As an older woman, what is your inner monologue?

As an older woman, I missed the era of love. In fact, when I was in college, an ordinary-looking boy tried very hard to pursue me, but I didn't agree. Looking back now, I really regret why I didn't agree to his pursuit, so that I didn't get married at the age of 32.

In fact, at this age, it is still awkward, but at the same time, I long for love and hope that there will be a prince charming in my life. However, reality and ideal are always far from each other. In fact, I have participated in many blind dates. But the other person doesn't meet my criteria for choosing a spouse. I can still choose from them when I am young. After all, they were all beautiful and young at that time. But now, at the age of 32, I still haven't found the other half. In my heart, I still regret it.

If I had promised that boy, I might be married now, and the marriage should be very happy. Some things are doomed to be irreparable, especially love. In this process, I have never met a congenial person. Maybe these are all secret arrangements. When attending blind date parties, I always compare this person in front of me with that boy in those days, and feel that the other person is inferior to him everywhere. Maybe I was really rude. Now that boy is also single. I once wanted to find him and even give him a call. However, on the phone, I can hear that he doesn't like me now.

Perhaps the love experience of that year has become another kind of emotion, which has nothing to do with love. My parents often urge me to get married as soon as possible, and now I have become very numb when dating. Or don't know what kind of love you need, and become very lonely in the world of love. And there are still eight years before forty. Assuming that there is no suitable person during this period, you may be lonely for life.

Love is scarce rather than excessive. As an older woman, don't marry yourself hastily, which is irresponsible. It is not only irresponsible to ourselves, but also harmful to our families, because only when we are happy can our families be happy. Parents, in particular, have broken their hearts for us. As daughters, they should know this. In fact, whether in life or at work, as long as you are good at discovering, there will always be people you like.

After simple communication, two people will have feelings, maybe? Legend? You had me at hello. Women are responsible for themselves, assuming that marriage is happy, then this is their fate, but it doesn't meet their expectations, so they would rather be single than take big risks. Love needs mutual understanding and tolerance. If the other party can't give these, then the marriage will definitely not be happy. If so, being single is also a good choice. Of course, in the process of communication, love should not be excluded. Welcome a brand-new tomorrow with an open mind and a good mood. Only in this way can you meet the person you like. When we produce positive energy, good luck will follow.