Tell a real joke

Maybe it's because your usual performance is a little messy, so they don't know you a little. They don't know you when you are joking or serious, and neither do people who really know you. You can try to look at this problem this way.

One: You tell the truth and make him feel like a joke. He may have a judgment in his heart, which should be a joke. Maybe your truth is like a joke, really a joke.

Two: You can change your performance and show it to him seriously. Then tell him a joke. What is serious and what is joking? You hurt him when you were serious. Pretend to hurt him when joking. In this way, whether joking or serious, he will take you seriously.

Three: Maybe it's because the credibility of what you said is very low. Or when you tell the truth, your mentality is that you think you are fake. Make him think you're joking. Actually, you are telling the truth. When you tell the truth. I feel very relaxed. So it makes her feel. It's so fake. If you're lying, You will make up a heavy one. A very convincing reason. So it's easy to convince others. It feels like you're not lying. Then what you said is not credible. Or when you tell the truth, your mentality is that you think you are fake. Make him think you're joking. Actually, you are telling the truth. When you tell the truth. I feel very relaxed. So it makes her feel. It's so fake. If you're lying, You will make up a heavy one. A very convincing reason. So it's easy to convince others. It feels like you're not lying.

Exchange sincerity for sincerity and take it seriously.