Is it true that you are joking?

I used to express my true feelings through jokes when I was in contact with the closest people. This way can not only reduce the awkward and tense atmosphere, but also enhance the intimacy between us.

Once I had dinner with my best friend, I suddenly found that she likes to order a lot of dishes, but she often can't finish them, wasting a lot of food. So I jokingly said, "Are you losing weight? Ordering so many dishes is a waste, not good. " She responded with a smile: "I just like to order a lot of dishes, and I will be very happy when I look at a rich table."

I know that she is usually frugal and doesn't like to waste, so I expressed my worries and worries in this kind of joke. She also knows what I mean, and she also knows that I am doing my best. This kind of communication can not only bring joy and relaxation, but also deepen the emotional connection between us.

Another time, I watched a movie with my closest friend, and when I saw the sad scene, she couldn't help crying. I handed her a tissue and joked, "You cried red in the theater. Let me see what it looks like? " Although she smiled, I knew she was actually very sad. At this time, I silently reached out and held her hand, silently cheering for her.

This way of joking expressed my concern and support for her and made her feel my feelings and warmth. Established a deeper emotional connection between us. This way of communication is not only a joke, but also an expression of truth.

In a word, jokes are a very good way of communication, which can alleviate the tense and embarrassing atmosphere to a certain extent and enhance the emotional connection between them. But when using this method, we also need to pay attention to the appropriateness of the method and time, so as not to hurt each other's feelings. Only by sincere treatment can we establish a stronger and healthier intimate relationship.