The mother extorted the house from her son in the name of filial piety. Is it wrong for the daughter-in-law to resist?

Professor Yang Yansui, director of Tsinghua University Employment and Social Security Research Center, predicts that from 20 15, China's labor force will decrease at a rate of 8 million per year, while the population over 65 will increase at a rate of 8 million; By 2035, China's population aged 15-64 will be 8 10/00000, and the number of elderly people over 65 will reach 294 million.

A netizen lamented: "If you want to give your parents the best life, you can stay in the same place with your best efforts ... It's not that we don't love our parents, but that the burden of life often makes us breathless."

As a result, "gnawing at small" has become a hill between parents and children with accusations, complaints, responsibilities and obligations.

In fact, children have the obligation and responsibility to support the elderly regardless of whether their parents have pension, pension insurance or gnawing.

Aunt Wang is a famous "gnawing little" mother-in-law among her neighbors. She is 68 years old, a retired worker, and her wife died young, so she worked hard to bring up her eldest son.

A few years ago, my son has been separated since he got married and had children. But since she retired, she has asked her son for this and that every now and then, and others have been talking about it.

She responded with domineering: "I have worked hard to raise my son so much and gave it to my wife. Why shouldn't they repay me well? " I asked my son and daughter-in-law for a big diamond ring. Even if the house is "small", what about the BMW villa?

If you insist that I chew it, I will. How many years do I have left? When I close my eyes, these things are not all theirs. Am I saving money for them in disguise? "

But the daughter-in-law disagrees with her mother-in-law. For this matter, the couple don't know how many times they quarreled.

She felt that her mother-in-law was devouring not only the couple's money, but also their marriage.

In an interview, Professor Yuan Xin from the Center for Aging Development Strategy of Nankai University once said: "China has a tradition of supporting the elderly since ancient times, and it is the responsibility of every child to support the elderly. How can you say that your parents are "small"?

Parents abroad raise their children to 18 years old and let them die. This line is a one-way street.

In our country, parents raise their children, and their children should be supported when they are old. This is a two-way street.

Raising children to prevent old age, children and parents exchange roles, there is no question of who chews who.

Zhu Dexiao comes first. We have enjoyed the upbringing of our parents since childhood, and we will grow old one day. Respecting and loving the elderly has been a virtue since ancient times. Supporting parents is not only a legal requirement, but also a moral requirement.

Children should take care of their parents' emotions as much as possible and satisfy their reasonable wishes. Don't think that parents have food and a place to live is filial piety. "Seeing money but not people" is easy for parents to get heart disease.

Simply put, it is not only spiritual support, but also emotional contribution that is the most important.

For parents, the happiest thing is that when you are white-haired and faltering, your child still holds your hand tightly.

Parents should change their ideas, don't ask too much of their children, and don't have to pay them back. Motherly love and fatherly love are the most selfless, passed down from generation to generation. To put it mildly, raising children is actually making contributions to society and mankind. Of course, it is also appropriate for children to do something for their parents when possible. This is another aspect of the problem.