The two-and-a-half-year-old baby insists on listening to his mother's jokes.

At the age of 2, the baby's attachment to his mother has not decreased, but has become more vigorous. He can't leave his mother for 24 hours and won't let her do anything. This is really unbearable!

Let's take a look at the crux of the baby becoming a "small sticky cake".

It's always been mom

From appearing in the mother's belly to eating the mother's milk after birth, the strong dependence between the baby and the mother has never been relaxed.

Although with the enhancement of behavioral ability, the baby can sit and walk freely for a while, but he is so familiar with his mother's arms, smells and sounds. This familiar feeling can make the baby feel safe enough to relax himself.

Therefore, after 2 years old, the baby sticks to his mother from another angle, which shows that his mother has been with him all the time in his life after his birth, and the baby is very satisfied with his mother's care.

Mom is gone.

When the mother returned to work after maternity leave, the baby didn't understand. He only knew that the person who was particularly dependent disappeared inexplicably, so he tried his best to call his mother back by crying.

If the mother doesn't handle it well enough at this stage, this experience will remain in the baby's consciousness.

The feeling of "mom is gone" will remind him from time to time and make him feel anxious.

Mother and baby spend too little time together.

Mom is too busy at work. From the day of maternity leave, the mother will not only be separated from the baby for a period of time, but also the probability of the baby appearing when he is energetic and awake is decreasing.

This kind of insecurity that you will never see your mother will make your baby hold on to every minute with your mother.

Dad and his family went into battle together.

Taking care of the baby is not a mother's business. As long as dad, grandpa or other family members are around on weekdays, you can do something you are good at or your baby likes with your baby.

For example, if the baby likes to let his father be a big horse, then play and ride the big horse for a while. Grandpa likes to play puzzles with the baby. Let's do them together.

Slowly, when the mother is not around the baby, other caregivers can also make the baby happy, and the baby will not be so dependent on her mother.

I'll play "delayed appearance"

For example, if the baby asks his mother to play with him for a while, her mother can promise, but she doesn't need to appear immediately. The baby can play first while waiting.

Bring out a "wild child"

If the weather permits, try to let the baby play and exercise outdoors. When he comes into contact with more people and things, he won't pay full attention to his mother.

When "sticky cake" becomes "wild child", it is easy for mother to stay alone for a while.