Patty Hou and Jay Chou (Why Patty Hou and Jay Chou are not worthy of each other)

The version of "Zhou Zhou's unforgettable love" that has been circulated on the Internet over the years is basically this: Jay Chou met the sweetest and most dignified anchor in Taiwan, Patty Hou, while doing a show, and the sky was thundering and the earth was on fire, and love surged into him. Breaking through the screen and appearing on shows constantly; after being photographed, Jay Chou changed his low profile and admitted his love openly, but a passionate love was eventually ruined by unscrupulous paparazzi.

Several famous "unforgettable" scenes include: Patty Hou cried bitterly when they broke up;

Jay Chou is suspected of using Liu Genghong's Weibo to leave a message to Patty Hou; "May you be happier than me, than I am." I'm happy."

Jay Chou told the media that he couldn't hide his sadness when Patty Hou was getting married...

Later, he said that he would send flowers to the other party's wedding.

Of course, there is also this. Jay Chou wrote "I Don't Deserve" and shot a MV to express the sadness of this breakup. "Jie Girl" Zeng Kaixuan played the heroine of the MV (everyone knows that she is Patty Hou), leaving a sentence Famous line: "It would be great if you were not Jay Chou."

More than ten years ago, "I Don't Deserve" caused heated discussions in gossip forums because of its extremely obvious direction, but I was I would like to ask: What is the obstacle to this relationship problem?

Let’s talk about this MV created by Jay Chou himself. The key plot is: the man is too busy at work and doesn’t answer the phone. The woman will be sad. When we watch a movie together, we have to wear hats and sit far apart. It’s hard to eat. Deng Feng was also chased and intercepted by the media until he fled.

So what? So what? Since Zhou Houlian has been publicized for a long time, why can't we watch a movie and have dinner together? Just shoot~

(△Just shoot~)

In the MV of "I Don't Deserve", the heroine asked Jay Chou: "Can we have an ordinary relationship? ”

Which one is more disturbing and looks more “extraordinary”: someone filming you on a date vs. immediately stopping the date and running away when you see the camera? What's going on? Is it embarrassing? Are you afraid of being known? Can't be seen? When ordinary employees are dating, their colleagues may see them and spread the word to the company for gossip. Wherever there are people, gossip happens, so what if you are gossiped about?

And some people said that when Patty Hou fell in love with Jay Chou, the media was really unfriendly! !

First of all, let’s go back to 2005, fifteen years ago, when Zhou Houlian was exposed in Japan. What is the thing that shocked us gossip kids the most?

At that time, we all thought that "Double J" Jay Chou and Jolin Tsai were a definite official match. Everyone agreed that they only needed an official announcement to be together!

Because "Double J Love" has been going on for a long time, when "Zhou Hou Love" was exposed, the key words the media looked for were "love triangle", "cheating", etc. These negative comments were first directed at Jay Chou.

In addition, because Patty Hou's mother Lin Yueyun had two controversial relationships, the first time she intervened in the marriage of producer Hou Shihong and gave birth to Patty Hou, and the second time she had a relationship with Qiu Jiaxiong, the husband of her friend Cai Guizhao, Patty Hou Call Qiu Jiaxiong "papa". Putting her family past and the rumors of "double J" together, after Zhou Houlian was exposed, Patty Hou was accused by public opinion of being an "illegitimate daughter" and "inheriting genes from a third party."

Taiwanese socialite Guan Ying published a book called "Flu" in 2009, which specifically wrote about Patty Hou's family gossip, which aroused the curiosity of netizens on both sides of the Taiwan Strait about Patty Hou's mother. This is a story for later.

Patty Hou first appeared in Taiwan’s media industry. She reported serious news. Her resume stated that she was well-educated and fluent in both Chinese and English. Her image on the anchor stage was sweet and majestic, and she was full of energy even when she was laughing out of control. , becoming the dream lover of all Taiwanese audiences, especially male audiences. She was also rumored to have had an affair with Lien Chan's son Lian Shengwen, so she was defined as a "socialite" by the media.

Such female public figures are easily criticized for "pretending to be innocent" and "scheming." The "third party" questioning after Zhou Houlian was exposed has aggravated these negative comments.

