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Picking up girls is an effective way to get to know them. It can be said that people who can pick up girls must have the ability to talk to women. If you are still confused, you can read today's article, and you will feel suddenly enlightened.

First, the preparation before chatting up:

1, get a haircut that suits you (just go to the barber shop and find a professional barber to solve it)

2. Buy some handsome "shirts" and shoes.

3. Take a shower and wash your hair before going out.

4. If necessary, you can prepare to ask several pick-up partners to strike up a conversation together, which will effectively improve your strike up a conversation efficiency.

5. Cultivating your self-confident attitude will make you more natural and comfortable when chatting up!

Above, if these are not done well, you don't have to go out and strike up a conversation, because you failed!

It is skillful to strike up a conversation with a girl. Girls are inherently insecure about strangers. How to break this relationship is the key to success. I never talked to girls before, but I was always rejected by girls. Later, I accidentally read Zhuge's e-book The Secret of Love and learned a lot. This book talks a lot about dry goods. Now I have dealt with more than a dozen girls according to the method in the book. Brothers are highly recommended to read and find this e-book online.

Second, strike up a conversation recommended location:

Generally, the places where people go to strike up a conversation will be large shopping malls, streets and their own way to and from work, but these are not the best places. It's best to go to a safe place, such as your community, your office building, campus, etc. This will make you have something in common with girls and greatly improve your success rate of chatting up.

Third, the way to strike up a conversation

Generally speaking, girls have two situations to talk about:

1, only once, maybe never in my life, such as in the street, in restaurants, in shopping malls, when traveling, and so on.

2. I just don't know the girls I meet from time to time, such as female colleagues in a unit, girls in the same community, girls I meet by subway every day, and so on.

In view of these two situations, our strike up a conversation strategy is different.

In the first case, it is more common to strike up a conversation directly, whether it is direct, indirect or situational. Anyway, it's the preparation time after you meet the girls. If you strike up a conversation successfully, you will have no chance. This success rate is relatively low. In my experience, the success rate of chatting up is 30%-40%, and it is more difficult to follow up. More girls can really be together.

In the second case, which is also my favorite way to strike up a conversation, you will often meet these places in your life, so you can get to know her bit by bit.

The general process is as follows:

Just smile when you see your sister for the first time and the second time. As long as she responds to you, then you already know each other.

You can say hello next time you see it, for example, it's such a coincidence to see it again;

We can chat next time, such as what are you going to do and have dinner?

We can continue to talk in the next few times. If you live in a residential area, you can ask what building you live in, what kind of public facilities and property are in the residential area.

After so many exchanges, in fact, you have become friends. Looking for a woman to ask for WeChat again will basically not fail, because the sense of security and connection will continue to increase after meeting again and again. You are already friends, and it is logical to leave each other WeChat.

Now I mainly strike up a conversation with the second type, which I call life conversation. This will be natural and the subsequent success rate will be higher.

One of my recent accosting cases was hitting on a beautiful girl on the subway. I meet her almost every time I go out. When I see her for the third time, I will come forward and strike up a conversation with her (the first two times, I deliberately stood in front of her to let him notice me):

Smile: Hello (smile)! I have seen you several times on this train (to increase the sense of connection and security).

Sister: Well, yes, I have seen it several times (the response is not bad).

Smile: that's really destiny takes a hand.

Sister: I smiled and said nothing.

Smile: Do you work around here?

Sister: Yes, it's in the XX building at the next stop.

Smile: What a coincidence. I was near there, too.

Sister: Oh, that's quite close.

With such a simple greeting, we have already met. The next time we met, I left her WeChat, and my sister gave it to me gladly. This kind of strike up a conversation, leaving contact information is almost 100%