What do women who are involved in "extramarital affairs" want from men?

What do women who are involved in "extramarital affairs" want from men? 1, to be a man, Ms. Wang is 28 years old, married to her husband for two years and has no children. She will betray her family, and to a great extent, she won't get the favor of her husband in marriage. After marriage, Ms. Wang became a housewife, and her husband was the head of a company and often had to socialize. Although her husband can give Ms. Wang a sum of money every month, she doesn't know her husband's income, and she can't get her partner, companionship and love. In such a "widowed" marriage, Ms. Wang met other friends of the opposite sex online and then chose to defect at home. In fact, in this marriage, both people are at fault. Ms. Wang's husband can give Ms. Wang more love. In that case, Ms. Wang may cherish this marriage.

Secondly, Ms. Wang did not choose to be a housewife, but chose a job, so that she could understand her husband's hardships. It is not difficult to see that the essential reason why a woman who lacks love in marriage is deeply involved in extramarital affairs is to meet her spiritual needs and hope to get the love of a third party. Some people think it's a joke to have an affair and find true love. The same is true of objective facts. If you don't even know how to cherish your marriage, then you are too rude about your extramarital affairs. A woman who wants a man's love in an extramarital affair must keep her eyes open and not waste her feelings. Otherwise, you will only make yourself scarred in the end.

2. If you want a man, Ms. Qian Chen is 25 years old, married for one year and has no children. My husband and I have been separated for a long time, with a difference of 10 years. It is impossible for two people to have in-depth communication. At that time, Ms. Chen married him out of a sense of security. After all, she is so much older than herself that she can take care of herself to some extent. However, I didn't expect that after marriage, the other party changed the previous generous treatment and rarely spent money on themselves. The two lacked mastery. Ms. Chen finally chose to defect at home, and the third party was a married man with a successful career.

After all, Ms. Chen's daily expenses are not very large. She has to find someone who is willing to invest in herself to support her high-consumption quality of life. I have to admit that this kind of thinking for nothing can hardly make us really happy. When a woman is old, the bottom line is money, but money must be earned by herself, so that she can have the courage to come out. Boys who have extramarital affairs give you money, not to cherish it, but to compensate you in exchange for benefits. What's the point of this exchange?

3. The mystery of pure pursuit of perfection Ms. Zhang is 30 years old, married for 5 years and has a child. Ms Zhang often has extramarital affairs, but she is still chilling about her marriage. At that time, when she married her husband, she really loved him and didn't even want a bride price. However, after marriage, all this changed. When giving birth to a child, my husband watches TV and eats takeout at home. Later, after Ms. Zhang gave birth to a child, her husband was not at home and she could only let her mother take care of the child. Such a marriage made him see no hope, and then she had to choose to betray her family. In fact, for Ms. Zhang, her choice is undoubtedly a last resort.

Because he can't get a sense of belonging and value in marriage, he will naturally find another mystery in extramarital affairs. There must be something wrong with marriage in essence, otherwise it will only lead to the end. For women, at any time, they should try their best to maintain their marriage, instead of choosing to defect at home in pursuit of perfection and novelty. After all, the feeling of not being recognized is to bring shame on yourself. These unrealistic feelings can't pursue perfection. Only by following one's heart and cherishing the happiness now is the most valuable.