Jay Chou's last "Double J" scandal gave people the impression of being philandering and unreliable. After Zhou Houlian was exposed, negative reports continued. Some said that Jay Chou and Jolin Tsai had rekindled their old relationship, some said that Jay Chou had a new love, and some said that Jay Chou had a new love. Some people say that Patty Hou is too tight on people and Jay Chou is miserable.

Jay Chou has always hated paparazzi. When traveling with Patty Hou, he would beat the paparazzi when they came to take pictures.

After the conflict with the paparazzi, he posted "dog-fighting articles" online, using "dog" and "it" to refer to the candid media.

However, the love affairs of public figures are inevitably disturbed. Apart from venting his emotions, has Jay Chou ever cared about Patty Hou's pressure?

Wu Zongxian summarized the reason for Zhou Houlian's breakup: Patty Hou wanted to get married, but Jay Chou was not in a hurry. He was very pessimistic about marriage.

There was a stir after the breakup was announced. The media reported that Jay Chou’s response to the breakup was: “I never said we were together.” Jay Chou’s fans believed that the media’s erroneous report was taken out of context.

Patty Hou herself said: "I didn't say that either."

After breaking up with Patty Hou, Jay Chou concluded: "I was guilty of not handling my relationship well. I can handle such a good girl like this. In a short time, I don’t want to fall in love anymore!"

But has he really reflected on it? Patty Hou is already married, and Jay Chou disturbs her because of his personal affairs.

In 2012, Jay Chou and Quinlivan were rumored to be in a relationship. Jay Chou also made a request to the media, saying that if the front was photographed, he would be interviewed. When the media photographed their date, Jay Chou also said that one front and one profile do not equal two. From the front, you have to take a picture of Zhou Hou in love with Yu Daikanyama.

Taiwanese media used the term "second harm" to describe Jay Chou's move. Patty Hou responded: He is under great pressure.

Therefore, Zhou Hou Lian started with Patty Hou reporting her relationship publicly and Jay Chou confessing his love for the first time after his debut, but it ended quickly. After the shooting of the "I Don't Deserve" MV, fans spread the word "It's all helpless" and "It's all It's the media's fault." It probably means that Jay Chou put a filter on himself, and the fans helped him deepen the filter.

Judging from his personality and living habits, Zhou Hou will indeed not last long, so there is nothing to regret.

Patty Hou is a perfect and elegant high-tech female anchor. She is also a "socialite" with a complicated family background. She grew up in rumors and rumors. She is under great pressure. She has been burdened with too much since she was a child. She is easily nervous and constantly pursues perfectionism. , also has a very stubborn personality. The more others doubt her, she wants to prove herself.

Perhaps the identity of mother Lin Yueyun made her more demanding for her daughter to live up to her expectations. She gave Patty Hou an extremely strict education. If Patty Hou talked back, her mother would pour milk on her.

Patty Hou, who is such a perfectionist, fell into a reputation crisis after falling in love with Jay Chou, and the pressure became even greater.

Whenever she encounters criticism, Patty Hou’s sentiment is: “Keep everything low-key so as not to be exploited by the media.” (But what did Jay Chou do? Why can’t Jay Chou give the woman a sense of security of unconditional support? )

The small details don’t match, for example, Patty Hou doesn’t like to do housework, while Jay Chou likes women who can do housework.

Patty Hou’s feeling after the breakup was: like returning to the world from hell. However, this relationship still affected her career direction, and she began to focus more on entertainment development.

Many people say that Patty Hou got married out of anger, which is also somewhat wishful thinking of CP fans.

Patty Hou is in a very happy state after her marriage. She smiles and praises her husband as "very good".

Patty Hou’s second son suffered from hemolytic disease, but she felt the strength of her family even more because of this. Her husband could give her the strength to help her change from her original “frightened bird” state to one that was stable and safe.

Husband and wife are equal in the family, and the husband is very active in taking care of the children and managing the family.

Zhang Xiaoyan commented that Patty Hou used to care about other people's opinions of her, but after getting married, she found confidence.

Reading Patty Hou's own words, we can also feel what "safe love" is and what "emotions that allow people to grow" are. Most of the time, relationships are internal, a mutual construction between two people, and have little to do with the so-called "unscrupulous paparazzi" and "idiots eating melons".

Some CP fans used the meme about Patty Hou appearing on a variety show and talking about Zhou Hou's love to prove that "it's unforgettable". This must have been rewritten before it can be used as a meme, right?