It’s very tiring to fall in love with an innocent boy, not an innocent love novice

What do girls care about more in love?

Falling in love is a process of mutual choice and mutual attraction. Love is like when you are walking on the road and see a woman coming towards you, she will also look at you to see if you are the one she likes.

Contrary to the expectations of most brothers, most girls are not "only about money" in relationships. I care more about the feeling of getting along!

The older leftover girl I tried so hard to persuade knew exactly what kind of boy she was suitable for, but the moment she saw a handsome guy, she automatically filtered out other conditions.

Being handsome, having high emotional intelligence, and being comfortable with each other are all good feelings, and sometimes they are more attractive to women than shopping.

But the brother who lacked experience in getting along with women said: Wait until I make enough money!

If you are already in your 20s, telling a woman that you have never been in love will only mean that you are not attractive enough. Another brother who has the same conditions as you but has four love experiences is more popular with women.

Zero experience does not mean being innocent and real, but means poor social skills, lack of masculine charm, and even "honesty" and "dumbness".

Brothers who have had love experience spend more time with women, understand women's tastes better, are more interested in girls' appetites in terms of personal image and living habits, and can better understand women's psychology. I know that at different stages of a relationship, when a woman calls me "aunt", I should drink hot water, tell a joke, or give her brown sugar.

If you are nervous when talking to a slightly better-looking girl, express over-commitment, get excited about little things, express loyalty and make promises at every turn. She will eventually leave you because she is too tired and her temper has become arrogant.

Those who hate, get entangled, and seek life and death out of love are mostly novices in love.

How can I change if I have no experience in love?

First of all, communicate more with girls and learn how to get along with girls.

Don’t think about pursuing and confessing your feelings as soon as you come up. Be friends first and ask her what women think.

Secondly, expand your channels for understanding the opposite sex.

Third, try to joke with the woman instead of lowering your profile or spending money to be nice to her.

Don’t be afraid that women will ignore you because of your one or two jokes, as long as they are not excessive and involve suppression, insults and other personal attacks. Girls will find you easy to get along with. Give you more opportunities to show yourself.

Fourth, dare to refuse a girl’s unreasonable request, and even deny it when she is unreasonable.

Your blind tolerance will make you become a good old guy without any sense of "power" as a man. Even if you are in love, women will bully you.

If she steps on your bottom line, tell her your displeasure and tell her: You make me uncomfortable.