How can I forget the sadness and embarrassment of being rejected when I confess my love?

My thoughts are: First, you can read more books. Preferably books that have something to do with jokes. Second, you can listen to music and follow your own hobbies. Third, you can go to nearby attractions, take a walk, and take a look. Fourth, you can find a few friends, classmates, colleagues, or family members who can speak your mind, and have a drink...

The following is a specific reference method

1) Don’t be too Be too sad and don’t do extreme behaviors

It is inevitable to feel depressed and fall into a "sad" mood after confessing your love and being rejected by the other party, but you should not be too sad as it affects your normal life and work. It is recommended to self-regulate, do what you like to do, or talk to relatives and friends to restore calm.

Some were rejected and threatened with death or life: If you don’t agree to be my girlfriend/boyfriend, I will jump out of here...

This kind of behavior It's extreme and very selfish. I think that if I confess my love, I can win the other person's heart. In fact, it was wrong to confess my love with this idea from the beginning. I should understand one sentence, "Love is mutual. It’s not unrequited love.”

Correct confession requires first being confident enough, secondly being very attentive, and finally being confident and attentive at the right time and place, letting it take its course to express your emotions, which can easily improve your expression. success rate.

2) Analyze the reasons for failure and gain experience

Explain why you failed? This point must be analyzed to avoid making the same mistake next time. Some people never reflect on this issue after confessing their love. When the next time they confess their love, they fail again. Some people are rejected too many times and start to spread the problem. Cast a net and selectively fish.

I believe that only when people understand where they went wrong can they have the direction to change. For example, the reason why I was rejected by the other party this time was actually because I had a bad image. I was dressed sloppily, my hair was oily, and my shoes were dirty. Then next time I would make my image look better, that would be fine.

Summary: In the failure of confession, only by finding the root cause of the problem and prescribing the right medicine can we truly solve the problem and gain experience.

3) Try to confess your love a second time

After your confession is rejected, will you continue to confess your love? Some people say, no, they have already rejected me, and if I confess again, it will be so embarrassing and shameless, so I’d better give up and make another confession!

Failure is the mother of success. Choosing to quit once a confession fails is not a sign of lack of confidence or lack of love. The last time you failed to confess, maybe you didn't do enough, maybe you were too nervous, maybe you were too sudden and scared the other person. Why not try to confess again?

Don’t think that if you confess your love again, I will be worthless. The more you hint this to yourself in your heart, the less you dare to confess your love. Only after you try and work hard can you know the result.