My boyfriend’s dad asked me to buy ginseng for him

Of course this is not a good request.

First of all, it is very shameful to "use" a medical insurance card. Not speaking from a policy perspective, it is too much to say this among acquaintances. My relative once I asked my mother to prescribe diabetes medicine, but in the end I was too embarrassed to insist. It was still a necessary medical expense, not supplements like ginseng. His father is so ungrateful to say this. You have never met his parents, but they can ask you like this without saving any face for themselves. I am embarrassed to say anything that is too unpleasant. After all, they are also your elders. .

Secondly, you have to think about the potential meaning of their request:

1. This family is so calculating. If you don’t have a job, you will have no income, and they can do their best to dig out Your "use value", then when you make money and have more "use value", why don't you be eaten alive!

2. As mentioned before, it is really shameful for this family to make this request. There are two possibilities. Either they don’t care about what you think of them at all, and then they may not care about you in the future. They plan to accept you as their daughter-in-law; or their family really doesn’t care about face - which is even more terrifying. If a person doesn’t even care about face, then his bottom line is unlimited. You don’t know what else he can do to make you intolerable. things.

Have you not let your parents know that you have such a boyfriend? If you tell them directly, they may have a bad impression of your boyfriend. I advise you not to say it. Just say that your father doesn't agree. If your boyfriend has a conflict with you because of this, then you can change your boyfriend. Because in his heart you are not even worth 100 yuan.