My elders disapprove of my going to the big city to struggle after graduation. How can we convince our elders?

Many elders can't understand why children would rather work in big cities than go back to the countryside. In the minds of elders, that is, children will eventually return to their hometown, even if the economically developed cities are prosperous, they have nothing to do with themselves. So this idea will be added to the hearts of young people, who want their children to return to China. However, children do not think so. Many elders fell out because of this incident, which made them unhappy. In fact, the old man's mind is not easy to change, and it is useless for you to force it. You should tell them negative examples, such as "If I don't do this, I will lose something" and "All my classmates are like this, and they are developing very well now".

The big environment mobilizes people's minds and challenges themselves in big cities. If you don't work hard, you may be eliminated by this society, and you will be forced to move forward and enhance your value. I have worked hard in a big city all my life, and when I am old, I can still recall my experiences when I was young. I didn't spend every day of my life. Only under high pressure can you inspire your hiding ability. Life is too short to be better. To sum up, young people don't want to muddle along and make progress.

You can use this reason to convince your family to think from the perspective of the big environment. If you don't work hard, you will be eliminated by this society, and the books you have read for many years will fall short.

Unwilling to listen to relatives gossip, the inclusiveness of small rural areas is really poor, and most parents don't want their sons to take up new jobs. In parents' minds, it is most important to have an iron rice bowl, prepare, get married and carry on the family line. Young people and their elders have different ideas. The elders think that young people must choose a stable position and earn enough money to marry or not. Even if they dress secretly, young people don't dress casually.

Young people don't want to spend their lives in mediocrity. Young people prefer to work hard and respect new jobs. Most importantly, after returning to China, the imagination of young people will decline. So you can also use this fact to convince your family that you are an adult and you can explain everything to your family. At home, you will find that you can't keep up with the development of this society, and old ideas will not be added to you.

Finally, it has become a trend that young people want to go to big cities to find jobs. Even when students fill in their volunteers, they give priority to finding universities in big cities and are willing to settle in big cities. However, many parents hold another view that family has always been your safe haven. What's the use of looking at the scenery outside? After all, you are going home, and the scenery outside is not beautiful. Return to China early, and it is better to work near home. I don't think there is absolute right or wrong, just a generation gap, that's all. Remember not to quarrel, quarrel or lose your temper when communicating with your family. Rational communication is most important.