What is the fuse of divorce?

Divorce fuse 1. Change each other like looking in the mirror. We all know that women like to look in the mirror. When looking in the mirror, I always like to dress myself up to improve my recognition. Women have the same habit for the person who faces the pillow every day, hoping to turn him into a person who looks pleasing to the eye, and it is better to be more and more like himself, regardless of his appearance, temper and habits. However, the change and the man's forbearance eventually caused a quarrel and even broke out into a war before divorce. Divorce fuse II. Women who have different standards for themselves think it is normal to play with friends in the future, but they are never allowed to do this to their husbands, for fear that they will have sex with each other. It is normal for women to think that there are contradictions between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and they don't have to work hard to repair the relationship, but their husbands must treat their parents-in-law unconditionally. Women think it's normal and innocent to chat with the opposite sex, but husbands are taboo to chat with the opposite sex. Husband and wife have completely different double standards, and they will divorce if they are not careful. The fuse of divorce 3. It's all men's fault. This kind of woman thinks she is right in everything, always scolds her husband and thinks it is the man's fault. To understand, for her husband, this kind of woman is a mermaid before marriage, and becomes a big shark after marriage, biting her shortcomings all day. Men also want to save face. If they have a bad temper and don't understand, they will take the initiative to apologize or communicate, and quarreling will also lead to divorce. Divorce fuse 4. The other party should do a lot of things. After marriage, the woman remains in love. She doesn't know how to share the responsibility with her husband. She still asks her husband to take care of herself as when she was in love, and she doesn't want to do housework or go out to work. Everything is left to the husband. If it is a family with good economic conditions, there may be fewer contradictions. If the economy can't support it, then war at home is bound to start and lead to the topic of divorce. Don't talk about divorce all day. Divorce is not good for the woman and the whole family unless the man really has serious moral problems. For the sake of family harmony and avoiding divorce, please ignore small things and tolerate each other! What are the triggers for divorce? Husband and wife lack dedication. In the previous generation, more couples were in trouble, and they attached importance to basic moral standards, family responsibilities and marriage values. However, the traditional concept of marriage is being broken by modern men and women, who seldom think of each other in marriage. Once the family situation is bad, some people are unwilling to pay for each other and make sacrifices. Couples lack family awareness. Nowadays, most young people advocate themselves and think more about marriage. For example, whoever makes more money is in charge, just be happy when things happen, often go home late or stay out for the night for no reason, and the word divorce is often on the lips, regardless of the feelings of the other party and the elders, going its own way, the family atmosphere is weak, and the marriage foundation becomes very fragile. According to the traditional concept of marriage, "the man is the master outside and the woman is the master inside", and the man is working hard outside, and the woman should undertake more housework. But nowadays most young people are only children, and many girls seldom do housework at home before marriage. I am busy with my career and work after marriage and don't want to undertake family affairs. Therefore, the husband and wife have long been at odds over housework, which has affected their feelings. Therefore, women's "housework incompetence" is also a "soft rib" in modern marriage life. What is the fuse of divorce? 3 1. Problems in marriage are considered to be the fault of the other party. In marriage, there will inevitably be bumps and bumps. However, as long as there are problems in daily life, many couples will blame each other as if they have no problems at all. I don't know how to tolerate and understand, and I don't know how to be considerate and inclusive. In the long run, it will eventually lead to both sides being very hard and tired, and naturally they don't want to continue this marriage. 2. Take the other person's contribution to you for granted. As a husband and wife, you really need to pay. However, we can't always let one party keep paying, and treat the other party's contribution as a deserved performance. Husband and wife should maintain a good relationship and a good family, and understand that both sides should pay and sincerely pay for each other. No one should do this. 3. Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. Couples always do this. When they encounter problems, they are always more tolerant of themselves, and once the other party has problems, they are also very strict with each other. For example, the woman asks the man to be kind to his parents, but the woman treats the man's parents herself. Such standards are different, which will eventually lead to the imbalance of the other party's mentality and lead to problems in marriage. Always plan to change each other as husband and wife, don't try to transform each other into perfection in your own mind, there is no such thing as perfection in the world. Everyone has his own personality and lifestyle. If you want to change each other blindly, the final result is that the other party can't stand it and affect the relationship between husband and wife.