for a while and still don't feel anything, we absolutely can't force it. No matter how nice someone is, but you don't like it, you still force yourself to stay together. In the future, the more you think about it, the more awkward it will become, and sooner or later they will break up and get divorced.

3. Love cannot be compromised, and marriage should not be compromised

We are used to doing what others do, and we never ask why. I will fall in love when others fall in love, and I will marry when others get married. Most people enter the cage without even thinking about the meaning of marriage, and end up building a siege. They are beautiful in front of others and sad in the back. When you love someone, you shouldn't make do with it, and when you marry someone, you shouldn't make do with it. Love and marriage should be for the perfection of one's own life and the improvement of the quality of life. It is because two people are happy with each other, desire to be together day and night, desire to live together with each other, have children, and grow old together slowly. go. It's not because of loneliness, or because of age, or because I worry about the opinions of my parents and society. Parents want their children to be happy, so they allow their children to accept blind dates and urge marriages. Many people feel guilty for going against their parents' wishes, so they can only make do with blind dates, get married aggrievedly, and love aggrievedly. However, we cannot play marriage to please others. There is no need to feel guilty for refusing a blind date or forcing marriage.

How do I know if the other person likes me after a blind date?

1. Take the initiative to chat with you

The two people on the blind date were strangers at first and got to know each other through the introduction of a matchmaker , the person who takes the initiative to chat with you after meeting for the first time must be that you meet his criteria for choosing a mate!

2. He takes good care of you when dating

Likes you The person always pays attention to you and worries about you. When they are dating, the other person takes great care of you. The purpose is very simple. He has taken a liking to you and wants to be attentive to you!

3. Eye contact between conversations

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder", so you can tell whether the other person likes you by looking at the other person's eyes. If his eyes are always paying attention to you , then he probably likes you.

4. Keep admiring you

In front of the people who love you, you are always perfect. Your every move and every move shows your elegant grace and extraordinary temperament. , so in his heart, you are the best and most perfect, and of course he will continue to appreciate you.

5. Occasional physical contact

People who like you will want to have a further relationship with you, and will naturally be willing to take the initiative to approach you and create some intimate physical contact to make you They become ambiguous, all these are hoping to get closer to you.

Signs of poor character in women on blind dates

1. Not being grateful

In this process of getting along with others, knowing how to be grateful is the most basic thing. After all, no matter what Whether in life or in relationships, a woman with good character will definitely remember others' help, will know how to be grateful, and will always be ready to repay others. Women with bad character will feel that when they are helped by others, they will take it for granted, no matter who the other person is, and will never be grateful to others. Such a woman's character will not be much better.

2. If others are better than her, she will feel particularly uncomfortable

If a woman has a bad character, she will not see others being better than herself. This is a sign of poor character. A manifestation. If a woman is like this, she won't want others to live a better life than her, even if they are her own relatives. In her heart, she will be happy only if she lives a good life. This kind of woman is often inconsistent with her appearance. She will be very enthusiastic in front of you, but she will belittle you when you don't know it. She will never see anyone else who is better than her.

3. Likes to care about everything

If a woman has a bad character, she will definitely like to care about everything. Such women like to quarrel with others over trivial matters in life, as long as they are themselves If you feel unhappy, you will find ways to quarrel with others. No matter what the situation, she will be self-centered and will often hurt others for some small interests. Therefore, if a woman has a bad character, she should like to care about everything.